Loved today's episode, it was excellent, very well executed. Abheer's lines were extremely mature, ki saap bhi mar gaya aur laathi bhi nahin tooti. From now on, marriage will go well, without any drama, hopefully (thanks to TN and Abheer). Abheer achieved his purpose without really hurting anyone's feelings. Yes, Dadi's ego crashed, but for good.
But everytime TN talks about Abheer's marriage and Abheer not breaking his confidence, it really scares the hell out of me...regarding AbHer. He has such confidence in Abheer that he will never go Madhav way, but Abheer is all set to go Madhav way. How can he control his feelings. But seeing how Abheer handled TN today...maturely and calmly, when TN scolded him in front of everyone, gives me hope that Abheer will be able to manage TN in future also. If Abheer is right, he is not scared of TN. I dont know how Abheer will get Lehar without breaking his parent's heart. It seems way too scary, but interesting. It is going to be a long, slow, and hard process, but Abheer's genuine nature, pure heart, and innocence will win over TN's strict principles. Madhav's parent's half-heartedly agreed for the marriage. They did it for Madhav's sake. But when TN will agree for AbHer's marriage, after a long period of objection, he will do it full-heartedly. Its just that AbHer will need to have a lot of patience and trust in each other till TN happily accepts Lehar. Thats why, right now, like I said earlier too, they are building a base for their relationship, which has to be extremely strong.
I liked TN today. Specially the way he shut up Shuklian and the sweet conversation he had with Abheer on the terrace. I did not expect all this from him, he happily surprised me. With this serial, I am finding it hard to be judgmental, which is great. All the character's have been potrayed with great maturity. First when he was quiet when dadi was insulting Sudha in front of everyone, I kind of got mad at him. Sudha too was looking at him for some sort of support. But he gave no support whatsoever. Upar se he is telling Abheer that he closes his eyes and ears when dadi and sudha argue. Well, I am a little confused, I mean, to me this is right as well as wrong. If he starts interfering, then in his absence, Sudha will have to face more torture, and if he is not interefering, dadi will not stop taunting Sudha. But if husband does not support wife, then who will. Well, probably Sudha knows that TN is on her side and that he trust her and repects her, its just that he respects his mom too and cannot speak against her. I guess, the only way for Sudha is to ignore dadi. Or, Sudha needs to be strong enough to deal with dadi in private, without hurting her feelings. This saas-bahu drama if not handled properly can turn out really sour and complicated. Best is, 1 of them has to be mature and have a let-go policy, like Sudha is in this situation. She very well knows her limits that she has rights only over her husband and her children, and she has managed that extremely well.
Now I am excited to see tomorrow's Antakhshari.....Abheer's ched chad masti and Lehar's sharmana. 😳
Edited by Anvi2009 - 15 years ago
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