Trust in relationship & shift of power

Originally posted by: aviation-ca

Today was another great episode of what not to doin a relationship. Here are my inputs of the 2 parallel dramas between Varsha - Shaurya & Naitik & Aksh...

1. ShaVa : Varsha creates drama with all imagined issues.. she is hell bent on proving herself right... the usual threat of going toMaika drama in front of the whole family... showing no Trust in her husband, not listening to him... behaving like a brat... her reward???Shaurya had to eat dirt... apologize for nothing... grovel in front of the family... have the ignomy of his younger sister to come & mediate... the result...Complete shift in power in that relationship... Varsha now has complete dominant role... Shaurya will be completely routed.. he will saying yes ma'm, no ma'm... bending over backwards to please her... This is a horrible married life to live... his guilt, to admire another woman... wow is this Varsha's definition of love???

2. NaKsh : After all the trust issues in the beginning of the marriage.. for Aksh to keep something this big from her hubby is mindblowing... the engagement is next day.. he falls asleep, so she keeps queit?? She should have woken him up or call his cell & say this is important and about your sister... he will surely make time... first of all, she shouldn't have left it this late in the day... does she not know how betrayed Bhabhi ma is going to be? She trusted Mohit & Aksh... to be so misled by them is going to be devastating... to outright lie is sooo out of line, atleast if she had said, please I will explain everything later.. there is some issue here, Naitik would have approached them and been in the loop, but now... how will Naitik ever trust her again? There is again a shift in power, with Aksh losing all hers completely... from the whole family.. no matter what... things regarding Rashmi will be kept from her... she will be complete outcast... even if family excepts Mohini jodi, Aksh will have lost the trust of family & more important her husband...

Very hard lessons in today's episode... Varsha gaining power by emotional blackmail & Askh losing hers by lying outright, not evading truth but lying & not respecting the boundary that existsaround a couple...

Originally posted by: aviation-ca

Today was another great episode of what not to doin a relationship. Here are my inputs of the 2 parallel dramas between Varsha - Shaurya & Naitik & Aksh...

1. ShaVa : Varsha creates drama with all imagined issues.. she is hell bent on proving herself right... the usual threat of going toMaika drama in front of the whole family... showing no Trust in her husband, not listening to him... behaving like a brat... her reward???Shaurya had to eat dirt... apologize for nothing... grovel in front of the family... have the ignomy of his younger sister to come & mediate... the result...Complete shift in power in that relationship... Varsha now has complete dominant role... Shaurya will be completely routed.. he will saying yes ma'm, no ma'm... bending over backwards to please her... This is a horrible married life to live... his guilt, to admire another woman... wow is this Varsha's definition of love???

2. NaKsh : After all the trust issues in the beginning of the marriage.. for Aksh to keep something this big from her hubby is mindblowing... the engagement is next day.. he falls asleep, so she keeps queit?? She should have woken him up or call his cell & say this is important and about your sister... he will surely make time... first of all, she shouldn't have left it this late in the day... does she not know how betrayed Bhabhi ma is going to be? She trusted Mohit & Aksh... to be so misled by them is going to be devastating... to outright lie is sooo out of line, atleast if she had said, please I will explain everything later.. there is some issue here, Naitik would have approached them and been in the loop, but now... how will Naitik ever trust her again? There is again a shift in power, with Aksh losing all hers completely... from the whole family.. no matter what... things regarding Rashmi will be kept from her... she will be complete outcast... even if family excepts Mohini jodi, Aksh will have lost the trust of family & more important her husband...

Very hard lessons in today's episode... Varsha gaining power by emotional blackmail & Askh losing hers by lying outright, not evading truth but lying & not respecting the boundary that existsaround a couple...

Varsha has been shown to be very immature and kiddish in her behaviour...picking a fight with Shaurya earlier also and not talking to him when actually it was an issur between Aks & Naitik....remember the pre-wedding times....regarding studies, etc. Then also, she would not say anything openly to Shaurya and expect him to understand. This was just one more example of her immaturity....she has no trust in her husband and expects him to stray when the first pretty thing comes along....shows lack of self-confidence too. There was no need for her to prove anything to anyone there, coz she is a member of the family and her husband loves her.

Originally posted by: aviation-ca

Today was another great episode of what not to do in a relationship. Here are my inputs of the 2 parallel dramas between Varsha - Shaurya & Naitik & Aksh...

1. ShaVa : Varsha creates drama with all imagined issues.. she is hell bent on proving herself right... the usual threat of going to Maika drama in front of the whole family... showing no Trust in her husband, not listening to him... behaving like a brat... her reward??? Shaurya had to eat dirt... apologize for nothing... grovel in front of the family... have the ignomy of his younger sister to come & mediate... the result...Complete shift in power in that relationship... Varsha now has complete dominant role... Shaurya will be completely routed.. he will saying yes ma'm, no ma'm... bending over backwards to please her... This is a horrible married life to live... his guilt, to admire another woman... wow is this Varsha's definition of love???

2. NaKsh : After all the trust issues in the beginning of the marriage.. for Aksh to keep something this big from her hubby is mindblowing... the engagement is next day.. he falls asleep, so she keeps queit?? She should have woken him up or call his cell & say this is important and about your sister... he will surely make time... first of all, she shouldn't have left it this late in the day... does she not know how betrayed Bhabhi ma is going to be? She trusted Mohit & Aksh... to be so misled by them is going to be devastating... to outright lie is sooo out of line, atleast if she had said, please I will explain everything later.. there is some issue here, Naitik would have approached them and been in the loop, but now... how will Naitik ever trust her again? There is again a shift in power, with Aksh losing all hers completely... from the whole family.. no matter what... things regarding Rashmi will be kept from her... she will be complete outcast... even if family excepts Mohini jodi, Aksh will have lost the trust of family & more important her husband...

Very hard lessons in today's episode... Varsha gaining power by emotional blackmail & Askh losing hers by lying outright, not evading truth but lying & not respecting the boundary that exists around a couple...

Originally posted by: sssiham

Varsha has been shown to be very immature and kiddish in her behaviour...picking a fight with Shaurya earlier also and not talking to him when actually it was an issur between Aks & Naitik....remember the pre-wedding times....regarding studies, etc. Then also, she would not say anything openly to Shaurya and expect him to understand. This was just one more example of her immaturity....she has no trust in her husband and expects him to stray when the first pretty thing comes along....shows lack of self-confidence too. There was no need for her to prove anything to anyone there, coz she is a member of the family and her husband loves her.

Akshara...the wise one.....trying to solve others problems and conveniently lying to the only one who totally trusts her - her husband - and then expecting him to understand....well, too late this time, madam....So now lying became ok for her? So what if Nands & Mohit asked her not to tell......she should know her in-laws by now and know that this will not be taken lightly.

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

You have raised some good points but in both the tracks all we see is the stupidity & immaturityof the two girls and nothing else and their husbands have to bear the brunt...I definitly felt bad for Shaurya that he was belittled in front of his baby sister...whats the point in hiding the reason from the whole family but telling Akshara I didnt understand??? 😲😲...if its not solved between the husband & wife and any 3rd person is involved, its a crowd...but here again our dear Akshara convinently LIED or hid the truth (being politically correct for some Akshara die-hard fans) from her own mom!!

and in the Naksh case toh bhagwan bachaye!! she lied 2 times to him today....I dont know what will be the family reaction towards her in future, but all I can say is that this was a much required jolt for her to come into her senses that marriage is not a child's play and har rishta bahut kuch kehlata hai!!

Originally posted by: sssiham

Varsha has been shown to be very immature and kiddish in her behaviour...picking a fight with Shaurya earlier also and not talking to him when actually it was an issur between Aks & Naitik....remember the pre-wedding times....regarding studies, etc. Then also, she would not say anything openly to Shaurya and expect him to understand. This was just one more example of her immaturity....she has no trust in her husband and expects him to stray when the first pretty thing comes along....shows lack of self-confidence too. There was no need for her to prove anything to anyone there, coz she is a member of the family and her husband loves her.

Akshara...the wise one.....trying to solve others problems and conveniently lying to the only one who totally trusts her - her husband - and then expecting him to understand....well, too late this time, madam....So now lying became ok for her? So what if Nands & Mohit asked her not to tell......she should know her in-laws by now and know that this will not be taken lightly.