Progess of AbHer relationship

Over the weekend I was thinking of how I would like AbHer's love story to progress. Majority of the serials I have seen have less pre and post falling in love days and more misunderstanding/tension/hatred days in between the lovers. This is 1 serial, which I hope sticks to its title. This pyaar, no matter what, kabhi kam nahin hona chahiye. I know sooner or later there will be tensions between AbHer, but at no cost I want to see any misunderstanding between them (let me warn the creatives before hand 😊). I would hate to see that at the slightest of an issue or a problem, they misunderstand or mistrust each other. If they ever say that they trust each other more than themselves, then they should always stick by it.

The thing is, so far in the forum, I have been talking about how difficult it will be for AbHer's relationship to be accepted by their respective family. But in this post, I want to concentrate on how I would like to see AbHer's relationship progress before it is exposed in their families. I want every single stage of their relationship to go, not in fast-forward way, but more in slow motion. Starting from attraction, friendship, more than friendship, love, debating in mind back and forth with their feelings, realizing their love, doing sweet things for each other, accepting their love in front of each other, and finally meeting each other secretly to know each other better and enjoying their every moment together. Their respective families can know of it much, much, much later. First, let their relationship develop to a point that no 3rd person (that can be a family member, friend, or anyone in their locality), no matter how hard they try, can ever subdue AbHer's feelings for each other or create misunderstandings in-between them. There should be immense trust, understanding, and strength in their relationship.

Anyways, I want all the above said stages to be shown in full detail. We all know the outline of this story, but what is important here is how they fill in the details and how they execute it. I dont want to see from attraction to realizing to accepting all shown within a few episodes and their families knowing of it in a couple of episodes after they accept their love. Their love stages should be dragged to a point that we enjoy them, but they should definitely not shorten it. Instead of dragging aachar, papad, stitiching scenes, I would rather love if they dragged AbHer scenes. 😊 Let them show us, how beautiful each stage can be, and how both of them grow as each stage passes by. They are going to have monumental problems in front of them, due to their strict families (specially AbHer's side). Therefore, before their parents know of it, it is important for the creatives to develop their relationship in such a way so that they are able to balance their family problem with their feelings for each other.

How do you want to see AbHer's relationship progress?

Fantastic post avni😊

Originally posted by: Anvi2009

Over the weekend I was thinking of how I would like AbHer's love story to progress. Majority of the serials I have seen have less pre and post falling in love days and more misunderstanding/tension/hatred days in between the lovers. This is 1 serial, which I hope sticks to its title. This pyaar, no matter what, kabhi kam nahin hona chahiye. I know sooner or later there will be tensions between AbHer, but at no cost I want to see any misunderstanding between them (let me warn the creatives before hand 😊). I would hate to see that at the slightest of an issue or a problem, they misunderstand or mistrust each other. If they ever say that they trust each other more than themselves, then they should always stick by it. Even i dont want the love story to progress in the way u mentioned.I dont want any faltoo BT style misunderstandings between the couple.I want their love to stand strong through all the tough times they have to face because of their respective families.

The thing is, so far in the forum, I have been talking about how difficult it will be for AbHer's relationship to be accepted by their respective family. But in this post, I want to concentrate on how I would like to see AbHer's relationship progress before it is exposed in their families. I want every single stage of their relationship to go, not in fast-forward way, but more in slow motion. Starting from attraction, friendship, more than friendship, love, debating in mind back and forth with their feelings, realizing their love, doing sweet things for each other, accepting their love in front of each other, and finally meeting each other secretly to know each other better and enjoying their every moment together. Their respective families can know of it much, much, much later. First, let their relationship develop to a point that no 3rd person (that can be a family member, friend, or anyone in their locality), no matter how hard they try, can ever subdue AbHer's feelings for each other or create misunderstandings in-between them. There should be immense trust, understanding, and strength in their relationship. So far i have liked the pace of the show.In other shows the lead pair falls in love in 2 days and then they fight for the next 6 months😆I am glad that they have just shown just attraction towards leher on abeer's part and reluctant attraction on leher's part.It looks more believable .Even i want their love story to progress in a believable manner.And yes their love should be really strong in front of their families.

Anyways, I want all the above said stages to be shown in full detail. We all know the outline of this story, but what is important here is how they fill in the details and how they execute it. I dont want to see from attraction to realizing to accepting all shown within a few episodes and their families knowing of it in a couple of episodes after they accept their love. Their love stages should be dragged to a point that we enjoy them, but they should definitely not shorten it. Instead of dragging aachar, papad, stitiching scenes,Even i want the aachar-papad scenes kept to a minimum.Maybe they are showing it so we can understand the kind of people AbhEr have to deal with later on.Anyways i like the dadi i find her comments hilarious😆she is such a khadoos I would rather love if they dragged AbHer scenes. 😊 Let them show us, how beautiful each stage can be, and how both of them grow as each stage passes by. They are going to have monumental problems in front of them, due to their strict families (specially AbHer's side). Therefore, before their parents know of it, it is important for the creatives to develop their relationship in such a way so that they are able to balance their family problem with their feelings for each other. I hope the show progresses like u have mentioned.But i think it will largely depend on the kind of TRP's YPNHK gets.Its sad but true that the track of any show at the end of the day depends upon trp's.

How do you want to see AbHer's relationship progress?

While reading your post I was thinking of the film Pride and Prejudice😛..I want our Abeer to b like Darcy and Leher like Elizabeth of Pride and Prejudice😳..in that book also Elizabeth and Darcy were non-stop debating about their respective POVs,culture,social-status and all those stuffs..so u do hv the similarity to some extent😉😛..here I find Leher very much similar to Elizabeth's personality😳..Abeer is not completely Darcy😆..but he can in the near future😉😛..

@rexy - Thanks Rexy. Even I am liking the pace of the show. The attraction phase has been going on since last 7 episodes, and its mainly only from Abheer's side. Lehar's side (kind of) is yet to begin. I even liked how they established (or are establishing) all the important characters from both the families. Thank god no one takes Dadi's non-stop taunting seriously, not even the servant of the house, which I think is hilarious. TN very well knows his mother's nature, so he just answers to her lightly. Abheer's mom is also use to her taunts. Dadi loves to pamper Abheer, and when he demands anything from the servant, she has this proud smile on her face, like pauta (grandson) koi jung jeet ke aaya ho. Its so funny. I know yaar these trps are important, so lets see how this show fares. In 2 weeks, it has become No 5. show on Colors, so I guess people are liking it so far. We can only wait and watch.

@Jyoti - Abheer has a long way to go before he even comes close to Darcy, LOL. Both of them are like poles apart. Once Abheer gets serious about Lehar, he will start becoming like Darcy, he will love her passionately. I agree with you, even I see alot of similarities between Lehar and Elizabeth. Yes Jyoti, Abheer needs to get a little serious about life, specially his studies now. I am sure, soon Abheer ka patent statement, "Aakhir hamara naam Abheer Vajpyai hain" will be gone forever, thanks to Lehar. LOL. His attraction towards Lehar (I would not say love so early) will slowly change him for good (make him more responsible and mature). Actually he has already started this changing process, abhi se gaana shuru kar diya, chai peena shuru kar diya, etc etc. Once Lehar taunts him about his studies, I am sure he will start studying too. Atleast Lehar ke karan, University toh gaya. 😛

Anvi - That was a wonderful post! Absolutely amazing .. and needless to say, I agree with everything you said.