Another generally dissapointing Monday.... - Page 9

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

ya she spoke very innocenty about her experience which back fired on her...as usual...

Mata G should have warned her about Nandini's emotions....she remembered to tell useless things like Rashmi is @ her friend's house etc etc but ye kaam ki baat she convinently forgot!! 😡

Ritu, i was thinking ke Akshara didn't have any idea tht her talk will hurt nandini to this extent but she must be having 1% idea tht nandini is elder to naitik and she's still unmarried toh there must be some reason behind it..and nandini is not in this position willingly but bec. she's handicap...

Also, i think Naitik is a bit more possessive for Nandini & his mom than anyone else in the family....everybody loves nandini & is tactful with her except her own mom & dad....after this incident, akshara will surely take care in future...but she must stop acting like a dadi and giving pravachans...she got a pravachan tdy and she passed it on to naitik and nandini.....thoda sa consequences ke baare mein bhi sochna chahiye........if dadi said something tht is not the universal truth....see the person time and circumstance also before talking or implementing ! ab when she told Naitik that dadi said tht taareef karne se log impress ho jaate hain...so did she say all tht to naitik to impress him or did she really mean it? mujhe nahi samajh aata ! 😕

abhi it's just 1 week of her marriage and she's telling naitik to pay attention to his mom and family...when did he give attention to akshara anyways? what about THEIR life? 😭

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

Akshara tells Naitik that she wanted to include Gayatri in everything they do to keep her happy...this is wht Dadi's prvachan was and Naitik said jokingly that he should have married Dadi since she was so vidvaan 😃

Bhabhi ma, G and Naitik went to a jotish for Nandini's wedding...

Vish wanted to take Rajshri on a date...out for bhojan 😛....asked Dadi for permission 😆....romance back alive at this age...Omi kaka sad on his situation again 😕

Akshara tried to talk to Nandini and make her feel happy...but she innocently spilled the beans to Nandini that they went to see the jotish...that upset Nandini even more...I wish Gayatri told Akshara not to tell Nandini anything about the jotish 😡....

Akshara went on about how happy she is with the wedding and how happy she is...

Rajshri ready to go with Vish...after Varsha helped her get ready 😆...Shaurya also gets ideas from them but Varsha says he is not romantic like Vish or even Naitik, who apparently understand Akshara so well already

Omi kaka and kaki talk and he does bandage her finger...but later makes her cry as usual...

and finally Gulabo silly talk fornothing😡....blaming Akshara for everything...

Ah ! finally managed to watch yest. episode... 😃 i so agree with all the comments but here r my 2 cents..

firstly, it was more of Gayitri's fault , when bhabhi ma instructed her tht nandini must not know abt their visit to astrologer then she should have told akshara to be careful and not tell nandini.... 😲

secondly, akshara telling all tht to nandini ..oh god ! nandini must be very hurt..anybody will , in her condition...but she didn't say a word to akshara, that's very sweet of her....akshara said all tht unintentionally but she was acting like a super exited baby at tht time..as if her married life is rocking ! can't believe she said mujhe naitik se darr lagta tha 😲 par ab hum dost hain ....bakwas dialogues .. 🤢 senseless talk...

thirdly, it's not gulabo's fault here...she just interpreted the whole thing (as nandini might have taken it) and said the same ..she didn't add any mirch masala....now whether someone agrees or not, thodaaaaaa sa , we must be very careful with our conduct in front of servants....bec. servants "kisi ke nahi hote " ...it's not the question of believing or not believing...everybody saw nandini's condition ....so obviously she was hurt....they will obviously believe gulabo....Naitik getting upset on Akshara is okay but itna bhi naraaz hone wali baat nahi hai..he can just explain it to her the whole situation with nandini..... Akshara must know where she went wrong.......she must be careful in future....

Originally posted by: skydome

The Monday episode about Nandini/ Gulabowas disgusting, tasteless and cheap. It sends poor/poor image about Udaipur families.

As viewers we felt the creatives very quickly put together the story, and Nandini, Naitik and others performance were very poor and unnatural.

In general - advices/ experiences like Akshara's to Nandini is seen to be taken as positive - but this was a...b...s...u...r...d. Very difficult to digest.

YRKKH is fortunate to have extraordinary team of performers but they are unable to make best use of them. Director, Producer, Creatives - it's past time that you guys wake up !!!!!!!!!!!!!

even i felt the same.. all those acting came as unnatural, it look like even actors can't believe so much of MU's going on which is even not acceptable to them, as they themselfs could not believe these stupid tracks.. and reflected it on their acting..😆

Originally posted by: aviation-ca

Yeah... just get a guy for Nandini, so we can do bidaai to both Nandini & Gulaabo... btw, I think Askh should have shown some sensitivity towards Nandini's condition. There is a difference of Aksh not ready for getting married vs. Nandini ordeal of not finding a groom who will take her with her issue.... also brings to mind, would the Singhania's or for that matter Naitik himself would have married a girl if she was not perfect???? I think not!!!

Just a thought

it's extremely unfortunate & sad..the vicious circle of life..i'm facing the same situation in my family..my sis in law has a slight speech problem & she's a bit slow...now if we look for somebody who's normal, we think why wud anybody want to marry her bec. tht guy can get any normal girl...and when we look for somebody with some problem, now those guys want a normal girl for their son...therez no solution to these problems..only God can show some way 😭

coming to yrkkh, yes, akshara should be a little more careful with nandini at least.....

well only 10 pages for me to read it thought atleast 30 pages ho gaye honge.but seems everyone is celebrating dusshera.

Originally posted by: vishid

naitik and akshara fights every monday for stupid reason and they solve their problem on fridya again the other monday they start fighting and again solve it on friday LOL

that is how creatives planned the episodes... but no planning as far as story line is concerned...

they should appoint a person to look into this aspect, story should be written well in advance, and another person look into it and split it into episodes, another person comes with what masala to add, and another opinion whether it will click with audience, then go for the sequence shoot ...here they are planning only for what you mentioned above😆

Originally posted by: ashforever2009

i agree with u .i also liked the way naitik supported nandini bt on the other hand i was sad how he was upset with aksahra

haree... what for he stood up, without knowing what is what.. he acts like stupid at times, without even having the courtesy to listen to what his wife has to say.... one sided blind support i cannot accept it.. so in the end even if your wife is innocent, you support your sister, i cannot find any justice to his stand..

Originally posted by: lathika4u

that how creatives planned the episodes... but no planning as far as story line is concerned...

they should appoint a person to look into this aspect, story should be written well in advance, and another person look into it and split it into episodes, another person comes with what masala to add, and another opinion whether it will click with audience, then go for the sequence shoot ...here they are planning only for what you mentioned above😆

Originally posted by: aviation-ca

Yeah... just get a guy for Nandini, so we can do bidaai to both Nandini & Gulaabo... btw, I think Askh should have shown some sensitivity towards Nandini's condition. There is a difference of Aksh not ready for getting married vs. Nandini ordeal of not finding a groom who will take her with her issue.... also brings to mind, would the Singhania's or for that matter Naitik himself would have married a girl if she was not perfect???? I think not!!!

Just a thought

she cannot show it, as from the first meeting nandini getting upset for that only.. so akshara has to treat her like herself, she cannot show any sympathy to her, since nandini do not want it..

Originally posted by: gamma

Hi guys, I am new to YRKKH forum . I watch this show regularly. Here is my take on today's episode.<br><br>Gulabos reaction was very realistic. This is how most servants behave. Gulabo is not only the house servant but she is Nandini's helper as well. She stays with Nandini most of the time and has seen her pain, so Gulabo naturally feels for Nandini. Gulabo does not know Askshara that well as Akshara is new to the family, that's why it is very normal that Gulabo misinterpreted her conversation with Nandini. <br><br>Even though Akshara had good intentions, she went on and on. The problem is that she never looks at the person when she talks as she just talks in the air. She never even paused during her talk and looked at Nandini to notice how Nandini is feeling. Akshara made the same mistake during her SR2 when she wanted to confess. She went too far from Naitik and started her conversation without even looking at him. <br>Akshara follows her Dadi's advice blindly. Why didn't Dadi tell that "Akshara you need to look at other persons face while talking and pause a little bit to notice thier reaction"😆<br><br>Charu rightly pointed out that Nanad is Saas weak point. So true. Every girl should always remember this rule.😆 Akshara should not only be careful with Nandini but Rashmi as well until she well adjusts into the family.<br><br>Its was completely Bhabhima's and Gayatri's fault that they didn't inform Akshara not to tell Nandini about their visit to the astrologer.😔<br><br>Lastly Naitik's reaction to this fiasco is very normal. That's how a brother would react if his sister is hurt. He knows Akshara for few days only, its very natural for him to side with his sister.<br><br><br>

👏 agree with every word of yours ! my saasu ma says that if u wanna know abt the family, ask their servants ! one must be a little careful in front of servants..how we behave, what we do...do anything behind the closed doors of ur rooms but never in front of servants....everybody is under the impression that servants are always neutral and why will they say anything in sombody's favor or something against them? can't blame naitik for trusting gulabo...even akshara treats dhaniya like her sister.....therez a blind trust on servants in both the families ! gulabo interpreted it correctly, tht's exactly how nandini felt when she heard akshara talking......

i'm sure nandini will forgive and forget this incident and not let the blame come on akshara......