DOTW(17/09):Having Trust in your Spouse!! - Page 6

nyc topic Shikha di 👏n of course nyc POVs by every1😃

here is what i believe..

''It takes longer to trust someone than to love them''

You can trust and love someone but there are different levels of trust and trust grows as a relationship grows.😊

Trust, is the glue that holds couples together. Without trust, couples might be more likely to split in times of crises and have doubts about each other. Couples who trust each other have security and probably feel closer.

Unless your partner gives you a real reason to mistrust or doubt his or her honesty, you should trust him or her.🤔 And that's what Naitik did unintentionally, he wanted was to make her jealous in order to bring her more close to himself but unknowingly he created situations which forced Akshara to doubt on him still she never crossed her boundaries and always tried to avoid her suspicions. But again Naitik misunderstood her when he caught Bhola spying upon him and thot who else it cud be but Akshara who ordered Bhola to spy upon him and poor Akshara was blamed for everything without giving it a single thot that what made Akshara to spy on him??🤔 .. i believe a person should always examine his own thots, feelings and issues from the past before blaming someone else.🤔

Trust once broken cannot b easily build.😳 This means that you should never accuse your spouse of cheating or lying to you unless you have hard evidence. Without proof, you'll just create an air of mistrust. It'll make your partner doubt your honesty too.

Trust is the foundation on which a relationship is built. If you don't trust a person, whosoever you may love, your relationship will not survive, because you have no trust in him/her.

Originally posted by: starry.phoenix

ok, for now..when Sneha is blamin' Naitik for all the un-intentional thin's he did for her just for the Business purpose..😲!! what do you think ? Naitik is wrong or ight...🤢 well, i think in this situ Naitik is not to be blamed at all.😭.cos he nvr said soo, n never did anyhtin extra spcl for Sneha Ji..😆
he did what ws ethically n morally correct.👏. n it ws Sneha who gt over-involved with him n took evrythin in wrong sense...😲

i comply sympathize with Naitik for this n What about Akshara ???🤢🤢

omg..s=hwo will she react to this..... poor NaKsh..🤢🤢

Naitik ne "neki ki & dariyaa me dalaa..."🤣

lolz😆😆


:((( this is my ultimate reactinon !! the new promo is real heart breaking...😭

exactly agreed shikha naitik is nt to be blamed yaar ushne jo kiya tat even a stranger does yahan toh he knws her nd he didnt buy a new brand sari gave her he bought it as the shopkeeper ws arguing nd b'day he came as mitali invited nd he didnt wanted to go bt his family forced ushme naitik ki kya galti hai

Originally posted by: cute_luv

Nice Post di 😛

I agree wit each n every point of yours..😊. n i think ki Rajshree was correct in her place coz being a mother.. its obvious dat she vl get worried 4 his daughter . I think one should never lose his/her trust .... n if you hav any doubt thn you should go n clear it.😛

n thz sneha i think any gal can fall 4 a guy lyk naitik☺️.. she was nt aware of da fact dat naitik was married....i am damn sure ki agar sneha ko pta hota toh she would hav controlled her feelings bt thz mitali😡 is da main reason behind sneha's falling in luv wit naitik...

yeah right..anybody can fall in love anytime but how can he/she be SO sure of what the other person feels? many times love is one sided but it's foolish to blame that person for not reciprocating... he's married or no is also not an issue...nyways we always knew both sisters r epitome of dumbness 😡 if naitik wanted to hide tht he's married, why wud he invite her to his place for lunch?

Rajshri's concern for her daughter is okay but her approach of solving problems is abs. wrong...in the past , dadi advised her not to disturb akshara again n again but she did....and gayitri was maha upset bec. of this.... when akshara came to her maayka, her husband and everyone in the family asked her not to go and meet Singhania's but she went there with her mom...again during the house fiasco , she put akshara into a difficult situation by constant interfering and suggestions...and now this..akshara told her specifically not to talk to naitik but she still went...everything she does cannot be justified in the name of love for akshara..in all the cases, her love has created more problems, not solved ny...if she had a doubt on naitik, she should have talked to akshara first before taking this stupid step....she wud have lost respect in naitik's eyes if he'd known...

Originally posted by: nikki18

<font color="#ff33cc" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">nyc topic Shikha di </font><font color="#ff33cc">👏</font><font color="#ff33cc" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">n of course nyc POVs by every1😃</font>

<font color="#ff33cc" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">here is what i believe..
</font>

<p align="center"><font color="#ff33cc" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">''It takes longer to trust someone than to love them''</font></p>

<font color="#ff33cc" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">You can trust and love someone but there are different
levels of trust and trust grows as a relationship grows.😊 </font>

<font color="#ff33cc" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Trust, is the glue
that holds couples together. Without trust, couples might be more likely to
split in times of crises and have doubts about each other. Couples who trust
each other have security and probably feel closer. </font>

<font color="#ff33cc" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Unless your partner gives you a real reason to mistrust
or doubt his or her honesty, you should trust him or her.🤔 And that's what Naitik
did unintentionally, he wanted was to make her jealous in order to bring her
more close to himself but unknowingly he created situations which forced
Akshara to doubt on him still she never crossed her boundaries and always tried
to avoid her suspicions. But again Naitik misunderstood her when he caught
Bhola spying upon him and thot who else it cud be but Akshara who ordered Bhola
to spy upon him and poor Akshara was blamed for everything without giving it a single thot
that what made Akshara to spy on him??🤔 .. i believe a person should always examine his own thots,
feelings and issues from the past before blaming someone else.🤔 </font>

<font color="#ff33cc" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Trust once broken cannot b easily build.😳 This means that
you should never accuse your spouse of cheating or lying to you unless you have
hard evidence. Without proof, you'll just create an air of mistrust. It'll make
your partner doubt your honesty too.</font>

<font color="#ff33cc" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Trust is the foundation on which a relationship is built.
If you don't trust a person, whosoever you may love, your relationship will not
survive, because you have no trust in him/her.</font>

well said 👏 i think it's related to one's individual nature also...some ppl. trust more easily than others (me including, that's why i'm more cautious to talk to anyone)...a few have this irritating habit of doubting everything...which husband wud like his wife's nagging behavior? checking his cell phone everyday, cross checking whether he's lying or not ? if shaque/doubt settles in one's mind then it's difficult to remove it completely...in reality i feel it's too difficult to deal with these issues...i was reading an article this sunday abt infidelity ..they interviewed a few actresses and actor's wives..some of them said that they were aware of their husband's affairs but they knew ke their husbands will return to them in the end 😃 and they did....so they must have dealt with their insecurities ..accept this fact ke their husbands were not 100% faithful to them! sometimes the relation breaks, sometimes the wife forgives her husband..to each his own

frm where will naitik get the evidence ? but how can akshara not trust naitik? frm morning to night he's talking abt her, thinking about her , it's always akshara akshara akshara..there isn't a remotest possibility of liking someone else...frm the very beginning, the MU b/w naksh are caused due to to external factors..and their love always brings them back together...hence i'm hoping that this time around, akshara will understand naitik and not blame him..