Update for 25th Jan - Page 5

@nishitah
very true!!!!! i hated bhabhi ma n gayatri s dialogues!!!! 😡 😡 😡 ............

Thanx Charu for the update, hope you feel better soon.. missed you in this forum last week.. you know in a way, I feel better that they are putting more thought into this issue than the other problems they have solved, i.e., build up the problem for weeks together and find solution in half an episode, everyone happy.. but I would like some more soul searching on parts of atleast the so called adults...

In real life, if something like this happens, we turn introspective, our initial reaction is of course defensive, we are not at fault.. but at some point once the anger is gone, any reasonable person will start rethinking of how everything got so out of hand.. we walk through the process, and start thinking which of our actions caused the damage...

what I am leading to is I wish they show Gay3, Bhabhi ma thinking along these lines.. instead of prattling how everything has gone to hell in a hand basket after Aksh departure (the most absurd dialog of today) since it was hell before, but they now don't have their fav punching bag to take out their ghussa...

I wish they show Gay3 realizing belatedly that by complaining about Aksh constantly to Munna, she made the matters worse.. that she should have not interfered between newly weds so much.. that her behaviour was way out of line, she might have contributed to Aksh leaving the house, if she was more open, Aksh would have come to her when Naitik asked her to leave the house...

It totally blew my fuse, when they showed Gay3 all furious at Munna when she read Aksh letter.. tune kya kaha bahu ko... as if her behaviour wasn't at fault at all.. her silence, taking over chores, scoring cheap points wasn't a catalyst to the split...

any normal sane mature person will start to think, what we could have done to prevent this state of affairs and start to see their faults... Gay3 started of being such a understanding, loving mom to this twisted creature.. I was hoping this would bring a change in her attitude and atleast there would be some positive to come out of this mess....

In SBS Hina mentioned something about Vish standing up for Akshara...lets see what happens.

Originally posted by: Tafseer

Mohit's sister's name is KOYAL?? 😆 😆 aaj pata chala woh through ur update Charu........😆 😆

KOYAL....now seriously....! 🤣

Koyal si teri bole....koo koo koo koo 🤣 🤣 🤣

Originally posted by: aviation-ca

Thanx Charu for the update, hope you feel better soon.. missed you in this forum last week.. you know in a way, I feel better that they are putting more thought into this issue than the other problems they have solved, i.e., build up the problem for weeks together and find solution in half an episode, everyone happy.. but I would like some more soul searching on parts of atleast the so called adults...<br><br>In real life, if something like this happens, we turn introspective, our initial reaction is of course defensive, we are not at fault.. but at some point once the anger is gone, any reasonable person will start rethinking of how everything got so out of hand.. we walk through the process, and start thinking which of our actions caused the damage... <br><br>what I am leading to is I wish they show Gay3, Bhabhi ma thinking along these lines.. instead of prattling how everything has gone to hell in a hand basket after Aksh departure (the most absurd dialog of today) since it was hell before, but they now don't have their fav punching bag to take out their ghussa... <br><br>I wish they show Gay3 realizing belatedly that by complaining about Aksh constantly to Munna, she made the matters worse.. that she should have not interfered between newly weds so much.. that her behaviour was way out of line, she might have contributed to Aksh leaving the house, if she was more open, Aksh would have come to her when Naitik asked her to leave the house...<br><br>It totally blew my fuse, when they showed Gay3 all furious at Munna when she read Aksh letter.. tune kya kaha bahu ko... as if her behaviour wasn't at fault at all.. her silence, taking over chores, scoring cheap points wasn't a catalyst to the split... <br><br>any normal sane mature person will start to think, what we could have done to prevent this state of affairs and start to see their faults... Gay3 started of being such a understanding, loving mom to this twisted creature.. I was hoping this would bring a change in her attitude and atleast there would be some positive to come out of this mess.... <br>

absolutely dear ! i'm so annoyed at the very each one of the characters were butchered & became so illogical & idiotic n insensitive ! i said a lot abt Gayitri, I expected her to at least talk to Aksh when they met during the pooja...yrkkh doesn't make sense, tht's not a new thing to us 🤢 here elders are worse than children...yest. I couldn't understand the point behind Akshara hiding this one thing ke Naitik asked her to leave..when she said the whole Ram kahani ke Naitik stopped talking to me, ignore me etc. etc. then why keep this last card to herself? so tht they drag the issue further n more misunderstandings are created..or may be it'll melt naitik tht oh aksh tried to protect him in front of her family....DAMN howz it possible tht they won't come to know?

lets not talk abt bhabhi ma and gayitri's bewakoofi at this point..may be they're used to hearing frm aksh "mujhe maaf kar deejiye" after every 5 mins 🤢 ke they're missing her so much...none of them wanna think ke they're also at fault for this whole mess...If their daughter didn't tell them, and confided in Aksh then THEY r at fault bec. they didn't share tht relationship with Nandu ke she will confide in them..Nandu ..obviously the girls r so much supressed, they cannot eat drink or sleep acc. to their wish so falling in love is a far off thing...and then their behavior towards Aksh , they can't see ke it added fuel to the fire and instigated Naitik more n more to this extent !

again, it's so stupid ke they think ke Aksh will come back and ghar ka mahaul will get okay..now what will akshara do? they will find some more reasons to blame her then they will be satisfied? abhi kami reh gayi 😡

yest. i didn't even like the scene where aksh tells her parents..it didn't have tht impact ! may be bec. akshara is also at fault and she knows it...but i found her crying n all very artificial...she enacted extremely well last week in each n every scene...and then i just don't like it ke she did not tell her parents (so can we say ke even aksh doesn't have tht much confidence on her parents like nandini? each one repeating the same mistake) ...Akshara still doesn't understand ke the meaning of the whole thing changes depending on who says it and in what way? and the more they delay it, the misunderstandings grow many folds? if shankari had not told them and akshara also, what will singhania's think abt them? ke they don't care their daughter is sitting at home? didn't everything go out of control 4 days back when naitik spilled the beans in front of the family? doesn't she understand what difference it wud have made if SHE herself told Naitik? the way in which he got to know & jumped to his conclusions proved disastrous for Aksh, yet she's not ready to learn ! good intentions cannot be an excuse to every dumb action ! why can't a good person with a good heart with good intentions ACT sane? 😕