Shankari Tai

What i liked in today's episode was dialouges from Shankari Tai, and Akshara's face expression of understanding Shankari and her in laws.. really cute . 😃.. Shankari do visit them often, and produce good dialouges, as poor girl is not going to speak up, at least some one like your BIG MOUTH required for fun..😆

Sad to see akshara serving shankari , as in her house it used to be Dhaniya who used to take care of it, and gaya3 was too much.. would like to see how far she goes in this track..

Story will not be there if Gaya3 not creating a story for akshara , as far as akshara is clean hearted nothing can touch her .. naitik is going to create problems for the poor girl in addition to already existing misunderstandings.. This man is a born liar.. hope not to lie to akshara like last time.. Akshara watch out, when initial love goes out, he can lie to you.. the faster you mature , better for you..

Dadi and akshara understands a situation better than any other character's in the story.. good advise.. yes akshara needed to solve her problems by her own..

Akshara will not have any complaints against her in laws, as her understanding of people will not allow her to complain..

True......
haaaaaaaaaaa......."SHANKARI TAI"...After long time(last time we saw in nandini's Chapter),
Poor Akshi......always invite trouble from herelf & also from her loving husband Naitik, aur chudeil G3 never miss any one chance to teas Akshi.........

I absolutely LOVED Shankari Tai today!! Did you see the way she gave BM and G a taste of their own medicine with her comment on how it wasn't appropriate for Mohit to be with Rashmi and Nandini? Even though what she was saying is terribly old-fashioned, it was nice to see her hand BM and G their own crap right back at them!!!! And then her effusive praise for Akshara and her family was icing on the cake! I'm so glad ST was there and said what Akshara's Mom couldn't say to them... Even though it didn't have any long-lasting effect on BM & G, it still was nice to hear!

Originally posted by: lathika4u

What i liked in today's episode was dialouges from Shankari Tai, and Akshara's face expression of understanding Shankari and her in laws.. really cute . 😃.. Shankari do visit them often, and produce good dialouges, as poor girl is not going to speak up, at least some one like your BIG MOUTH required for fun..😆

Sad to see akshara serving shankari , as in her house it used to be Dhaniya who used to take care of it, and gaya3 was too much.. would like to see how far she goes in this track..

Story will not be there if Gaya3 not creating a story for akshara , as far as akshara is clean hearted nothing can touch her .. naitik is going to create problems for the poor girl in addition to already existing misunderstandings.. This man is a born liar.. hope not to lie to akshara like last time.. Akshara watch out, when initial love goes out, he can lie to you.. the faster you mature , better for you..

Dadi and akshara understands a situation better than any other character's in the story.. good advise.. yes akshara needed to solve her problems by her own..

Akshara will not have any complaints against her in laws, as her understanding of people will not allow her to complain..

Lathika, you bring up some interesting points, and I agree with you in part...Yes, Akshara has been demoted from bahu to servant...G ma relishes her upperhand as m-i-l...and yes, Akshara has to mature and understand the ways of the Singhanias and yes, to some extent, also that of her husband; that is part and parcel of being a married woman.

If I am reading your analysis correctly, she should not rely on her husband, who according to you, "is a born liar." But she now has the ladies in her supposed "new" home ganging up against her...and all we get from her is the deer in the headlights look and apologies for seemingly no good reason... No complaints against her in-laws? How can she survive living with the in-laws who ALWAYS accuse her and at a drop of a hat? If she doesn't speak up and defend herself, how on earth is she going to solve her problems? How is she going to make meaningful changes in her life and in her new home? I am not saying that she fight and scream from the rooftops; but there is a tactful and polite way in which to address these issues. She is daadi's grand daughter after all!

With G ma's self-assumption about Akshara telling RajS about the pallu incident and trusting Gulabo's words today, it is pretty clear where this story is going...if Naitik doesn't defend her, Akshara will be buried under the stares, the unrealistic expectations, the pallu and everything else the Singhanias hold dear....Ideally, I want to see Aksh speak up and defend herself even against her husband if necessary and for Naitik to be there for his wife through thick and thin...That is what being a married couple is all about!

As for Naitik being a liar, I see it as growing defiance...a defiance that will ultimately lead to the Singhanias losing their son and d-i-l if they don't let go of their archaic rules and traditions...no one should have to live in fear of what the elders will think with their every move and action...and Naitik is just reacting to that realization!

Originally posted by: Nandalala

Lathika, you bring up some interesting points, and I agree with you in part...Yes, Akshara has been demoted from bahu to servant...G ma relishes her upperhand as m-i-l...and yes, Akshara has to mature and understand the ways of the Singhanias and yes, to some extent, also that of her husband; that is part and parcel of being a married woman.

If I am reading your analysis correctly, she should not rely on her husband, who according to you, "is a born liar." But she now has the ladies in her supposed "new" home ganging up against her...and all we get from her is the deer in the headlights look and apologies for seemingly no good reason... No complaints against her in-laws? How can she survive living with the in-laws who ALWAYS accuse her and at a drop of a hat? If she doesn't speak up and defend herself, how on earth is she going to solve her problems? How is she going to make meaningful changes in her life and in her new home? I am not saying that she fight and scream from the rooftops; but there is a tactful and polite way in which to address these issues. She is daadi's grand daughter after all!

With G ma's self-assumption about Akshara telling RajS about the pallu incident and trusting Gulabo's words today, it is pretty clear where this story is going...if Naitik doesn't defend her, Akshara will be buried under the stares, the unrealistic expectations, the pallu and everything else the Singhanias hold dear....Ideally, I want to see Aksh speak up and defend herself even against her husband if necessary and for Naitik to be there for his wife through thick and thin...That is what being a married couple is all about!

As for Naitik being a liar, I see it as growing defiance...a defiance that will ultimately lead to the Singhanias losing their son and d-i-l if they don't let go of their archaic rules and traditions...no one should have to live in fear of what the elders will think with their every move and action...and Naitik is just reacting to that realization!

Some thoughtful points raised by you too..she should be careful against naitik as so far this relationship brought more pains to her than happiness, whether directly or indirectly.. now if you look at it, most of the time naitik is lying.. so she needed to be careful, as he already lied to her once, whether it was out of love (i don't accept this kind of false love) poor girl accepted it, and he made himself sick in the process.. married relationship this is not ethical.. as there is one side of him she is yet to know.. so is the reason for asking akshara to mature fast, or she will loose out..

Silence speaks volumes.. there is no point in standing up yourself with a gang who cannot understand you, whether you make your point clear or not, they won't understand you, or even if they understands you, they won't value your opinions, it will create a negative impact.. she needed to be slow down ( as her character suites to this ) and know more about this family, before opening up herself..
i don't think she should..

my thinking..'' if i know someone is very foolish than me, i just leave that person to herself/himself.. no point in talking to them''..

her situation here is just like that.. she got more wisdom towards worldly things than them, though at time she behaves childish (due to her age).. her intelligence ( i don't mean study here, but intelligence related with life situations ) sometimes challenges her own dadi.. due to that reason alone she is coping up with naitik, not because she love him..

now question here is what is that she wanted to speak up, that she will not wear pallu? she wanted to go for movie? she wanted to eat food along with naitik? all these questions at present is not making any sense to me .. as she is new before jumping on to something better for her to know about her husband's family..and accommodate herself.. you cannot make any changes unless or until you know what you need to change, who you needed to change?

Naitik is a coward, he barks infront his mum only.. so no point in thinking that he is going to do something.. i am not sure about them loosing naitik.. that is bec of akshara's character, she won't allow that to happen, even if he wanted to break away..

Akshara will not speak up so easily, unless or until the issue goes so deep..that is how an intelligent person behave...

this is my reading so far on the character akshara..CV may change that too any time..😆

can't understand this family.......................... they hav full faith upon their maid bt don't dare to conform with their own bahu who is part of their family................. is aksharas status lower than their maid????????????

naitik seems to be caring abt akshras feeling............... bt doesn't do it in a matured way...........n thus creates more problem to his wife............ bt hope he always is in her favour........................

Originally posted by: Nandalala

<br><br>Lathika, you bring up some interesting points, and I agree with you in part...Yes, Akshara has been demoted from bahu to servant...G ma relishes her upperhand as m-i-l...and yes, Akshara has to mature and understand the ways of the Singhanias and yes, to some extent, also that of her husband; that is part and parcel of being a married woman.<br><br>If I am reading your analysis correctly, she should not rely on her husband, who according to you, "is a born liar." But she now has the ladies in her supposed "new" home ganging up against her...and all we get from her is the deer in the headlights look and apologies for seemingly no good reason... No complaints against her in-laws? How can she survive living with the in-laws who ALWAYS accuse her and at a drop of a hat? If she doesn't speak up and defend herself, how on earth is she going to solve her problems? How is she going to make meaningful changes in her life and in her new home? I am not saying that she fight and scream from the rooftops; but there is a tactful and polite way in which to address these issues. She is daadi's grand daughter after all!<br><br>With G ma's self-assumption about Akshara telling RajS about the pallu incident and trusting Gulabo's words today, it is pretty clear where this story is going...if Naitik doesn't defend her, Akshara will be buried under the stares, the unrealistic expectations, the pallu and everything else the Singhanias hold dear....Ideally, I want to see Aksh speak up and defend herself even against her husband if necessary and for Naitik to be there for his wife through thick and thin...That is what being a married couple is all about! <br><br>As for Naitik being a liar, I see it as growing defiance...a defiance that will ultimately lead to the Singhanias losing their son and d-i-l if they don't let go of their archaic rules and traditions...no one should have to live in fear of what the elders will think with their every move and action...and Naitik is just reacting to that realization!<br>

anjali, i agree with u to quite an extent........

as for NAITIK "being a born liar"--Lathika, this may sound repetitive, but i still maintain that a gesture or a word can only be termed a "lie" if the motive behind it is ulterior....not otherwise....

sometimes, a truth said with an ulterior motive is WORSE than ............a "lie" which only screams "love".....

don't u remember........when our very own "BAL GOPAL" wanted to meet sweet sweet "RADHIKA" for the SECOND time, both "DEVKI" and "YASHODA" kept this as a secret from both "NAND" and the impossible to convince "KANSA"...........can this be termed as "DECEIT"- an action which brought about the NAKSH MARRIAGE "a marriage made in heavens"...as many of our forum friends like to refer as......

often, gestures or words are just meant to maintain the decorum of the house without intending to hurt ANYONE'S feelings......and often "cute lies" which scream "I LOVE U MORE THAN LIFE" are said to add some tadka to otherwise mundane routine life.........

but i think.....naitik should stop taking inspiration from kaka-kaki kind of intelligence......which he is doing of late......especially since he's become maheshwaris ka "JAMAI-SA".........
ajab SANGATH ka gajab ASAR.................
😛

bt the thing is tht everytime naitik does sumthing the entire blame comes on akshara only..if he goes out of his way to do things for her then i personally think he shud b man enugh to defend his wife..otherwise there is no point..and am sure he will start doing tht soon..or atleast i hope he does..

Lathika, U may not believe but even I was thinking the same abt shankari tai when I saw the episode & also abt dadi & akshara who tried to understand the situations better than any one. dadi was good at telling rajshri to not visit akshara often as she might 'fall weak'.

Originally posted by: Nandalala

<br><br>Lathika, you bring up some interesting points, and I agree with you in part...Yes, Akshara has been demoted from bahu to servant...G ma relishes her upperhand as m-i-l...and yes, Akshara has to mature and understand the ways of the Singhanias and yes, to some extent, also that of her husband; that is part and parcel of being a married woman.<br><br>If I am reading your analysis correctly, she should not rely on her husband, who according to you, "is a born liar." But she now has the ladies in her supposed "new" home ganging up against her...and all we get from her is the deer in the headlights look and apologies for seemingly no good reason... No complaints against her in-laws? How can she survive living with the in-laws who ALWAYS accuse her and at a drop of a hat? If she doesn't speak up and defend herself, how on earth is she going to solve her problems? How is she going to make meaningful changes in her life and in her new home? I am not saying that she fight and scream from the rooftops; but there is a tactful and polite way in which to address these issues. She is daadi's grand daughter after all!<br><br>With G ma's self-assumption about Akshara telling RajS about the pallu incident and trusting Gulabo's words today, it is pretty clear where this story is going...if Naitik doesn't defend her, Akshara will be buried under the stares, the unrealistic expectations, the pallu and everything else the Singhanias hold dear....Ideally, I want to see Aksh speak up and defend herself even against her husband if necessary and for Naitik to be there for his wife through thick and thin...That is what being a married couple is all about! <br><br>As for Naitik being a liar, I see it as growing defiance...a defiance that will ultimately lead to the Singhanias losing their son and d-i-l if they don't let go of their archaic rules and traditions...no one should have to live in fear of what the elders will think with their every move and action...and Naitik is just reacting to that realization!<br>

Anji, Lata does have a point tht Naitik lies too much..for himself and for Akshara.(ur reasoning is perfect as to why he is forced to do it)........firstly, his intention behind lying is ONLY to make Akshara happy , and not to hurt his family sentiments at the same time.....otherwise nobody cares for her happiness in the household do they? in so many restrictions , Naitik knows that Akshara is not able to live her life , that's why he doesn't wanna leave a chance to make her happy even if it means going against his family...that's the best possible way , acc. to him, to balance both of them....secondly, the blame coming on Akshara, well Naitik (or any normal guy ) can never understand the mindgames of women ! how and when does the blame come on Aksh, he'll never be able to guess (and in this case, even Akshara hasn't figured it out yet) ..he makes a lot of effort from his side but he falters when it comes to understanding the thinking of females (this happens bec. of his affection for his mom also..he can't think ill abt her..he loves her)

Yes he is responsible for putting Aksh in trouble a lot of times , we can't put the entire blame on him though..bec. i dun know if he had NOT done it then Aksh wud be in a better position or not 😕 i doubt...


the screenplay has a lot of inconsistencies , the characters change according to the demands of the script...yest. i was watching 9th march, there Gayitri , just to please naitik , went against Daddaji n asked Vishambhar to let Aksh and Naitik talk privately..the same Gayitri is now hell against going one order of Dino 😕 That day Naitik said Rashmi loves to watch movies, and he made it obvious that he too likes movies..then why did Gayitri said yest. that they never allowed their daughters to watch movies? the special facility given to Aksh ONLY as a favor ? 😕 Before Naitik's marriage, Gayitri helped Naitik n lied to her family, Daddaji, Bhabhi ma and Rajshri also many times...what happened to her now? Naitik and Akshara both lied a lot of times in their courtship (which r not lies in my opinion..) ..morals and ethics are relative terms.....if we take "lie" in a literal sense then akshara lied to Gayitri more than once, now that may be bec. of her immaturity or nervousness or whatever (when she misplaced her necklace) ..yes she doesn't know the family well , may be she's trying to "know" them well before taking a stand , so she's right there but what about Naitik? Why do we expect him to revolt against his family for Akshara? Did Akshara discussed any problem with him? He's unaware of how akshara is treated in the house and how his lies are putting akshara in trouble ..that's bec. he loves his family also and he trusts them....may be that's his mistake....If Gulabo is bitching abt her, that's also Naitik's mistake..the blame ghooma phira ke should come on naitik only ! i'm fed up of justifying him..now his actions will speak for him...not me

another inconsistency is the lack of conversation b/w all the characters ! Aksh having lived in a joint family must be knowing the importance of communication, specially bec. she's not able to put forth her point of view clearly (she's admitted tht) ...Why didn't she tell Gayitri (after Rajshri left) that she wants to do tulsi pooja at her house and not maayka? Also, it never happened once that naitik and Aksh "discussed" something and reached a mutual decision..why didn't Naitik called Akshara and asked her wish? whether she wants to go to maayka or no? this building up of useless drama is done only to strech the episodes nothing else....we share each n every tiny detail abt our lives and our moves with our partners..chahe it's as simple as going to the market..in this age where we're connected with the world 24X7, we r free to call anybody anywhere anytime, these 2 , inka connection hi nahi hota when it's most important 🤢