Naitik behaviour! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

I Dont think there is any question of right or wrong. It is the situation,condition,surrounding which is to be blamed. Akshara would be the last person to pull Naitik down or undermine him intentionally and Naitik would be the last person to compete with his own wife. RR ka toh sawal hi nahin utha as he is not worth to compete with Naitik. My views are neutral. I am trying to understand both sides of the coin.

Naitik was so excited with the preparations for Rashmi's wedding. He wanted his sisters wedding to be the best.

He appointed WP so that everything goes smoothly. It was his misfortune that WP was not upto the mark. Then RR and Nikhil's friends spiked his drink and the outcome was Naitik's fratured leg.
• Then they came to know that theft was done by WP employees.

In all these scenarios he found his decisions didn't turn right to top it all his injuries also making thing worse.Give it a thought guys before sangeet fiasco he was the one whom everyone look up-to for marriage preparation as brother of the bride and now leave aside doing work for the marriage he cant even bend down and pick the fruit from the floor and put it in the basket. People like RR,Mamaji and Baisa are not at all helping the cause... in fact they are making it worse for him. They are making him look miserable in front of others.He is frustrated about the situation...irritated about his sudden injuries. Akshara is his wife...he is closest to her than anyone else so she is the one who has to bear his frustration cause she will understand.

Akshara is no super woman as she is also doing her part of mistakes. She also want this wedding preparations to go smoothly just like Naitik. I strongly oppose the notion that she is doing it for appreciation...she is not that kind of person who would do things for appreciation. Look things from her POV

She got just two days to prepare for the wedding with almost no help from others.. ppl will say she has to share her work but with whom...Gayatri is in tension mode..BM and RB is of no use...DJ as eldest will not even bend and pick a thing leave aside working.Nandu can't run arround and do the work. Naitik can't do it cause of his fractured leg. So somebody has to take the responsibilty and she took it.
• Nobody except Akshara inquired about Naitiks leg...she was the one who reminded him about the medicine...asked him about the pain...she was the one who told him to sit and not aggravate his injury...it was her concern which Naitik took otherwise.

When you are busy round the clock...the work pressure takes a toll on you and it happened with Akshara too. Dont blame the poor girl for each and everything...Just like Naitik she too thought that he will understand her condition.

I think the perennial problem of Naksh has emerged again that is COMMUNICATION. They are very bad at communication and coordination. Looking at the precap I think both understood how childish they behaved in this whole marriage preparation. Ek kadam Naitik aage badhaye aur ek kadam akshara...Thoda Akshara understand kare aur thoda Naitik...I think this is what marriage ia all about.

It is completely my opinion no offence to anyone intended...😃

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

I Dont think there is any question of right or wrong. It is the situation,condition,surrounding which is to be blamed. Akshara would be the last person to pull Naitik down or undermine him intentionally and Naitik would be the last person to compete with his own wife. RR ka toh sawal hi nahin utha as he is not worth to compete with Naitik. My views are neutral. I am trying to understand both sides of the coin.

Naitik was so excited with the preparations for Rashmi's wedding. He wanted his sisters wedding to be the best.

• He appointed WP so that everything goes smoothly. It was his misfortune that WP was not upto the mark.
• Then RR and Nikhil's friends spiked his drink and the outcome was Naitik's fratured leg.
• Then they came to know that theft was done by WP employees.

In all these scenarios he found his decisions didn't turn right to top it all his injuries also making thing worse.Give it a thought guys before sangeet fiasco he was the one whom everyone look up-to for marriage preparation as brother of the bride and now leave aside doing work for the marriage he cant even bend down and pick the fruit from the floor and put it in the basket. People like RR,Mamaji and Baisa are not at all helping the cause... in fact they are making it worse for him. They are making him look miserable in front of others.He is frustrated about the situation...irritated about his sudden injuries. Akshara is his wife...he is closest to her than anyone else so she is the one who has to bear his frustration cause she will understand.

Akshara is no super woman as she is also doing her part of mistakes. She also want this wedding preparations to go smoothly just like Naitik. I strongly oppose the notion that she is doing it for appreciation...she is not that kind of person who would do things for appreciation. Look things from her POV

• She got just two days to prepare for the wedding with almost no help from others.. ppl will say she has to share her work but with whom...Gayatri is in tension mode..BM and RB is of no use...DJ as eldest will not even bend and pick a thing leave aside working.Nandu can't run arround and do the work. Naitik can't do it cause of his fractured leg. So somebody has to take the responsibilty and she took it.
• Nobody except Akshara inquired about Naitiks leg...she was the one who reminded him about the medicine...asked him about the pain...she was the one who told him to sit and not aggravate his injury...it was her concern which Naitik took otherwise.

When you are busy round the clock...the work pressure takes a toll on you and it happened with Akshara too. Dont blame the poor girl for each and everything...Just like Naitik she too thought that he will understand her condition.

I think the perennial problem of Naksh has emerged again that is COMMUNICATION. They are very bad at communication and coordination. Looking at the precap I think both understood how childish they behaved in this whole marriage preparation. Ek kadam Naitik aage badhaye aur ek kadam akshara...Thoda Akshara understand kare aur thoda Naitik...I think this is what marriage is all about.

It is completely my opinion no offence to anyone intended...😃

Originally posted by: pvlaks

Loved ur last para...thier main problem is the lack of communication...i agree...but tell me one thing why akshara is always talking sweetly to all members except naitik? why always showing chidchidapn to naitik only? talking in a blaming tone? i agree she loves him to the core...but something is missing ...this is my pov...
like all im a fan of naksh which means naitik and akshara😳

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

Same can be said about Naitik also he was speaking nicely to everyone except Akshara.He was lashing at her w/o any reason.Naitik also reserved chidchidapan only for Akshara. As far as I know Naitik took the responsibility of ordering Jaimala...then they had an argument and in anger he murmered something behind her back and left the phone there itself. She thought he has already ordered...it was instant reaction from her end when she got to know that jaimala was not ordered. I dont think she was blaming him...she was just questioning him.Thats why I said the main problem is communication.You cant blame only Akshara or Naitik in this situation. If Akshara is wrong then Naitik is also wrong and If Akshara is right then Naitik is also right.I dont blame either of them for their reaction...it is the situation which is making them to behave the way they are behaving.

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

Same can be said about Naitik also he was speaking nicely to everyone except Akshara.He was lashing at her w/o any reason.Naitik also reserved chidchidapan only for Akshara. As far as I know Naitik took the responsibility of ordering Jaimala...then they had an argument and in anger he murmered something behind her back and left the phone there itself. She thought he has already ordered...it was instant reaction from her end when she got to know that jaimala was not ordered. I dont think she was blaming him...she was just questioning him.Thats why I said the main problem is communication.You cant blame only Akshara or Naitik in this situation. If Akshara is wrong then Naitik is also wrong and If Akshara is right then Naitik is also right.I dont blame either of them for their reaction...it is the situation which is making them to behave the way they are behaving.

Originally posted by: moonlight08

i think naitik's getting irritated because everyone else is making him feel that he's good-for-nothing at the point..

i mean RR is always like "rehne de munna.. tujhse nhi hoga" this is not done na.. first because of u that poor guy is suffering.. and now ur the one who's leaving no stone unturned to bring him down!!

meanwhile akshara is also on a all time high maategiri.. isi wajah se shayad he's feeling left out and unwanted which is why he's getting irritated..

moreover with the plaster and an eye infection.. he must be feeling uncomfortable.. and hence he's getting frustrated..

Originally posted by: stuti_naksh4eva

kaumu.. dat dusnt mean akshi is at fault.. wat has she done

she's just so busy doing maategiri ki she doesn't realise naitik needs some care and attention from her..

Originally posted by: moonlight08

akshara is not totally at fault..

she's just so busy doing maategiri ki she doesn't realise naitik needs some care and attention from her..