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Posted: 8 years ago
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Spartan,


I will come back now to your original post as I promised. I LOVED LOVED LOVED your post.


I will first put a disclaimer that I tend to write lengthy posts so this might be one of them too. Read at your own risk (of loosing time if nothing else).


I noticed even you felt that your post was lengthy. While if you see just the sheer size it may be right. But I feel I will rather read a long piece which is saying something in every line than a shorter one which says nothing,


Now back to the point made in your post, I agree that it is indeed going to be a journey of two individuals who are going to learn a lot from each other and grow together. Every good relationship enriches your life (not only marriage).


But I will however not like them to change how Mukhi looks. I will agree with your points about growth but will explicitly tell my reason for my belief.


1. Our society already pays way too much importance to how a person looks than what they are. So fat this show was breaking these stereotype. Aru should like Mukhi for what he is rather than how he looks. I liked the fact we are getting to watch Mukhi and not Eijaz in the show.


2. I remember how Mukhi did not try to change how Aru dresses up in one of the initial episodes, it was a welcome change compared to most others shows. It is indeed fit if Aru does not try to change him, at least in this superficial manner.


3. A large section of our country lives in villages. A lot of the men are from Mukhi's generation and social strata. They DO dress like him. We city dwellers have somehow forgotten the fact that there is a big section of population out there which not just exists but has as many intersting stories to tell as we do. Mukhi represent that. I do not want him to be placed in the "also ran Male Leads who look like models.


I know it is tempting to watch someone as good looking as Eijaz in a different get up, but we have seen all those Urban young guys, I think it is time to see some good old, "Son of soil from a village.


Cheers!





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Posted: 8 years ago
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Cora!

Yes you were true to your word and wrote a great reply back and i am glad you enjoyed what i wrote as well as having it be meaningful and not just mindless drivel :)

I agree ideologically with your points that looks shouldn't matter as much, that it is representing a potion of the population that does exist but let us also be realistic. Looks, appearance and attraction does matter, Mukhi didn't want to change the way Aru dressed because he wanted her to be herself, true, but that's also because he finds her attractive and already likes her.

What I was mentioning is that a small change to his wardrobe, something that lets him retain his son of the earth style but with a nod to modernism, he is starting at a point that Aru never had to, he is attracted to her, she isn't yet so yes emotionally it is important to be attracted but you also have to be attracted physically as well, and lets be real, a dhoti isn't attractive in any sense of the word, maybe to other villagers it would but there has to be some sort of nod in her direction that he is willing to make to induce attraction.

He already has enough to overcome in terms of being older than her and trying to wrap his mind around that and to have her stop seeing him as an uncle, than to also dress the part of a villager, heck look at Arjan, he is from the village yet he doesn't wear a dhoti, even Mastana wears a semblance of pants, Lalji doesn't wear a dhoti either so we can't say that all son of the earth ppl in the village have to dress the part.

A large part of india may dress the dhoti way, but they aren't all trying to woo a modern city girl 20 yrs younger than them right ;)

No one is saying he needs a makeover to a hot modern man, just a small tweak here and there 😊
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