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Posted: 16 years ago
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1. trust
2. open minded
3. love
4. communication
5. reliable
6.Honesty
7.Commitment
8.Comprimise
9.Support
10.SPACE
11.patience
12. passion
what u say rate them & suggest if u had other
i think
To build a relationship definitely you need trust then that relationship can be further maintained on - love & affection. One has to be very reliable/ honest to continue.One must also respect eachothers point of view/ thought. All above factors can only lead to a healthy and long lasting relationship.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#2

How would you like to be treated in a relationship?

What kind of treatment do you need to feel:

Loved

Respected

Cherished

Safe

Equal

Happy

Confident

Valuable

Honoured

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hmmmmm....Love is already there in a relationship so i would no longer mention that. For me the top three would definitely be
1) God - you must share a common beleif, to me this is important.
2) Communication - there must be constant communication between to the two of you
3) Respect - you must respect each others differences and boundaries
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Posted: 16 years ago
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There is no reason on earth that you should not feel loved, respected, cherished, safe etc, provided you have freedom of choice. It's your right. Establishing what matters most to you in a relationship, and being as clear as you possibly can, is the key to exercising that right.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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1. trust - trust is one of the most important things you need in a relationship. you can't respect each other without having trust.
2. open minded - This is important.
3. love - one of the most important things, without love there is so relationship
4. communication - communication is key. In order to respect and understand each other you must have regular communication. You must trust to tell each other everything.
5. reliable - in a relationship you need someone who you can rely on. someone who will be there for you in your tough times.
6.Honesty - Honesty is key, would you want a relationship that is a lie? there is no trust without honesty.
7.Comprimise - If your going to be in a relationship, you will have to learn to comprimise. you can't always have things your own way, you need to consider each other.
8.Support - support is important, you don't want someone who won't stand by you.
9.SPACE - Space is important, you don't want someone who always follows you around. you want someone who knows when you need space, because sometimes you just want to be alone.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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My order would be
1.)trust
2.) love
3.)communication
4.)Honesty
5.)Passion
These are the top 5 for me....there needs to be communication and need to be honest with each other.
Then the rest in this order :)
Support
Patience
Compromise
Open minded
Commitment
Reliable
Space
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Posted: 16 years ago
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In my opinion,the most important thing in a successfull marriage is
First learn to give the love,respect and rights of your partner than to take them first.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#8
I find trust most imp
then come love
followed by respect, support & communication
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Posted: 16 years ago
#9

all these things are important yes, but perfection can never be there..all these things vary in degree with time & many other factors....these are idealistic values...

1) trust - comes with time & understanding
2.) love - is the foundation of any relationship but everybody has different perception of love ..it changes it form with time

3.)communication - is necessary but at the right time, right place and right mood

4.)Honesty- i feel is most important bec. trust can come only with honesty, but it's not possible to be honest all the time..

5.)Passion- well it depends on many other factors..it diminishes with time
Support- u feel important and loved when someone stands by you

Patience- yes but it's difficult to be patient everytime..therez limit to it

Compromise - the more you compromise the more you start drifting from all the above virtues ! ..you can't do without it and you can't do with it..till the time ur happy abt something ur doing, making too many compromises will make u feel irritated from within..u think ur losing your identity...so if therez no other way then accept it and be happy abt it..don't think ur compromising..

Open minded - depends on one's nature

Commitment - again it varies from person to person ..depends on ones thoughts and what he wants from life

Space - giving space is very important in a relationship
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I feel if love is there in a relationship, all others things follow..respect, trust, understanding, passion, commitment, patience etc. etc.

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