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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: C0raline



I di not think that there are so many rituals after wedding in reality as much they show in serials.


Don't think my mum had any rituals after wedding except the pag phera, she didn't have ring finding ritual or tipping over the rice as you enter the home, it must be taken from other culture or invented by serials. My parents were like what a waste of rice and why would you treat food like that 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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How can these two even fall in love ? Their marriage is what is known as a " Toxic Relationship " seriously Real Love is being made a mockery off by Indian TV shows and this show or any other show will never change that concept.

It seems to be that women should jus accept that " hey ur husband won't love u to start with , he will be damn right cruel and angry but stick it out cause one day he will love u "

Like seriously that is not what love and marriage is about...love is sacred and marriage is sacred, why should it be abused for entertainment ?

Thank God I don care on the Jodi and would rather concentrate on Eijaz's acting because the way Aru and Mukhi are...it isn't a diff love story to all other serials...if my husband spoke to me the way Mukhi spoke to Aru...he be thrown out the door and told never to return...

I am a proud Indian woman who has self respect which is more than any off the woman we see in TV serials...yeah Aru is ambitious and says things which she believes in but at end of the day...she still a wife who has to get abused by her husband and yes shouting and screaming is abusive. Mukhi is a good man yes but he has anger issues and until he resolves his own life first, he will continue shouting and screaming at Aru...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: C0raline



I di not think that there are so many rituals after wedding in reality as much they show in serials.



I don't know much about the rituals and I guess I got my info watching some of the serials .
I guess they can make up anything to create drama!!
Edited by kuttapu - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think if Aru left now after Mishri's marriage not even the good memories will pull them back together. They need time to get to know each other more. I remember Mukhi, in anger even accused Aru of creating the whole marriage fiasco. Where was the apology for that?

They have to grow to respect each other. Mukhi I guess need to redeem his mistakes and support Aru more.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kuttapu

I think if Aru left now after Mishri's marriage not even the good memories will pull them back together. They need time to get to know each other more. I remember Mukhi, in anger even accused Aru of creating the whole marriage fiasco. Where was the apology for that?

They have to grow to respect each other. Mukhi I guess need to redeem his mistakes and support Aru more.


Exactly i want aru to go back and hona waih chayey then there moh moh ke dhage will pull them together again It said seperation is needed to grow a relationship
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kuttapu

I think if Aru left now after Mishri's marriage not even the good memories will pull them back together. They need time to get to know each other more. I remember Mukhi, in anger even accused Aru of creating the whole marriage fiasco. Where was the apology for that?

They have to grow to respect each other. Mukhi I guess need to redeem his mistakes and support Aru more.



yeah he didn't apologize for tht.. bt abhi vo gyaan hua nahi hai.. so he will keep on saying that. 😆



Kisko kitni importance deni hai vo apne haath mein hai. Usne apne vichar suna diye the mukhiji ko. Ab Mukhi jo bhi soche right now she is not bothered coz she is not in love.

But Paani sar se upar chadhega to Aru zaroor bhadkegi. Right now she is not giving much importance to Mukhiji's random outbursts. 😆

Anyways, one's dignity lies in one's hand. No one can oppress or control you as much as you allow them to.



So whether you are a man or a woman, you need to find voice for your feelings and be responsible for your actions and mistakes.

This is what I feel. And Aru personifies that "person" and that's why I like her.
Edited by violette - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelic8219



Don't think my mum had any rituals after wedding except the pag phera, she didn't have ring finding ritual or tipping over the rice as you enter the home, it must be taken from other culture or invented by serials. My parents were like what a waste of rice and why would you treat food like that 😆




I am Gujarati & they show tradition Gujarati wedding & all the rituals are very common in our culture even in USA
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pdhwani




I am Gujarati & they show tradition Gujarati wedding & all the rituals are very common in our culture even in USA


I'm Gujarati too, for post wedding rituals of relatives they had aarti done before they enter the home, they have to pay a fee before they are allowed in. Then pag phera next day. Some rituals are added.

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