dadaaji was right

Originally posted by: Sachi16

Well to me... Marriage took place at Girls side... now its Girl's family who shud decide how they want to treat Baaratis... it's their issue...after all it depends on many factors...

Rituals, Traditions & Financial condition of Girl's family... 😊

For Sinhania's Money is not a matter.. but Deora shudn't be deciding... the Venue... that is totally not their matter... IF Deora's want their Son's wedding to be Grand then they can organize a Grand Reception at a Big Hotel... if they have 1000 relatives & friends to invite... take few close in Baarat & other they can invite at Reception... Boy side can always do Reception to cover up or to make it grand... but why to interfear in Ladki wale's matter... 😕

It's totally on Singhania's whether they want it in House or outside... Singhania's have never interfeared in Akshi's family decision of Marriage or even Engagement... they did what they have to do... there was a reception... & that was done by Singhania's... that's how it shud be... 😊

Originally posted by: Sachi16

Well to me... Marriage took place at Girls side... now its Girl's family who shud decide how they want to treat Baaratis... it's their issue...after all it depends on many factors...

Rituals, Traditions & Financial condition of Girl's family... 😊

For Sinhania's Money is not a matter.. but Deora shudn't be deciding... the Venue... that is totally not their matter... IF Deora's want their Son's wedding to be Grand then they can organize a Grand Reception at a Big Hotel... if they have 1000 relatives & friends to invite... take few close in Baarat & other they can invite at Reception... Boy side can always do Reception to cover up or to make it grand... but why to interfear in Ladki wale's matter... 😕

It's totally on Singhania's whether they want it in House or outside... Singhania's have never interfeared in Akshi's family decision of Marriage or even Engagement... they did what they have to do... there was a reception... & that was done by Singhania's... that's how it shud be... 😊

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Ideally yes, this is the way to go but now the Singhania's are in a soup. Kyonki Deora's won't bat an eyelid when they call off the engagement/wedding if their demands are not met. Unka tho ladka hai & Nikhil ko Rashmi is just another girl🤢 It's up to the Singhania's whether they want it their way or follow Deora's orders. I think the Singhania's really don't have a choice. It's too late in the game to back out. Rashmi bhi shayad zidd karegi that it's either Nikhil or no one😆 So Deora's win🤢

Originally posted by: saru.g

I completely agree with u sachi... If doera's want it be grand... then they can arrange their reception as they want... in a five star hotel... but marriage has to happen according to ladki wali... I dont know y naitik n gayatri r feeling as if it is competition of who would be making better... y to compare both actually??

Ya I seriously didn't get point of competition... Why you want to look superior...

you do your way.. & leave them to decide what they want... same applies to Deora's also... But this is ideal as Sari di said...

So, let say they want their Samdhi to do how they want... then seat & discuss... if Deora's saying do this way.. then Singhania's can accept some ideas & then make Deora's understand your traditions... but they are not willing to say & discuss in a decent manner...

Originally posted by: Sachi16

I agree with you here Sari di... Deora can say that either wedding shud be done their way or no wedding... but then that reflects their mentality... Singhania's can judge Deors's... Kitne Pani me hai Deora.. pata chal jayega... coz anyone with some sense or values will not force Ladki Wale to do according to them... 😊

But Ideally SInghania's still can put their ideas in a nice manner... without being so loud or anything they can still sort out this issue... I don't feel that Deora's will directly reject if DJ says that its their Traditions... 😃