do people like naitik really exist.?? - Page 8

i too totally love naitik yaaar...
what a caring hubby...
i dream that my hubby should be like naitik...

Originally posted by: gutky

awesome awesome awesome.. 👏 ohh di i'm bowl over ur explanations skills ... its really inspiring to read ur post every time... 🤗

but as usual i'm here to defend akshi... 😆 yaah agreed that naitik is straightforward n expressive in his likes n dislikes which i really appreciate n had also played a key role in success to their marriage ... but their relation is conquer coz of akshi's nature too.. if u expect both the couple to be grumpy n stubborn den i doubt their marriage will work ...😕 i think either of the couple should be more calm n composed mind wen other is of diverse nature.. as we say opposite attracts each other... n hence Naksh compliment each other thoroughly... i agree akshi is very nervous, timid, impulsive but she believes that her happiness lies in family's unity n peace at home more than anything else .. she try her best to avoid any misunderstanding n keep apologizing ... but that doesn't mean that she is wrong n others r right.. it only means that she gives more value to relationship infact much more than her personal ego... 😊

Good post by every one 👏 I. Wish I can partisipate but just want to say one word yes I am the lucky one I have naitik in my life. And I agree with you charu that if we have to live togather in join family just ignor some things and take it with. Smile and don't take it in your heart.

Wow, good discourse guys, Topic went from Naitik to Naksh👏 Very true, Naitik is who is because of Akshara. They complement each other very well. One completes the other. That is the power of love, makes marriage a beautiful institution.


Initially I thought they did some injustice with Akshara's character showing her as perfect in all aspects, perfect beti, bahu, vagera, vagera but she wasn't a perfect biwi. This is now changing she is slowly becoming one since the batwara, she has given more preference to Naitik than anyone else. She wanted make sure he was happy before she shared the news of the baby👏 His choti choti batein means a lot to her now. Hur waqt maa, maa nahi karthi😳 She is fiesty when she argues with Naitik, apna haq jatati hai, I find that very endearing😍 Thoda maatagiri aur kamu karo pls...🤣

In the quest to show Naitik as a perfect husband I think he is losing his personality. I am not saying he should go back to his old ways. I want them to find a balance in his character, a more realistic Naitik rather than just a dreamer. I am hoping the track ahead will lead to that. As a couple, the mahanta is becoming too hard to believe. They have a perfect solution to every problem. Pls don't use them to expose Nikhilji🤢 Aur DJ jhaap kum kardo, he is not a baby; concentrate on your little one...😳 As dadi would say it's a important padaav in every couple's lives, sharing the joys of parenthood...😍

Originally posted by: FLGators

Wow, good discourse guys, Topic went from Naitik to Naksh👏 Very true, Naitik is who is because of Akshara. They complement each other very well. One completes the other. That is the power of love, makes marriage a beautiful institution.


Initially I thought they did some injustice with Akshara's character showing her as perfect in all aspects, perfect beti, bahu, vagera, vagera but she wasn't a perfect biwi. This is now changing she is slowly becoming one since the batwara, she has given more preference to Naitik than anyone else. She wanted make sure he was happy before she shared the news of the baby👏 His choti choti batein means a lot to her now. Hur waqt maa, maa nahi karthi😳 She is fiesty when she argues with Naitik, apna haq jatati hai, I find that very endearing😍 Thoda maatagiri aur kamu karo pls...🤣

In the quest to show Naitik as a perfect husband I think he is losing his personality. I am not saying he should go back to his old ways. I want them to find a balance in his character, a more realistic Naitik rather than just a dreamer. I am hoping the track ahead will lead to that. As a couple, the mahanta is becoming too hard to believe. They have a perfect solution to every problem. Pls don't use them to expose Nikhilji🤢 Aur DJ jhaap kum kardo, he is not a baby; concentrate on your little one...😳 As dadi would say it's a important padaav in every couple's lives, sharing the joys of parenthood...😍

Originally posted by: gutky

again here di it depends upon family to family... varsha is really lucky to get inlaws like maheswaris who r more sensible n adjusting ... but akshi ko tho dino's mile.. i mean even if she tries to be tactful she'll wont survive thanks to her over possessive inlaws...😕 but yaah i completely agree wid u ki in today's scenario if any1 acts as timid no doubt everyone will take her for granted.. hence i myself feels that its really important to have ur saying whenever necessary..not actual cribbing abt atleast be loud n clear in watever u desire ...😊 n also i agree atleast i've not come across any such person who is as selfless as akshi but di i've also not come across any inlaws which is like singhanis zoo... i mean they r not from this planet for sure... i feel they r more ancient than baba adam ka zamana ...itne restrictions nobody has ...😆

i personally believe in forgive n forget.. dont know y may be coz of my upbringing but i can never argue with my elders unless its extremely necessary just like akshi... but they also in turn always appreciate my nauture of being happy n content..😊

Originally posted by: _charu_

infact Vini, there r in laws worse , worst than Singhania's...they r very nice ..imagine if Gayitri was like Rukmani 😆 rest, like u said, every family is different...diff. rules diff. thinking...tact should work with them but it's not possible for everyone to think tactfully..that happens only when therez a desire...akshara toh never tried...she's happy being the obedient bahu...ideally, we wud love to watch the "smart n tactful" akshara on TV coz she is a heroine..anything is possible for her 😆 and then, if she can do it with naitik and M's then she can try a little bit on Singhania's also...possible sab hota hai, one should have the brains...by hook, crook, hit n miss, trial n error KUCH toh hoga..😆 she doesn't need to go too far..apne pati se seekh le kuch. neither she takes his help, nor ask him, nor use his position to her benefit, ulta lecture him ke he's wrong, he should follow the rules coz that's the only one funda of living in a joint family peacefully

Originally posted by: _charu_

yes..that transformation i don't like...naitik is doing too much of daddaji these days 🤢 Akshara ka ma ma jaap and naitik has now found daddaji ! ur very right Sari...but balance nahi hoga...it's not possible in real life also...he has started understanding Akshara more now..much more than the courtship days..that happens only when 2 ppl. start living with each other...it's natural...but akshara ko thoda apne jaisa banane ki jagah, he has become like akshara 🤢 not just mahanta , note his language "shaleen vyakti se milwana hai" 🤣 is there a female version of "maate"? naitik toh wohi ban gaya hai

i agree with u abt akshara..after batwara, therez some change in her...trust me, our happiness will not last long..😆

Yup, Akshara has absolutely no personality. How can you earn respect when you don't stand for anything? Everyone's opinion is her opinion. Aise kab tak chalega? You do not have to be confrontational to get your point across; even ignoring does wonders. In fact, if you ignore & just let it go, the other side is always left wondering & feels more insecure. Kum se kum wohi try kar lethi rather just blindly tow the line. Waise aajkal she has definitely shown some change but I'm not sure if it will last. Kuch apna bhi sochne lagi hai & she is trying her best to stay away from her maatagiri...Naitik needs to stop it too coz the promise he made to Rashmi was a little troubling. Maybe Nikhilji ki jasoosi will be on them...🥱As a bhai he has to do all he can but baar baar getting themselves in trouble is kind of getting repetitive & 🥱 Kuch hatke sochna zaroori hai for the CV's...

Originally posted by: FLGators

Yup, Akshara has absolutely no personality. How can you earn respect when you don't stand for anything? Everyone's opinion is her opinion. Aise kab tak chalega? You do not have to be confrontational to get your point across; even ignoring does wonders. In fact, if you ignore & just let it go, the other side is always left wondering & feels more insecure. Kum se kum wohi try kar lethi rather just blindly tow the line. Waise aajkal she has definitely shown some change but I'm not sure if it will last. Kuch apna bhi sochne lagi hai & she is trying her best to stay away from her maatagiri...Naitik needs to stop it too coz the promise he made to Rashmi was a little troubling. Maybe Nikhilji ki jasoosi will be on them...🥱As a bhai he has to do all he can but baar baar getting themselves in trouble is kind of getting repetitive & 🥱 Kuch hatke sochna zaroori hai for the CV's...