Originally posted by: AaRtINaKsH
I agree with some of your points Charu di, but we just cann't blame Akshara for each and other thing. Not this time atleast.
She wasn't at all at fault this time, neither was she complaining. She just expected her husband, who claims to his wife more than his life, to remember her b'day and wish her first. Was that too much she was expecting ?????????????
Everyone in the Singhania household remembered Akshara's b'day. Hw can Naitik forgot ?
Doesn't he know that it was because of Akshara, he is with his friends !!!!!! She brought them together after so long. And he forgot her b'day just for the sake of stupid cricket match with his friends.
U were saying that he did everything after he gets to know about her b'day. But what if Nandini hasn't told Mohit about Akshara's b'day, then Naitik wouldn't have at all knew for the whole day that its his beloved wife's b'day and then would have played CRICKET the whole day. Hw ridiculous is that ? And above that he is complaining that why you didn't come ?
I agree with Akshara that it was easy for Naitik to leave the house but in case of Akshara its very difficult as she hardly leaves the house. Each and everyone will ask her where she is going and she would have answered ? that my husband has some surprise and asked me to come.
If Naitik wanted her to come, he should have taken her with himself.
Every wife has the right to complain to her husband to atleast remember her b'day and wish her first. A wife does everything for her husband's family and her husband cann't just remember one special day of her life ?
Hw can we say that Akshara did nothing for Naitik ? She helped Naitik's sister to get the love of her life. She brought Naitik closer to his best friend by arranging the basketball match. And she did all this just to make Naitik happy.
Though its great to see, Akshara getting what she expected of Naitik in precap. Waiting for it eagerly.
agreed Aarti, but for me, forgetting b'day is not THAT big a crime..yes , everybody expects, but my thinking is that is you don't commit a mistake on purpose then it's not a mistake...if Naitik had known that it's Akshara's b'day he won't be planning tht ridiculous match...and therez no reasoning as to "WHY" or HOW can he forgot her b'day...how can u explain anybody WHY u forgot his/her b'day?? yes, it's stupid of him to think that Akshara can reach the garden & what was the problem in just telling their families that they're going out? but that's yrkkh for you ! Akshara is a devi and she cannot do anything wrong..whatever she does , she has an excuse..she's bound by so many limitations..then she should not expect also ! period ! she's got a lot of surprises before ..did she expect naitik to cook for her? or come to meet her in night? take her for outing? take her to Daman? plan a dinner date? when he DID all that for her, then too she was anxious "ye kaise hoga..hum wapas chalte hai..MA kya sochegi..bauji kya naraz ho gaye" ... 🤢
i just know one thing that if ur not ready to give ur 100% to the relationship u will not GET it also...love can never be a one way traffic...i never said she should have gone there..i know it was not possible for her to leave....but why is she making naitik feel guilty that his family cares for her more than him? the truth is SHE is not bothered abt naitik but only his family..she takes naitik for granted that since she's done SO many favors to him & his family (like u pointed out) , she deserves to get something in return ! it can never happen that way..
it's not wrong to complain..she must..if she feels that way....but what did she do after that? did she give a chance to naitik to explain? talk to him? no ! she let rashmi inside their room to make naitik realize tht rashmi & co. cares for her but naitik doesn't ! we all know it's NOT that way....
and...whatever she did for nandini was for NANDINI and not Naitik...otherwise she wouldn't have hidden that truth from him & not involve him in any of this...AND NOT put her marriage on stake.....haan it wud have been better if he didn't come to know abt akshara's b'day from mohit...everybody is living in their dreamworld...Singhania's don't even know tht naitik forgot akshara's b;day..all bewakoofs r asking her what did naitik gift u ! they didn't even bother to stop him n ask him to attend havan ! wow ! akshara was dreaming tht naitik will give her a surprise...why can't these people just TALK to each other 🤢
Edited by _charu_ - 15 years ago
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