Play of words- Like, Love and Respect.

Originally posted by: mannu100

Well I agree to you with this diary psyco but but I have a different take on it suppose there would have been no diary then ?

Day before yesterday mukhi said gaurani ab is 43 umar ke admi ko apney Moh me mat bandh ..

Moh he clearly says moh meaning and undefined bond he likes her and respect her dream starting from Day one but he had never ever saw aru more than an ambitious girl and a right match for him there is a vast difference in that.

Mukhi would not have seen beyond that if there was no case of diary or saanvis push.

Believe me it's very difficult to a man in 40 to fall for a girl of 20 its very difficult coz men are always in dilemaa and for mukhi here cums the ego part no matter how much he is almost a god but after all he is the man and Ego is his right birth.

Aru has to be a mother from now onwards to mukhi coz till now we have seen mukhi as a projecter and father figure but we have also know how stubborn and childish he is but difference is aru being an upper hand due to his age can show it but mukhi cannot and thus ends up complaining lol...

Seriously when nurse did all the jhol then why Didnt he run and clear it why will he?? No I am not defending but seriously why would he mukhi has a conception that aru loves him but for him its just moh but in reality he is totally unknown the depth of her feeling mukhi thinking aru is only attracted to him and that moment he was so shocked at the diary revelation that banda pura hil gaya..and then followed by Ego fluttering dekha saanvi Yeh ladki Meri ek bhi baat nahi sunti lol sach Hi kehtey hai no matter how mature he protrays how strong he be the fact is Mukhi is worst than a 5 year kid lol and now aru has to be very careful in handling mukhi she has to fasten herself

And u know why I am shouting bring dharmi back into their lives coz this will make Mukhi realize that aru is more than that diary and being dafod..

I really want dharmi to claim mukhi and aru fighting for her rights and with fulfilling her dreams too

I don't mind if its go on ektaish way but there should be a balanced trp hmmm its important I don't mind if armu are together and fighting all obstacles lol

And I am not so hopeful for the fire scene I know editing baba pura kabada karega why this kidnapping to realise mukhi that he loves aru while he likes the diary girl .

Vast difference pasand karta hu aur pyaar karta hun..mukhi was in moh of the diary girl and loves aru but dhakan Kumar..there the great shri shri dukhi mukhi lol apni dukhipan me bechara all confused kon sa moh hai aur Kahn sa pyaar.

And this is a serial dude ups and downs are part of it I have seen worst of this type of thing so there is no matter of disappoint ment

I agree trp trick which made diary revelation out of blue but one thing I am happy that the thing is out in clear what if?? Rami would have come to know about the diary what if she had used in a dirty way what if saanvi suddenly had said this diary is mine ?

Mukhi said jisey me pasand karney laga hmm but I believe that pasand was very natural and on superficial level just like a child is infaututed with his her toys similarly mukhi too was infatuated with the diary girl..simple and this is proved by when he saw the diary into arus hand and snatched it in anger just like if a another child touch ur toys u become mad and snatched it ..

And rest for trp they will be doing lots of thing but for me aru and mukhi need to be intact and together rest they can do anything and notl 3 person should involved BTW them ..like no way.

Mukhi ki aru and aru ka dukhi mukhi bass

Originally posted by: bluejalpari17

Mannu👏 this is by far the longest post I have seen from after I have started reading this forum..may not be longest but definitely one of the longer ones. Thank you so much for putting your thought in.

I don't know whom to blame more, the girl for falling in love, unable to understand it but still runs after it, only to find her man with a pregnant friend at the hospital, or the man for knowing fully well of the girls attachment to him, running from her and his own feelings on the name of her better future, unable so explain Saanvi matter to her but wants her to stay and listen to him!!!

My head is spinning today.

Originally posted by: -RadhaMohan-

mukhi ji he is mukhiya of amboli so he always think peoples respect him ,loving him ,just becoz of his status ..that's why he don't want to marry in village.so he never had chance to be so close with outsider peoples in real terms. he has his few love ones in his family only.

so that's why for him his chamoo,dulari,his ajeeb shoes even his jangiya😆 he emotionally connected with all this same goes with diary his PANSAND means his liking.. like his all other stuff.

and like Manuu said.. what if this diary Rami or Dharmi miss use..this diary drama far away better then this.

Originally posted by: bluejalpari17

Today for the first time, she is telling them that " ab to yeh sabit hogaya ki tu bhi usse pyar karta hai". ..looking at the diary.

This dialogue totally ruined the scene for me. So all those time spent between Aru-Mukhi were nothing and took a diary to decide their fates 🤢

So..did it take for Aru to be the diary woman for him to love her?

Exactly my heartache!!!

If it was that he already admitted he 'liked" Aru and "respected" the diary girl, would have made much more sense in his happiness to find that they both are the same woman.

Can you imagine the euphoria that this fact would have brought to Mukhi? It would have been such a beautiful eureka moment!

I agree, I am getting caught up in play of words. I am upset that today was the first time he accepted his love only because of the dairy.

No it was not play of words. The diary took too much importance in the realisation wherein it should just have been the icing on the cake. It was not done nicely; it is natural to be an upset viewer.

Rest of the episode- filler. Rami has more brains than Aru Mukhi Dharmi Anshul combined.

Truly! Funny how Mukhi could rise to the his present stature with such blindness to cunning people in his own home!

Originally posted by: bluejalpari17

Yeh Diary Wali Ladki jise mein pasand karne laga hun woh Aru hain???😕

Sorry. Not in a good mood today, and definitely not in a good mood after the episode. To me it was a let down. Still cannot point a finger on it , but it was a let down for some reason.

First things first, I got very annoyed by this dialogue from Mukhi that I put in the title. So he liked the Diary girl...agreed agreed he had already fallen for Aru and was only looking for a more mature understanding of women from the dairy and started respecting the diary lady. I also have said that in many posts.

But I felt very let down today, because sometimes, the lines are very thin between tolerance, liking, affection and loving. He never said any thing else to Aru that indicated that his feelings have risen above tolerating her, because of being married to her by treachery. We never had a any monologue so far from Mukhi , not even once, even after so many sweet and gentle scenes between ArMu , that he started liking her a little bit.He never admitted to himself a teensy bit of liking towards her. Yes he cared and cared..but there was more a sense of responsibility in it until she is in the village as his wife. Neither Aru got to know, neither we got to know a single thing about what he felt for her except that he knew he has to let her go. Yes, he has a sense of responsibility and attachment to her, which is why he cried after leaving her in her home. But never till date did he use the word "pasand". Liking. He also admitted to Sanvi long time back that Aru is right for him. But never that he liked her. Thats where I guess I am let down a bit.

Another thing- Until yesterday Sanvi kept telling him that Aru is in love with him, Today for the first time, she is telling them that " ab to yeh sabit hogaya ki tu bhi usse pyar karta hai". ..looking at the diary.

Only today we saw the faint acceptance from Mukhi on his face for a fleeting few minutes that he is really in love with Aru. So..did it take for Aru to be the diary woman for him to love her?

Wait Wait Wait...nay-sayers..wait😊 I know what you all are going to say...that the diary was only meant to tell Mukhi that their relation is predestined..that destiny was involved here in the fact that she left her diary in a bus and he found it. So now Mukhi's mind should think in different direction than the fact that they were tied together into a unwanted marriage.

Agree Agree..about the destiny part. Don't say no to it. But ...makers should have shown him already admitting to himself before the dairy truth came out, or admitting to Saanvi that he had started liking Aru , but was letting her go. Then the dairy girl happening..and his respect for the diary girl would come through and mix into the same Aru. He thinks of Aru as bachkani and immature and the diary would have given him the picture of a Mature Aru. But they spoiled it by making him say that he "liked the dairy girl" and was surprised it turned out to be Aru.

If it was that he already admitted he 'liked" Aru and "respected" the diary girl, would have made much more sense in his happiness to find that they both are the same woman.

I agree, I am getting caught up in play of words. We all know that Mukhi fell for Aru long time back..but boss, it was high time he admitted some of it. I am upset that today was the first time he accepted his love only because of the dairy.

What if there was no diary in the story- What if it was only Aru. Would he never have accepted that he liked her, loved her? Even after she lived with him for a month maybe and they both do have a lot to like and respect about each other, he still needed something else to push him towards Aru?

I still agree he did not love the diary girl nor was searching for her...but the fact that today is the first time, after the show began, Mukhi used the words "pasand" for a woman and he used it for the diary girl.,somehow , made a dent in the blossoming love for me. And mhari Aru. My Aru..for the first time today...again after diary realization. 😕

I really wish makers had executed this diary sequence in a better way. He can love her more because of the diary, but he should not be loving her because she turned out to be the dairy girl.That just takes away from all the ArMu chemistry we saw so far.

Don't want to say much about Aru thinking of Sanvi baby as Mukhi's child. Why does'nt he run after her...she came so far to find him ...and he just stands there complaining to Saanvi. He is expecting Aru to be rational right now. She cannot be..he just rejected her( agreed for her own good but , rejected her) and told her to go on about her life without him and straight came to hospital to Saanvi and then the nurses words on top of it. Naturally Aru is going to think that his rejection of her feelings is partly due to Saanvi too. How can she have the patience to sit still and listen happily. Even if the mistake lied in nurses words, its is job to correct it with his estranged wife, whom he still excepts to "listen" to him " nicely".

I felt the whole diary scene was placed at the hospital out of the blue. It was not well thought out at all..would have been much better if he came to know after he left her and was returning in the jeep.

So just when Mukhi's feelings are intensified because of the diary, Aru is feeling let down because of her misunderstanding that he is Saanvi baby's dad. Yeh pakka TRP twist tha...because there was nothing moh moh style about all this. This bacche ka baap and all is very , sorry to say kektaish.

Aru didn't need a dairy or alter explanation to love Mukhi. She saw what she saw and fell for him. She doesn't know the future but atleast she is not denying her affections. Why did he need the crutch of a diary. If its about knowing her life in city there are many ways for makers to play that. Hope my questions are answered in future episodes , where both Aru and Mukhi tie the diary to happy moments like when he made tea and chana for her after reading from diary. Is the diary more for Aru's benefit or Mukhi's benefit , we don't know.😕

Rest of the episode- filler. Rami has more brains than Aru Mukhi Dharmi Anshul combined.