love.. trust.. and understanding..

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Posted: 14 years ago
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i was just sitting idle.. n thinking about my most favourite couple on screen.. Naitik and Akshara..
at first i thot what a beautiful couple they r.. n both look so sweet together.. n den.. a second thot came into my mind.. that they dnt hav understanding between them n they do not trust each other.. (this i thot because rite from the start.. they did not show their trust on each other.. nor did they understood each other's emotions.. many of us also think lyk dat)..
so.. while i was thinking abt all this.. i thot.. aren't we expecting too much from them.?? i mean.. i agree that trust n understanding is the most important thing in a relationship.. but.. have we ever realised that wen anger dominates our emotions.. everythng else goes to hell.?? we do not listen to anybody.. we dont want to talk to anybody.. we go blank.. isn't the same thing happening with akshara rite now.?? this happened with naitik also..
akshara did trust naitik.. n the major proof to this is ki shez not yelling at naitik for watever he has done in front of everybody.. she does not want a divorce from him.. n in fron of shankari tai.. she told her "tai aapko koi galatfehmi hui hogi.. naitik ne jo bhi kia hai mujhe bta ke kia hai.." she was not lyk.. "ha shankari tai.. aap bilkul sahi keh rhe ho.. mujhe shak to tha pehle se.. lekin ab mujhe yakeen ho gya hai.." n all dat.. it showed dat she did trust him.. n she was hurt wen naitik did this..
n things did not go out of control because naitik had done all this to make akshara jealous.. things went out of control because akshara came to noe from an outsider.. ki sneha has fallen in love with naitik.. n she's absolutely rite at her place.. no girl wud fall for sumbody unless n untill that guy gives her some "ishaaras"..
i was earlier thinking ki naitik is totally at fault.. he played with akshara's emotions.. but after much thinking.. i thot he's just partially wrong.. to not tel sneha about his marital status.. dat too after receiving the card and all.. itz the circumstances that have been lyk dat.. misunderstading arose only because of the situations the couple were placed in..
amongst dis.. we all expect akshara to trust naitik n forgive him for wat he has done.. but.. i was thinking.. is it dat easy.?? i m not married.. nor do i hav a boyfriend.. but in these type of situations.. i dnt think itz easy to let go of wat all happened.. i mean if i hav a fite with my frend.. i take tym to recover.. i dnt noe at that point wat is rite or wat is wrong.. so.. i dnt think itz justified to expect the same from akshara too.. she's not at fault.. itz natural to be upset with ur husband or sumbody close to u for doing things dat u did not expect dem too.. itz human nature..
in case akshara wud hav blindly trusted her husband.. she wud either blast at shankari tai for telling her such nonsense things.. or she wud hav gone to sneha to ask for justification.. don't u think dat wud turn out to be too ideal n melodramatic.?? n i think we all lyk yeh rishta for itz genuineness and real touch..
about akshara not listening to naitik.. well.. she's doing dat all in anger.. which is cent percent justified.. even about the past tracks (rituraj misunderstanding.. mohit-nandini drama).. it was not dat naitik did not trust akshara.. it was all in his anger that he was unable to think about rite n wrong..
about the misunderstandings.. well.. don't they happen only becuase of third person.?? i don't fite wid my friends because i feel lyk.. i do that because sumthng or other has happened n the third person gets involved in between.. doesn't the same thing happen here.?? naitik n akshara fite because a third person tries to create rift between them.. at once.. they'll not be influenced by wat others say.. but after much coaxing.. itz really hard to not believe wat others are saying.. n dis happens with everyone.. itz a part of human nature.. we cannot help it.!!!
so in all.. the track for now is going very fyn.. akshara not listening to naitik.. her anger.. itz all justified.. just a little request to Ms. Dimri.. that she shud give some meaningfull endings to her tracks.. n shud fasten the pace of the serial.. we too get bored seeing the same things again n again.!!
no offence intended..

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Interesting post- would that we have more of such kind. I wish to throw two cents of mine.

As per a perceivable tone in this forum, a major dissatisfaction is about continuous chain of MUs and/or monotony of their theme. But friends, this is soap serial and as such it has to keep on inventing some sort of 'attention' holding tracks to maintain both viewership and a flow of the tale. As such, it would be futile to expect their 'soap life' behaving like a 'real life'. This 'soap couple' will always be replete with a far greater share of 'crises' then a real couple. Having said this, I do admit, there is ample scope for creating interesting tracks other then MUs only; such as fighting together some family crises or facing some tragedies of life together in a beautiful depiction of a resonant, vibrant union. The real danger here is the trap of 'bizarre', implausible or 'a horrid- twist-for the-sake-of-shock' kind of tracks. And I keep crossing my fingers on facing 'these'. And I sincerely hope, they do come up with some interesting story. But for the moment, I think, they are yet tackling some basic concepts of a marriage and hence let us keep enjoying the cute couple's evolving MUs ('marital' understanding in place of 'mis'-).

Besides, here we have a subtle difference, although the theme is same. This time around, we are seeing the 'burden' of trust on Akshara's part and as such, a woman's take of the concept. So creatives do have a scope here too. With what elan or finesse they are progressing is an interesting watch.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: smrth

Interesting post- would that we have more of such kind. I wish to throw two cents of mine.

As per a perceivable tone in this forum, a major dissatisfaction is about continuous chain of MUs and/or monotony of their theme. But friends, this is soap serial and as such it has to keep on inventing some sort of 'attention' holding tracks to maintain both viewership and a flow of the tale. As such, it would be futile to expect their 'soap life' behaving like a 'real life'. This 'soap couple' will always be replete with a far greater share of 'crises' then a real couple. Having said this, I do admit, there is ample scope for creating interesting tracks other then MUs only; such as fighting together some family crises or facing some tragedies of life together in a beautiful depiction of a resonant, vibrant union. The real danger here is the trap of 'bizarre', implausible or 'a horrid- twist-for the-sake-of-shock' kind of tracks. And I keep crossing my fingers on facing 'these'. And I sincerely hope, they do come up with some interesting story. But for the moment, I think, they are yet tackling some basic concepts of a marriage and hence let us keep enjoying the cute couple's evolving MUs ('marital' understanding in place of 'mis'-).

Besides, here we have a subtle difference, although the theme is same. This time around, we are seeing the 'burden' of trust on Akshara's part and as such, a woman's take of the concept. So creatives do have a scope here too. With what elan or finesse they are progressing is an interesting watch.

i so much agree with u.. i really am a fan of ur posts.. i mean seriously.. u write beautifully i must say..
u r rite.. we have to keep dis in mind ki wat we r watching is just a serial.. dere's no akshara or naitik in real lyf.. we r so concerned about naitik or akshara.. crying in their sorrows and enjoying their hapiness.. hina or karan wud not even bother.. they'd infact laugh at the completion of each shot..
MONOTONY.. u very aptly described the current state of the serial.. so rite.. n the major reason for this is poor screenplay.. so slow.. each thing takes months to cum bak to normal.. cv's certainly need to work on this.. really..
Burden of trust on akshara.. rite.. n she is handling this burden very wisely.. at least she's not making naitik embarassed in front of everybody.. she's just making him realise his folly..
just a lil patience (which i think is exhausting away.. day by day) is needed to wact yeh rishta.. but big question here is.. till when do we hav to keep consoling ourselves ki everythng will be fyn..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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thanx for this.. thot the length of my post mite bore u.!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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nice post kaumaudi i agree with each and every point of ur's.............
the way akshi is behaving is truely justified any person would react in the same manner if he or she comes to know about any such thing about their spouse....................at present naitik himself is under a kind of turmoil and he himself is considering himself responsible for the sneha's misunderstanding then how come akshi's anger is not justified................................................ at present i am enjoying this track but the thing is that if cv's will continue dragging this track in the same manner then it will lose it's charm so cv's need to work on it in a better way and i really want a proper ending to this track unlike kaka-kaki track or other such tracks
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree wid u.. dis is nw geting ekta's track.. cv's shud stop all dis nonsense... n dis is too much.. pyar se jyada to MU's errgghhhh....
ne its geting boaring... we watch it only for naksh couple... dey shud end all dis nonsens...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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true yaar....its slowly becoming a typical wala serial....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ moonlight,

Basking in the glow of Lunar Luminescence!😊 Hey friend, let us all create more fun out of this innocent watch. Recently retired from my primary forum PR😡…just that… views there have been becoming increasingly-to put it mildly- 'strange', adopting willful degeneration of the source serial…not that I have been very active there nor I am a complete stranger here-citing as a proof- a couple of posts earlier here on this forum like 'Morning Light' etc.. As two chance watches of dinner time slot, I had been alternatively watching PR or YRKKH (can't be called really well versed in either serials… as missing many links), and had been writing on whatever I found interesting. So I am grateful to the generous acceptance to a transiting 'passer-by' and try to be more proactive here.

Writing is a recently acquired hobby. I am not trained and as such, quite prone to spelling or grammatical errors, obviously understanding them to be inconsequential in such light forums…more interesting is to read some deep insightful observations from Charuji , Manasi_31 or you or hard hitting concise summation of 'Beautiful gang' and will hope to encounter more from other such viewers who may be silent or inactive for the moment. Thanks again.👍🏼

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: smrth

@ moonlight,

Basking in the glow of Lunar Luminescence!😊 Hey friend, let us all create more fun out of this innocent watch. Recently retired from my primary forum PR😡'just that' views there have been becoming increasingly-to put it mildly- 'strange', adopting willful degeneration of the source serial'not that I have been very active there nor I am a complete stranger here-citing as a proof- a couple of posts earlier here on this forum like 'Morning Light' etc.. As two chance watches of dinner time slot, I had been alternatively watching PR or YRKKH (can't be called really well versed in either serials' as missing many links), and had been writing on whatever I found interesting. So I am grateful to the generous acceptance to a transiting 'passer-by' and try to be more proactive here.

Writing is a recently acquired hobby. I am not trained and as such, quite prone to spelling or grammatical errors, obviously understanding them to be inconsequential in such light forums'more interesting is to read some deep insightful observations from Charuji , Manasi_31 or you or hard hitting concise summation of 'Beautiful gang' and will hope to encounter more from other such viewers who may be silent or inactive for the moment. Thanks again.👍🏼

hi smrth really ur words and presentation was so beautiful really i become a fan of yours. its so true reel life and real life were so different. we r not getting instant [fast] in our real life. that's y we expect more from reel life. wecan change as per our wish. but real life it is very difficult for us change things as per our terms. smrth please continue ur writing in yrkkh forum i 'm waiting to read for ur suggestions and something new from u. keep going.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shriya_naksh

i agree wid u.. dis is nw geting ekta's track.. cv's shud stop all dis nonsense... n dis is too much.. pyar se jyada to MU's errgghhhh....

ne its geting boaring... we watch it only for naksh couple... dey shud end all dis nonsens...

they'll shriya.. dnt worry.. but as i sed.. it'l take sum tym.. we surely dnt want akshara getting up one morning nand pretend dat eveythng is normal.. dat wud be more nonsensical dan this.!!!

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