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Posted: 14 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: krutiv100

i think what he said was not wrong and gayatri took the wrong way,but i guess the tone of voice he used was not right..afterall she is his mum. but his mum made a big issue over it like he insulted her or something all he said was don't call me munna infront of clients.
Akshara annoys me..forgodsake girl support your hubby....she could have said to him, i understand where you are coming from and im totaly with you but we need to tell them things without then getting offended or causing a mountain over a molehill e.t.c but she went to say i felt bad so imagine how bad maa felt you shouldn't have said this,it was wrong.

poor naitik. 😔


completely agree with u..But we just cant expect such sensible support from maa ke cheli..Maa ke dukh ke aage use kabhi Naitik ka POV samaz aaya hai???Never she only know ki buddhas naraaz nahi hona chahiye..chaahe uske liye sahi ki galat kyu naa banana pade. Pata nahi ye ladki khud ka dimaag kab chalaegi..🤔 I dont know wo din kabhi aayega bhi yaa nahi jab Aksh Naitik ko support karegi..😔
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Posted: 14 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: _charu_


2 weeks back she was asking him to grow up ! now she's saying "munna bada ho gaya hai" 🤢

he is a complan boy🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: vim916

akshara was not wrong and she was apologising on behalf of her husband. she cares about natik but she knew natik was wrong at that point. natik himself realised . any mother would feel bad.and i agree with natik too he was not wrong either . i felt akshara handled the situation very well on both ends

i felt the same.. but.. the dialogues she was made to say were pathetic.. u noe.. there are tyms wen actors don't act well and do not do justice to the otherwise beautifully written script.. but.. in yeh rishta.. both the leads are superb wen it cums to their acting talent.. but they r not given dialogues worth their talent..
akshara to gayitri - ma.. aaj khane mein kya banega..
akshara to naitik - aap samjhte hi nhi hai..
bhabhima to everyone - tumhare daddaji naraz ho gye hai..
had the dialogues been more subtle in yesterday's episode.. i'd hav srsly loved the episode..
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Posted: 14 years ago
#14
He bought his business collegues into his home , he should have know that if he didnt want to be called his nickname infront of them then he should have informed his family prior .
why didnt he lay down the ground rules ..and if hes not capable of doing so then dont invite people home

In this family they over discuss things after they have occurred and fail to discuss issues of any importance prior !
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@MARHABA: But isnt it natural for him to expect the mother not to call by kiddy name? 😆

By the way, he studied from USA eh? So maybe his ways of looking at the world is supposed to be different? We all need to adjust when we try to have a big family right? I have absolutely no idea of big families (I myself had only me and mom), but I can also figure! If I am not too incorrect, all must adjust to remain in each other's proximity at heart. Not just that, they actually live forever in a big house of a join family system which is serious so Indian that to learn its real success possibilities is only possible in theory for many westerners, or Europeans in my context. So I guess it would need a whole lot of more adjustments?

Not everything can be discussed, some things must be realized too. How can you discuss all your issues in life before every event?

When someone is totally new (like me), then perhaps its right to say that one person (usually the husband) teaches some ways to behave or communicate with other members of the family. But that is in case of perfect aliens (and I mean absolute aliens in any whichever way you think of). But here are own people among whom you grew up.

Maybe I am wrong 😆😃, but this is what I could come up with
😉. This show is really anti-joint family is it? or maybe I fail to decode😃. My sister in law is going in a joint family atmosphere with quite a good number of the members after she marries 😃

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have never lived in the asian sub continent ,born and raised in the UK and I dont find anything worng with his mum calling him his nickname .In fact i have loads of friends who parents do so without a thought and nothing wrong with it .
IF however it is an issue for Natik then he should have informed his family prior and now not make a hullabaloo about it after the fact .
He didnt need to go into fine detail however there is nothing wrong with laying down ur expectations or how you would like the interaction with ur family to proceed

After all when we where little and had visitors did our parents not tell us behave when so n so is visiting ...





Originally posted by: Polki_Zofi

@MARHABA: But isnt it natural for him to expect the mother not to call by kiddy name? 😆

By the way, he studied from USA eh? So maybe his ways of looking at the world is supposed to be different? We all need to adjust when we try to have a big family right? I have absolutely no idea of big families (I myself had only me and mom), but I can also figure! If I am not too incorrect, all must adjust to remain in each other's proximity at heart. Not just that, they actually live forever in a big house of a join family system which is serious so Indian that to learn its real success possibilities is only possible in theory for many westerners, or Europeans in my context. So I guess it would need a whole lot of more adjustments?

Not everything can be discussed, some things must be realized too. How can you discuss all your issues in life before every event?

When someone is totally new (like me), then perhaps its right to say that one person (usually the husband) teaches some ways to behave or communicate with other members of the family. But that is in case of perfect aliens (and I mean absolute aliens in any whichever way you think of). But here are own people among whom you grew up.

Maybe I am wrong 😆😃, but this is what I could come up with
😉. This show is really anti-joint family is it? or maybe I fail to decode😃. My sister in law is going in a joint family atmosphere with quite a good number of the members after she marries 😃

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well you said it Merhaba, you are an Indian basically but raised in UK. So perhaps you would know better how it works in India. I am a Polish my birth, native-ethnicity etc, so I think I misunderstood it. If you think it is ok, perhaps fine.

What I thought that was such things are common sense. But I can also see sometimes my mother in law calling my husband with a kiddy name infront of me, which is very abnormal in my country 😃. But no he never complained, and I try to adjust too. Although she doesn't do it infront of guests or when we get frequently invited in dinners. Maybe he told her? He tells me what he does, so I guess its a mutual understanding rather then telling.

But you believe that the culture in India is fast evolving right? This is something I notice everyday! Back in my country I saw some old bollywood movies, and I could find less to relate them in India. Specially the new movies came as a surprise to me when I arrived here 😆, I only knew the old ones ⭐️

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