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Hey YRKKH-ians! 🤗
I am here AGAIN to post the DOTW(Discussion of the Week)
This Weeeks Topic is:
How Far Should One Go..??
The forum is filled with lot of topics regarding Akshara's regressive nature. So thought of doing some character and situation analysis.
We have seen how Gayatri dominates Akshara. Gayatri's nature has always being a dominating one. No one can deny that but the arrival of Naksh baby or should I say Gayatri's lalla has made it worse to tolerate. Even if someone try to make her understand,she's not ready to listen. Even Daddaji, Baisa, Naitik and at times her husband Rajbanna has lost this battle.
No doubt, her intention is good and she's caring towards Akshara and the baby , but most of the times she goes overboard with her scolding and domination.
Akshara respect her and that's why she don't back answer her in many matters and obey her instructions diligently. Akshara ignores many things about Gayatri cause she respect her and don't want to hurt her. In-fact its in Akshara's nature that she don't hold grudges or anger against anyone.
Now if someone says Why all anger towards Naitik only. Then, According to me, Akshara has never expressed her feelings openly to anyone except Naitik and Varsha. She is completely different person in front of Naitik and Varsha. She takes Naitik for granted ( which is not completely right) so expects him to understand her every time and to Naitik's credit he almost every time does.
People like Gayatri, Bindiya etc take undue advantage of Akshara's nature. Specifically Gayatri, She knows she can have her say in the house,so she'll ask Akshara to do whatever she feels is right,without worrying about Akshara's opinion on that matter.Also,as an elder of the family,is it right on her part to expect all others to do as she says?Shouldn't she for once,leave aside her thinking,and try to understand things from others POV?Is she doing the right thing in forcing Akshara to do things her way?
Similarly,Akshara,being the good and dutiful bahu that she is,is quietly obeying all Gayatri's instructions.She is ignoring her own likes and dislikes for Gayatri's sake and in return,she's not getting happiness.
Does a bahu ,and more importantly,a mother,have no say when it comes to her and her child's well being? Is she just supposed to do what the elders say since they are wise and more experienced?Is Akshara doing the right thing by following Gayatri's orders?
The question lies here is How far should you go to please your in-laws, to keep them happy????
How much should one sacrifice her own happiness for the sake of family?
For how long sould someone try to pacify things and try to resolve every dispute, when the other person is not really making any forward move? Should she continue her efforts?
Had u been in Akshara's place,would u raise objections when Gayatri would make u do something u dont feel like doing?If yes then how?OR would u just do whatever she says till a time comes when ur tolerance level drops and u just cant bear it any longer and then would u finally open ur mouth?Or would u keep quiet despite everything since u r the youngest bahu while Gayatri is an elderly person and u dont want to disrespect her?
Well friends this is all for this weeks discussion. Its a request please Don't compare any character even for giving example.
Please keep in mind IF's COC 😊 and Happy Discussing... 😃
Cheers Ashi...😃
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