Originally posted by: sweta2005
I think VO laughed at the name she didn't understand the meaning now,and they react as per the presen scenario and Naina has not kept any bad happenings in her heart,but Sameer knew the meaning ,so he didnt liked it
Thank you for sharing your perspective and I truly appreciate and respect it...I understand that she didn't really know what it meant by utavali bahu fine..but now when she Knows about it she should feel all the more sad about it...that how she was misunderstood...believe me ,I believe in forget and forgive too...which means I don't have any grudges against that person but somewhere that pain would always be there when it comes to we being judged about our character...and even if it may not bother us too much today yet it doesn't give any pleasant feelings too...some incidents we forget and forgive and laugh about it depending upon the gravity of the situation some we may just ignore and go ahead and some we may still not be ok with it ,yet we walk ahead in life putting behind such painful incidents but whenever we share it with someone, I would be doing it gravely...just because I have forgiven that person... doesn't mean I need to laugh. Again knowing the gravity of the situation...(she is just a young girl so naive can't Vishaka and Mami see it and they are humiliating her to such an extent not once thinking how she would feel, giving her such names)...so today when in the present when Naina's Vo is narrating this incident she should have infact felt sorry of how her elders misunderstood her...I mean it's ok yaar we are allowed to feel sad too we are no saints right? and laughing about it would be the last thing to do...
I don't know if I made any sense here...I hope it wasn't disrespectful to anyone...