Plagued by suspicions

No one would send a thank you card to someone, unless you are trying to covey something more than your gratitude. If Sneha had been calling up Naitik ji several times a day, then why couldn't she thank him on the phone? Where does the need to send him a personal card arise? I have been trying to avoid any wrong notion about Naitik ji and Sneha fester my mind but it is too hard to resist now. I don't understand what Sneha is up to. Naitik ji wants me to trust him but I can't ignore what transpires right in front of me. I deliberately took away Naitik's phone from him to answer Sneha's call and she said that her parents are discussing her marriage. How does this matter concern my husband? Am I not right, dear readers, in being suspicious about the incident and worry on it?

I have tried to reason it out with Naitik ji but all that he asks me to do is to trust him. How long can I ignore my suspicions which keep growing with every passing moment? I don't want to drag the confusion any further and want Naitik ji to clear the air for me. I hadn't enjoyed the celebrations as I was worried due to Sneha's visit to our place in my absence and then her thank you card arrived, which has made me all the more suspicious. What is she trying to prove? I can feel there is something more to it than just expressing your appreciation. I wouldn't send a personal note to a guy thanking him for all his help. As a wife, I am well within my rights to find out what's happening in my husband's life be it personal or professional. I have given him enough space but now Sneha's episode is affecting my personal life. I don't want to doubt my husband but whatever is transpiring from the past few weeks is not helping the matter.

Varsha advises me to trust Naitik, but every time I try to dismiss it something happens that just confirms my suspicions. I don't know why Naitik ji fails to fathom the gravity of the situation and all this is really troubling me. I don't know how to clear the confusion and get rid of Sneha. I really need your help dear readers. Please suggest ways by which I can resolve this quandary and avoid any sort of unwanted trouble in my married life?

I look forward to your advice and suggests. Please write into akshara@starplus.in and help me come out of this situation.

Akshara if you want Naitik to pay attention to you, then you should clear all your doubts.