Originally posted by: mehraan
wow charu..thanx 4 replyg dear...u have said it all...i dnt have anythg 2 say...i completely agree wid ur last para...the real love or the true love is only after marraige...tats wat the show is abt .......the phase of courtship.....or even after the engagement process...u try 2 please ur partner some or the other way...or trying 2 correct urself jus 2 be inapt wid ur partner or shall i say compataible ......bt the testg time is after marraige ... my hubby is complete naitaik who wudnt take nono....n wud go 2 any xtent 2 have his word accepted ...he was like tis b4 marraige bt has mellowed down abit aftr marraige.......im in love wid the akshara n naitaiks stry as it reminds me of mine as how dumb n confused i was!!
thanx 4 the last para...it has touched my heart....😃
Thanks so much dear...ur husband is like Naitik n I was like Naitik 😆 my husband is such a foodie n i have a very limited choice in food ..he likes fish so much n i thot i'll try to have it coz he likes it...we ordered it n i just couldn't eat it ,i gave it all to him 😆 actually it's a big trouble when we have to go out for dinners...he loves chinese but i don't so in our 5 yrs of marriage, we've never been to a chinese restaurant...we always go to tht place where India and Chinese r available.....but it's ok ......the point is that you must not try to change ur partner according to u bec. it's very difficult n it won't happen ..so better accept it n live with it...
Did u see how Naitik accepted Akshara's choice but after marriage he won't do it..at least for a while till they r in love! tht's what the difficult task is after marriage...few habits n lifestyle which u don't wanna change n u have to adapt to it 😳
Edited by _charu_ - 16 years ago
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