DOES TRUE LOVE REALLY EXIST? RONIT-POOJA?

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Does true love as shown on tv and in movies really exist? What are your views on Love vs. Infatuation. For example, did Pooja really love Ronit or was she just infatuated with him? Can you love just once? Does having a bf or gf make you change your priorities?

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Posted: 20 years ago
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True love exists.I have seen many cases that they do...

I think there is a very thin line between love and infactuation.Many people after their love fails,get over it and finally say it was an infactuation.but i feel ,by saying it was just an infactuation,u r insulting love..

Infactuation is a feeling where you know this is not true,this wont work out,yet you feel you carzy for that person.for eg,any film star,or any passing by person.

But love is a feeling forever.you can never stop loving him or her,even if something wrong happens,even if your mind tells you to stop it....yet your feelings can never be stopped.loving somebody is an infinite process.it is all about giving a person.But i also feel,one should get love in return...or your love is just not justified.

I feel you can love once again,but to do so,it will take a long time.Your heart needs to adjust to the fact that the person you loved is not there,or he doesnt love you.Some might get over it,while some may never.

Priorities definitely change.but one should never forget the line you cross.For eg,for me always my family,my parents always come first,and then that someone special

I feel,Pooja loved ronit for real.She hasnt come off her feeling till now.She respects Ashmit,but i dnt think she loves Ashmit as much as she loved Ronit.But that doesnt mean she loves Ronit now....i think she needs time to love ashmit yet.Though ronits picture as her final destiny has been removed from her heart.Her love was true.and her feelings for ashmit are also justifiable to me.

My thoughts might be controversial...but still these are what i feel.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Yes true love really exists. It's a feeling of the heart. It is everything mixed together. Hatred, friendship, joy, love itself, and partially infatuation.

Infatuation and love are different though. Infatuation is basically attraction and just liking something. A person can be infatuated with almost anything whether it be a movie star or a movie itself.

Love on the other hand is an eternal feeling. Love is that type of feeling which is really hard to describe. It's everything mixed together. Love is not necessarily being able to give your life up for someone else. It is caring for someone, and just every feeling that exists.

You don't love just once. Although it will be very hard to love someone again, a person can still try. It usually differs from person to person. For example, some people will be able to throw away their feelings and love again, but others will not. They'll be able to live their life with the memories of their loved one. They will say that it is not right to love more than once and that love only comes once in life.

And yes. when you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, your priorities change. You need to spend some time with them and they hold an important part in your life, but your old priorities are still going to stay priorities and they should not be forgotten.

Pooja and Ronit experienced true love. They really loved each other. They could not see each other distressed and Ronit could do anything for Pooja. Pooja and Ronit even planned their future and their marriage which is also a sign of true love. Also, Ronit not only married Poornima because of guilt, but also because he didn't want to harm Pooja and her family. Ronit still loves Pooja, and it is really obvious. If it was someone else, he would not have taken that slap quietly. Ronit never shows love towards Poornima. He only fulfills his responsibilities. Likewise, Pooja only respects Ashmit. She does not love him. If she did, Ashmit would not have to sleep on the couch. Pooja respects Ashmit for the person he is, and she has only befriended him. She is only fulfilling her responsibilities. Ronit and Pooja's hearts still beat for each other and a sign of that is the guilt that both of them had after the party. They still love each other and will never forget their love.

I hope you liked my thoughts. They were kind of scattered and confusing. Soory about that.

Edited by desi gurl - 20 years ago
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Posted: 20 years ago
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True love does exist but not the way its shown on TV. Usually couples on TV are shown spending 24-7 with each other until a family member or enemy separates them up for good. In real life, you don't have to spend every single hour of the day with your boyfriend/girlfriend or thinking about them. In the beginning, its true your priorities change...you want to see your 'love' all the time. Everything else seems less important- studies, parents, other friends. That makes sense at first but it for too long, then the person needs to get a reality check.

Infatuation is more physical, more based upon looks whereas love is something more spiritual and deep. I think Pooja really did love Ronit. She trusted him. She couldn't have been infatuated by him. Ronit and Pooja knew each other long before they became bf/gf. Pooja was never really interested in Ronit's looks. She started to love him when she realized he could be a caring and sensitive person. Ronit was initially infatuated with Pooja when seeing her in Reem's dress (I beg to differ- I think he started to like her started before that) But he started to love her after getting to know her better...so I think both Pooja and Ronit loved each other.

Love is a deep feeling and I think Pooja will always have a space for Ronit in her heart. Its obvious Ronit still loves Pooja...just going by his actions, words etc. Pooja still hold a light for Ronit, but she is trying to move on. I think she understands that she has to...even Ronit seems to be developing a soft spot for Poornima.

But we fans still want to see Pooja-Ronit together 😆 Silly us!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Yu Yup Yup....2rue luv does exist!! But its diffrent from what we see in film/serials!

Pooja still loves Ronit but she doesnt show it that often.....and Ronit still loves Pooja but he too is trying to avoid it...but can't!

Films sometimes shows the meaning of "true love" but serials...they just take advantage of it and turns it into the most unrealastic things anyone has ever seen....take Ronit's and Garv's marraige for an example!😭

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Posted: 20 years ago
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I think it does not exist.

the love that they potray in movies and soap are just our fantasy, how we want our love life to be.

But in reality there are a lot more stuff going, which dillutes the innocence of love.

And there are people who make joke out love, and use it for their purpose.

I am sorry I am so negative, but in my mind true are just our mere fantasy.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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i think dat tru luv does exit & i believe dat u can fall in luv more den 1
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Posted: 20 years ago
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no true love does not exits atleast not like it shows in the dramas but the love is just getting use to some thing for example if you have a dog you slowly get use to the dog and you get effectiont toward it

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