doesnt a mother have a right? - Page 11

Originally posted by: shweta31

u are right that mother has also some right but what in case of varsha usko kaunsa usne uske mayke dhang se rehne diya tha...😕tab bhi use chain nahi tha tab bahu ke baby hone wala tha isliye natak ab akshi ke samey mai usko yeh yaad aa raha hai that she is a mother uska bhi haq hai beti pe...🤢4-5 days ko ek baar ko samajh bhi aata hai par 2 months khud sochke ajeeb nahi lag raha use...😡kya naitik ka baby pe koi right nahi hai woh nahi chayega ki last waqt uski wife uske saath ho yeh to kisi ne bhi nahi socha...😔apne hubby se door rehke akshi jada dukhi nahi hogi bhale hi mayke mai use sari luxuries milengi (this is my point of view plzz dont mind it)...😊

Originally posted by: divi4u

Wats wrong wid I-F??? 😡 Comments like nahi ho rahe

Originally posted by: Saraella

guys I am not saying akshara is bad daughter

I am just saying she always ignore her mayaka for her sasural happiness.

that is the whole point. she care more about her sasural than mayaka. she see her MIL sadness but she dont see her mom her real mom sadness.

now time for my thoughts.. 😆

@ bold: dis is wat gals have to learn after marriage to maintain good relations at their in-laws place 😔 n MILs dnt understands dis.. especially if they don't have daughter.. in akshi's case.. after nandu's marriage.. BM started to realize dat aksh k mom ko kaisa lagta hoga jab who nahi jaa pati jaise usko lagta hai jab uski beti nahi aa paai .. but abhi BM n g3 have changed a lot..

@ red: no friend I disagree wid u here.. its not like k she don't see her mom's sadness .. she does.. but who kar bhi kya sakti ahi.. jaise ki ek ladki ko always samjhaya jata hai "shadi ke baad.. always apne sasural ko priority dena" 😔 same wid aksh usko bhi wahi samjhaya gaya tha always.. n abhi jab who isse follow kar rhai hai toh y is RJ feeling bad?? Theek hai bura lagna is obvious.. but baar baar usko aksh k samne kyun show karna?? Kyun usse apne sasural k kaamo mei concentrate karne se rok rahi hai?

N rahi baat iski ke aksh ko rj ka dukh nahi dikhta.. toh wat makes u feel so?? I mean jab kabhi who nahi jaa pati usko hamesha dhyaan rehta hai k maa ko kaisa lag raha hoga 😔 but...

Originally posted by: divi4u

now time for my thoughts.. 😆

@ bold: dis is wat gals have to learn after marriage to maintain good relations at their in-laws place 😔 n MILs dnt understands dis.. especially if they don't have daughter.. in akshi's case.. after nandu's marriage.. BM started to realize dat aksh k mom ko kaisa lagta hoga jab who nahi jaa pati jaise usko lagta hai jab uski beti nahi aa paai .. but abhi BM n g3 have changed a lot..

@ red: no friend I disagree wid u here.. its not like k she don't see her mom's sadness .. she does.. but who kar bhi kya sakti ahi.. jaise ki ek ladki ko always samjhaya jata hai "shadi ke baad.. always apne sasural ko priority dena" 😔 same wid aksh usko bhi wahi samjhaya gaya tha always.. n abhi jab who isse follow kar rhai hai toh y is RJ feeling bad?? Theek hai bura lagna is obvious.. but baar baar usko aksh k samne kyun show karna?? Kyun usse apne sasural k kaamo mei concentrate karne se rok rahi hai?

N rahi baat iski ke aksh ko rj ka dukh nahi dikhta.. toh wat makes u feel so?? I mean jab kabhi who nahi jaa pati usko hamesha dhyaan rehta hai k maa ko kaisa lag raha hoga 😔 but...

Originally posted by: _charu_

my dear, u have wrong perception of indian society, specially joint families...what they showed in YR is the truth..the only diff. is that akshara is more than happy ignoring her maayka while most of the girls r unable to cut the umbilical cord...at the end of the day, parents r parents and if given a chance, who wud not wanna spend time with them? and after marriage , it's not regular but once in a while...nobody can fathom why in laws have a problem with it...just like gayitri HAS ! she wants her daughter in front of her but is not happy to send akshara to her maayka..

if akshara ignores her maayka, it's bec. her sasural ppl., specially gayitri n naitik, who want it that way..it's not exactly ignoring but they want her to give precedence to them, not Maheshwari's ! n as i said it's with everyone in reality , everyone ! as such, the person who sails in two boats will keep facing problems...if she doesn't ignore her maayka, she will have to ignore her sasural ...n after marriage, they r her immediate family ! it's easy to explain your parents but not your in laws...your parents will always understand that their daughter has her responsibilities but in laws will not...that way, akshara is the ideal woman...her parents can meet her anytime so therez no question of ignoring.

Originally posted by: leo4ever

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excellent, yes a mom has a right, but then even akshi has a right to do what she wants!!if she wants to be with her hubby she should and rajshri is an extremely possesive woman, she ddnt let varsha go to her moms place as aksh was coming and varsha should be here to greet her best friend ( dont know it was ealry shadi ki epis meimei) , when varsha was pregnant and at herm oms place initial days , she kept calling her up and irritating her, she in the end called her back, varsha actually is a really sweet bahu who tolerates all this possesivness. when aksh got married and she was depressed she wanted varsha to have a kid wthout any though of her marzi?? on another note, when she was living at aksh place, the way she was missing her husband, anxiously waiting for him to come , when he ddnt the way she was sad, cant akshra feel that way for her husband? why cant two parents share the joy of living ervery moment of the pregancy togehter, right now she isnt just a daughter she is wife and going to be a mother, it is her choice, if she wants to be with her husband then a mother doesnt have a right over the wife husband relation.

she is no longer a kid , she has her own life and she is allowed to make her decissions. i find it strange that everyone be it the saas, mom feel it is their call whereas it is just a decison of the parents to be, what they want to do with the kid and eachother.

Originally posted by: gutky

Charu di u spoke my mind.. 🤗 The real truth about this world is that EVERYONE IS SELFISH, THE DIFFERENCE IS WHO IS LESS... no matter its Rj or G3 somewhere down the lane both have acted mean n biased.. in short ALL mothers are hypocrite they have different sets of rules when it comes to their own daughters n DILs.. its mothers love n care that make them weak in front of their kids!!! 😃 but it's a hard core reality that after marriage certainly saas has an edge over mothers no matter how much we crib or try to deny this fact.. 😕 Coming back to akshi well I think she had emulated both her mayka n sasural very well.. initially wen she got married she was more exuberant abt mayka happenings (time and again she visited there) as she didn't dwell with dinos from heart but as the time passes bonding comes naturally n slowly the craze of mayka too slows down'now she has completely surrendered n changed her priorities with her inlaws her hubby kids n home. 😛