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Posted: 16 years ago
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I feel Gaythri and Rajhsri are both just weird, and having double standards!!!
let me start with gayathri... she always wanted to get a bride for her munna..and always waited for her bahu 2 come..and i rem clearly ,she told munna b4 his wedding, nw u must get used to ur wife doin work for u,,,im not gonan do anythin for u after ur marriage...
but what is she doin now?? shes not givin akshara a chance to adjust to naitik's way of living!!!
and on d other side...rajhshri is so worried if her daughter is happy in her sasural or not...but when her daughter tells her dun worry, every1 takes care of me well..and i have my own maa der.. she feels bad!!!
what double standards are these???
i mean cant both mothers just be happy that their children are happily married???? !!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hi I don't think rajashri is having any double standards. its Gayatri who has it. Akshara is now innocent
and she doesn't know about gayatri's mentality still yet. generally (especially nowadays) always a guys mother is exactly the same way how gayatri behaves. doesn't want her son to get mingled with his inlaws, but would want her son-in-law to be with them always in their house. Don't u think is this not really unfair that how she expects her daughter's husband to be with them . don't u think that a girls mother also expects the same way especially when they have only daughter/s. Today's episode
what they have shown about gayatri is very true 100% . still people are facing these problems to much extent bcoz of which the healthy relation gets affected between wife and husband. any girl
would keep quite to any extent or she may realize very late. but at cetain stage she will definitely raise this question. why is it so always a boys mother expects everything from girl but never allow to be freed n eventually she and her family would be blamed.

May be akshara would realize this difference when rashmi n nandini gets married. by seeing that they always stay at mother's place where as she has to fulfill the duties of a bahu but not a daughter. is it not applied to rashmi n nandini. may be even naitik wouldn't support akshara eventually akshara has to struggle.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepti18

Hi I don't think rajashri is having any double standards. its Gayatri who has it. Akshara is now innocent
and she doesn't know about gayatri's mentality still yet. generally (especially nowadays) always a guys mother is exactly the same way how gayatri behaves. doesn't want her son to get mingled with his inlaws, but would want her son-in-law to be with them always in their house. Don't u think is this not really unfair that how she expects her daughter's husband to be with them . don't u think that a girls mother also expects the same way especially when they have only daughter/s. Today's episode
what they have shown about gayatri is very true 100% . still people are facing these problems to much extent bcoz of which the healthy relation gets affected between wife and husband. any girl
would keep quite to any extent or she may realize very late. but at cetain stage she will definitely raise this question. why is it so always a boys mother expects everything from girl but never allow to be freed n eventually she and her family would be blamed.

May be akshara would realize this difference when rashmi n nandini gets married. by seeing that they always stay at mother's place where as she has to fulfill the duties of a bahu but not a daughter. is it not applied to rashmi n nandini. may be even naitik wouldn't support akshara eventually akshara has to struggle.




I agree Rajshri is just being emotional....but Gayatri is plain possessive and I also agree that this thing is very much prevalent in many families. Unfortunately, some sas dont undertsand even when their daughters get married. They would then expect their Bahu and Son-in-law to obey them..

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yes Gayatri is not doing Gud but Rajshri is just emotional....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yes i do not think rajshri was wrong but gayatri needs to take a chill pill..stop being possessive..i know its hard on mothers but i think the earlier it starts the better it is for akshi
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yes i do not think rajshri was wrong but gayatri needs to take a chill pill..stop being possessive..i know its hard on mothers but i think the earlier it starts the better it is for akshi
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepti18

Hi I don't think rajashri is having any double standards. its Gayatri who has it. Akshara is now innocent <br>and she doesn't know about gayatri's mentality still yet. generally (especially nowadays) always a guys mother is exactly the same way how gayatri behaves. doesn't want her son to get mingled with his inlaws, but would want her son-in-law to be with them always in their house. Don't u think is this not really unfair that how she expects her daughter's husband to be with them . don't u think that a girls mother also expects the same way especially when they have only daughter/s. Today's episode <br>what they have shown about gayatri is very true 100% . still people are facing these problems to much extent bcoz of which the healthy relation gets affected between wife and husband. any girl <br>would keep quite to any extent or she may realize very late. but at cetain stage she will definitely raise this question. why is it so always a boys mother expects everything from girl but never allow to be freed n eventually she and her family would be blamed.<br><br>May be akshara would realize this difference when rashmi n nandini gets married. by seeing that they always stay at mother's place where as she has to fulfill the duties of a bahu but not a daughter. is it not applied to rashmi n nandini. may be even naitik wouldn't support akshara eventually akshara has to struggle.<br>



i agree with you..Gayitri will change when her own daughter will get married...these things do matter...a complete family is important to understand relationships fully...

I'll not say that they have double standards....it's easier said than done..till the time it really happened, they didn't realize it's gonna be so tough...it's nothing but love...human instincts..i read a nice story somewhere....a man had a lifelong dream of getting a Ferrari..he worked all his life and finally he got one...for a few days he was very happy but after sometime, he got fed up with it n thought "this is not what i wanted" 😆

be very careful while asking for a wish...woh sach ho sakti hai 😆

It's very easy to hypothesize "oh i wud done this in so and so situation", "this is not right", "how can he act that way? i wud have acted mature" but dude, just be in his place to understand what he's going through ! every person has a different emotional quotient...females are far more emotional and sensitive..tht's why Rajshri and Gayitri are facing these problems while Rajshekhar and Vishambhar have accepted the reality whole heartedly

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepti18

Hi I don't think rajashri is having any double standards. its Gayatri who has it. Akshara is now innocent
and she doesn't know about gayatri's mentality still yet. generally (especially nowadays) always a guys mother is exactly the same way how gayatri behaves. doesn't want her son to get mingled with his inlaws, but would want her son-in-law to be with them always in their house. Don't u think is this not really unfair that how she expects her daughter's husband to be with them . don't u think that a girls mother also expects the same way especially when they have only daughter/s. Today's episode
what they have shown about gayatri is very true 100% . still people are facing these problems to much extent bcoz of which the healthy relation gets affected between wife and husband. any girl
would keep quite to any extent or she may realize very late. but at cetain stage she will definitely raise this question. why is it so always a boys mother expects everything from girl but never allow to be freed n eventually she and her family would be blamed.

May be akshara would realize this difference when rashmi n nandini gets married. by seeing that they always stay at mother's place where as she has to fulfill the duties of a bahu but not a daughter. is it not applied to rashmi n nandini. may be even naitik wouldn't support akshara eventually akshara has to struggle.

i think time is the best teacher..............................
she will understand as time passes..............
but rajshri was always nice to varsha even when her own daughter (akshii) was not married........
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepti18

Hi I don't think rajashri is having any double standards. its Gayatri who has it. Akshara is now innocent
and she doesn't know about gayatri's mentality still yet. generally (especially nowadays) always a guys mother is exactly the same way how gayatri behaves. doesn't want her son to get mingled with his inlaws, but would want her son-in-law to be with them always in their house. Don't u think is this not really unfair that how she expects her daughter's husband to be with them . don't u think that a girls mother also expects the same way especially when they have only daughter/s. Today's episode
what they have shown about gayatri is very true 100% . still people are facing these problems to much extent bcoz of which the healthy relation gets affected between wife and husband. any girl
would keep quite to any extent or she may realize very late. but at cetain stage she will definitely raise this question. why is it so always a boys mother expects everything from girl but never allow to be freed n eventually she and her family would be blamed.

May be akshara would realize this difference when rashmi n nandini gets married. by seeing that they always stay at mother's place where as she has to fulfill the duties of a bahu but not a daughter. is it not applied to rashmi n nandini. may be even naitik wouldn't support akshara eventually akshara has to struggle.

well said...Rajshri is going through a shock phase just like Gayatri....it was sad that Akshara didnt realize that today her mother was not worried but saddened by the pain of the loss of her daughter to someone else...she will realize it soon but cant do anything....everyone will have to accept that change and build & grow new rishtas...she is lucky to have ppl like Bhabhi ma, her sasur & Rashmi/Nandini in her house also....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Amisha, i love to read ur posts :) very thoughtful and balanced..

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