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Ooolalala thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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This whole suitation, akshara and natik have their own views about it. On one hand akshi says that rashmi should go back to house and she should try to adjust more and try to understand more. she is saying we should find a solution together and she is more saying that a girl should adjust and what will world think about it ect

but on the other hand Natik is saying that rashmi has all right to live her life. and he is saying we should not compare our relation with rashmi nikhil because we love each other but on the other hand they dont love each other. he also said that rashmi should not tie in a relationship which is hurting her. he also said that us and mohit nandini waited alot and didnt sent divorce papers like that.


these are akshi and natik views


I agree with Natik more. My questions is why a girl should adjust? why cant a boy try? Why would society always blames a girl for everything. and I do agree with natik that if there is a love between two people then no matter how big fight they are on, they will not sent divorce papers to each other and break their relationship.

Natik and akshi had a fight so as mohit nandini but they love each other so they didnt sented a divorce papers.

what you all think who is right?

akshara or natik?



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kala_09 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dont know i agree both were right in their places and ak always think there is always solution in every problem but nk on other hand think reshmi should not be with nikhil when they were comforable and he feels they dotn love each other he is thinking as her brother but later def he vl come with ak i feel hope so i dont know who is right and wrong waiting to see who wins
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dont think akshara is right. she should know that everyone is not like akshara. akshara is always a person who stay quiet and thats the reason she face so much problems that she never stand for herself so she expect same from others. The reason that akshara and natik marriage is succesful is becuase they both love each other from beginging. they never sent each other divorce papers to break their relation. Natik never drinked when there is a pooja going on. akshara never acted like rashmi


so I feel natik is right and akshara should understand natik.
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mozhie_dilsay thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with both views. Rasmi ll wait some time . But other hand naitik views also right . I have confuse
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sara marriage is life long commitment and cannot take any decisions immediately one thing i want to tell u same reshmi loved nikhil when he call her out and she too enjoyed and even she ignore gay3 after marriage she came to ss with nikhil hw she taunted nk and she is not matured its not mistake of her its mistake of the parents they want their daughters to get married so early i knwo every one cannot be akshara and every one cannot be naitik person to person differ but see reshmi said no to suraj that he is not modern or he dont like going out and all when she saw nikhil and she too liked it and now she dont like him really here nor naitik or akshara wrong here reshmi is wrong ak think that the problems can be solved nk as a brother he care for her and he want his sister to be happy but hw long yaar but divorce is not the solution here they can talk and def solution vl come for this v have to wait
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kala_09

Sara marriage is life long commitment and cannot take any decisions immediately one thing i want to tell u same reshmi loved nikhil when he call her out and she too enjoyed and even she ignore gay3 after marriage she came to ss with nikhil hw she taunted nk and she is not matured its not mistake of her its mistake of the parents they want their daughters to get married so early i knwo every one cannot be akshara and every one cannot be naitik person to person differ but see reshmi said no to suraj that he is not modern or he dont like going out and all when she saw nikhil and she too liked it and now she dont like him really here nor naitik or akshara wrong here reshmi is wrong ak think that the problems can be solved nk as a brother he care for her and he want his sister to be happy but hw long yaar but divorce is not the solution here they can talk and def solution vl come for this v have to wait



I am not going to blame rashmi for all the thing. yes she did mistake but normally in today generation, any girl would get attracted to a guy like nikhil. I could understand her and if I were in her place. I would have done the same thing but I blame nikhil for most part. As I said why did he sent divorce papers? it means he dont love rashmi that is why he did this because if a guy love a girl then he will not break her relationship like that to that girl. it clearly shows nikhil just want to use rashmi thats it. its just like other girls that he used.

Plus he told to rashmi that why are you out with your friends? well I guess the guy needs to call at himself first that he party and go on shopping with his friends everyday so then what rashmi did wrong if she is out with her friends.

A person should adjust and gave chance to her or his relationship but only if when there is love. if there is no love feelings or respect for each other then it is wrong to keep the relationship because if a person do then he or she regret his or her whole llife and if a kid happens then the poor kid also need to suffer whole life without doing the mistake and I see the same thing with rashmi nikhil relation. they dont love each other, they dont respect each other, they dont have any feekings with each other. their relation was just a lust and attraction which ends at a certain point of time then there is no need to keep the relation. its better for them to get seprated because right now both are not that old so they could bulid their own succesful lifes they way they want.

I do agree that divorce is not a solution to every problem but here in case of this relationship if they dont get seprated then they will make their lifes more worst. they dont love each other, they dont respect each other, they dont have any feelings for each other, they dont care about each other. it was just a physical attraction and money attraction so there is no point of keeping such relationship
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am totally with natik here...i agree that marriage is a life commitment and that is why people should think 100 times before getting married...but just because you already are married to the wrong person does not mean you have to suffer there...natik is right...reshmi should live her life and have a second chance...the truth is i blame the parents...when your daughter is so immature and barely out of her teens why are you getting her married...reshmi didnt even know herself...she didnt know what she wanted...and i dont think reshmi and nikhil ever loved each other...nikhil liked reshmi and it was all physical attraction for him..reshmi liked the glitz and glam and the independence she got in her life...she wasnt in love with nikhil but was in love with the life style...akshara is the kind of person who will make reshmi even stay in the marriage if nikhil was cheating on her...because according to akshara marriage is for life either way...personally i think they they should all give their opinions but then let reshmi make her own decision...this is her entire life...and if they are talking this easily of divorce it means that there was no relationship to begin with...i think both nikhil and reshmi are very young and this was not the right time for them to get married...plus they dont want to compromise either...and i cant blame them...nikhil is in his early 20s so of course he wants to have and enjoy himself and reshmi is still in the honeymoon phase...they dont know what marriage is or requires...but what surprised me is that except for natik everyone else was only worried about the family name...they didnt even ask their daughter that what is the problems you guys are going thorough...is he abusing you? is he cheating on you? all they care about is samaj...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv4games

I am totally with natik here...i agree that marriage is a life commitment and that is why people should think 100 times before getting married...but just because you already are married to the wrong person does not mean you have to suffer there...natik is right...reshmi should live her life and have a second chance...the truth is i blame the parents...when your daughter is so immature and barely out of her teens why are you getting her married...reshmi didnt even know herself...she didnt know what she wanted...and i dont think reshmi and nikhil ever loved each other...nikhil liked reshmi and it was all physical attraction for him..reshmi liked the glitz and glam and the independence she got in her life...she wasnt in love with nikhil but was in love with the life style...akshara is the kind of person who will make reshmi even stay in the marriage if nikhil was cheating on her...because according to akshara marriage is for life either way...personally i think they they should all give their opinions but then let reshmi make her own decision...this is her entire life...and if they are talking this easily of divorce it means that there was no relationship to begin with...i think both nikhil and reshmi are very young and this was not the right time for them to get married...plus they dont want to compromise either...and i cant blame them...nikhil is in his early 20s so of course he wants to have and enjoy himself and reshmi is still in the honeymoon phase...they dont know what marriage is or requires...but what surprised me is that except for natik everyone else was only worried about the family name...they didnt even ask their daughter that what is the problems you guys are going thorough...is he abusing you? is he cheating on you? all they care about is samaj...



you speaked my heart out.

Yes they only care about samaj and people. Personally whatever they will dp, samaj will blame them. they should not think about people, they should think about their daughter because at last there is no samaj when it comes to daughter happiness and her life.

For akshara, I could not blame her totally because in her way she is right too but she is also not understanding the whole point. akshara is really simple girl so she is not understanding the whole thing.

I also think they should get divorce and live their life the way they want and Singhania should understand that the people learn from their mistakes. if rashmi or nikhil made a mistake then it doesnt mean that they have to suffer for it in their whole life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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But i dont want any problem between naksh but one thing always there is a solution to every problem hope cv dont show naksh mu becoz of reshmi matter becoz their views were totally different and another thing nk only supporting reshmi all the family members were together with ak dont know yaar who ever wins but want naksh together no more problems between them

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Posted: 13 years ago
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aunty this topic is not about naksh mu. its about something else so it will be better if you dont bring naksh mu here.


As for family. they are wrong because they only care about people not their daughter and this time akshara is also wrong. there is solution to all problems but for this problem. its solution is sepration. if both get seprated they will stay more happy.

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