Daddaji and Dinosaurs - Page 2

wat a funny title...i just laughed out when i saw the title

Originally posted by: Tafseer

Dinosaurs ki itni beizzati???? totally hated them........

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TOO GOOD, TAFFY...............................

Thanks guys :-)

You know what, maybe since they want to show ancient history, the creatives should have used dinosaurs instead of cars for Singhania family. Imagine, one dinosaur could have carried the entire clan

Originally posted by: lathika4u

In fact i wanted to ask this question to RS/SP team that which age they are living to creative this type of old fashioned story? World is moving so fast forward and this team taking the 2nd largest populated country so backward hence the reason for India behind everything when all other countries progress forward..

Whatever backward messeage they are giving out here is influencing millions of people's mind and this is not right.. come on move forward along with the time..

All developed countries is thinking about global warming, saving one drop of water and trying to find solutions to the problems, where as this serial is taking indian people's mentality to the sathi era..

Next release from RS/SP we can see casts will be called to act as Dinosaurs .. such a foolish historic freaks hindering advancement of woman's freedom in the country..

Originally posted by: sanw

Lathika, although U r right in saying thatthey are giving backward messages which influence millions of people. But the truth may be this although not to a larger society. yet in some parts of India this does exist. Even after several years of marriage, I am not allowed to go to my mother's place so easily. My m-i-l inflences my husband to stop me from going there. my parents are asked to visit my p-i-l 's place to see if all is fine at their end as they (in laws) stay alone. but the thing is even my parents are alone, why should they be asked to perform this duty. only becoz they are parents of a girl who has been wedded in their family? I feel so bad but I cant do anything. my parents know this but they say we want u to be happy & its not a big deal. I am an educated girl working & earning, but when it comes to family matters, its the age old practice going on even now.

So its like, we either want to see the reality or want to come out of it & see a very good world ! (which doesnt exist on a larger scale)

India will never rise beyond this, atleast not those 80-85% people who have this mind set.

i would like to say something, if i may.....

i agree this ladki wale-ladke wale thing is still quite prevalent in india.............and i think it will remain to some extent till the joint family culture continues in india.......

.......joint family culture , i think should DEFINITELY continue.........what should change and WILL DEFINITELY change with time....is the attitude of in-laws towards the d-i-l and the ladki-wale.........

......let us all take it upon US to bring about this change gradually.........we just have to make our motto in life.....LIVE AND LET LIVE........with our d-i-ls, whenever our kids grow up u know............what say?......till then......just sing....

where is the time to hate?......
when there is so little time to love................. 😊

Originally posted by: rsk2fan-renu-

i would like to say something, if i may.....

i agree this ladki wale-ladke wale thing is still quite prevalent in india.............and i think it will remain to some extent till the joint family culture continues in india.......

.......joint family culture , i think should DEFINITELY continue.........what should change and WILL DEFINITELY change with time....is the attitude of in-laws towards the d-i-l and the ladki-wale.........

......let us all take it upon US to bring about this change gradually.........we just have to make our motto in life.....LIVE AND LET LIVE........with our d-i-ls, whenever our kids grow up u know............what say?......till then......just sing....

where is the time to hate?......
when there is so little time to love................. 😊

Originally posted by: sanw

Lathika, although U r right in saying that they are giving backward messages which influence millions of people. But the truth may be this although not to a larger society. yet in some parts of India this does exist. Even after several years of marriage, I am not allowed to go to my mother's place so easily. My m-i-l inflences my husband to stop me from going there. my parents are asked to visit my p-i-l 's place to see if all is fine at their end as they (in laws) stay alone. but the thing is even my parents are alone, why should they be asked to perform this duty. only becoz they are parents of a girl who has been wedded in their family? I feel so bad but I cant do anything. my parents know this but they say we want u to be happy & its not a big deal. I am an educated girl working & earning, but when it comes to family matters, its the age old practice going on even now.

So its like, we either want to see the reality or want to come out of it & see a very good world ! (which doesnt exist on a larger scale)

India will never rise beyond this, atleast not those 80-85% people who have this mind set.

what i am requesting the RS/SP team is to bring a solution to this realities..as you mentioned it exists, but someone should show a way to resolve these problems.. since most of them watch TV soaps bring a change to this thinking thru the medium, rather than showing the realities and making everyone sad..

if i am in your position and facing the same problem, first and foremost is i will go to MIL (looking at her moods) and ask this question, mum why you are not happy when i visit my parents.. will try to get an answer and try to solve her mental problem/ block (or thinking) related to this issue .. by doing so, i will be very careful not to hurt her, rather i will agree to all what she says,but try to get my point across and a will try to earn a sympathy from her, so that she will not be an issue for my visit to my parents ...

you needed to look into this issue also what is influencing your husband's mind, what is her msg which is getting into his brains so much for him to stop you and find a solution to that also.. it is all mind game .. power game, authority game, ego trips ,if you give up a little bit here and there everything will be alright ..

another issue is you are educated she may not be as educated or exposed like you, so needed to bring that understanding in you first before approaching her..

most of the time we create problems for ourselves, our thinking, attitude creates problems for ourselves, when we point a finger at someone, there are 3 fingers pointing at our direction, that needed to be looked into, that is look within .. and believe me, most of the problem will be resolved by itself ..

ya our dj must have been cool during the ice age... wid all those dinasaurs

Originally posted by: sanw

surely there is no time to hate!

I have seen my nani treating my mami. she was a perfect saas in the world.

I see my mother. my bhabhi has all the freedom. there is such a cordial relationship between the 2. infact when my bhabhi sees me in this state, she asks when when my in-laws will come to the 21st century!

but she also knows that this is how the world is with few exceptions & she is glad to be part of that exception!

surely we can change the world but that will be like after 25years, what about the present?

that's what we r watching YRKKH

one side we see people like singhanias (80-85%) and on the other are Maheshwaris (15-20%)

well, i don't think the ratio is that bad...... but i dont really know for sure....

the point is......50-60 year olds cannot be expected to change their beliefs(right or wrong) overnight, which they have firmly believed as right views all their lives......
.....at the same time a newly married girl cannot be expected to take trash(like akshara is quietly taking)...because the situation will only get worse for her......and why should she...?

so..what is the solution??????..................

i think it is very imp for the girl to be financially independent........
also, a clear cut conversation b/w girl n boy before marriage regarding this issue......
most imp. - the girl's individuality should be maintained........
but keep trying that family does not break up.......unless situation is unmanageable.........talking logically usually helps........avoid confrontations...but don't shy away from discussing matters which disturb u.........
like lord krishna said, "the torturer is to be blamed.....but so is the one tortured"....

............no human being should tolerate insults in the name of sanskaar.........

these are my views....may not be agreeable to some......................