sagai se bidai tak...yeh vivah..Misson PINK Post

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Hi All,
Please over look this post- if you are in no mood to listen to any of the other views on the current track of the show.. I would totally understand it. but since many are voicing their opinions... I was thinking few points of my own...

I am not bashing anyone or anything.. just being an ardent fan from the get go.. who is actively writing fan fiction on Samiana on Insta and IF .. I do look at the depth and the angles they trying to show...

The sagai: ( Feb 1994)
- All thought it was rushed and taken up due to low trps without putting in lot of thoughts..
- Rakesh, Taiji, Anand ( US trip /slap ) etc was all so looking forced..
- Suddenly college was no where in the picture and Sameer was 21 in 1994 and they were getting engaged after fighting all the family drama.
-mama mami and the whole fight was just ugly.. I mean that still was like a new low.

The Bidai ( Nov 1994)
- Again lots of time in between to fill in the gaps.. show some college months get them in the talking mode of being Mr and Mrs... understanding their respective roles when they actually become one.. NONE of that ever took center stage..
- Family feuds and nonsensical sequences kept on coming up at every turn.., we love them so much that we went ahead with it.. thinking it would be for the better...
- all events of the wedding was marred by some un realistic feud making it so not approrpiate for teh leads wedding...suddenly Sameer had no house and NO money... and what happens next.. this HUGE.. house.. he buys...realistic? his own house was smaller.. what was the need of this huge one with all the bells and whistles? when he is not using his own money nor he is earning nor he s a graduate...
- Rain in November and suddenly brown soil the next day and groom playing kabbadi.. and no kichad anywhere after once in a decade rains... chalo mana they wanted to show something different.. but.. still...
- Rakesh taking a turn and again not showing up becuase of TT .. for an excuse that made sense or not.. dont know.. if Juhi loved Arjun- would she not go ahead and get married to Arjun regardless of TT instigation against him?
- No Vishakha during the phera at all.. so weird...
- Bidai happens with the car driving off with no one making her sit or running behind the car...
- Grah pravesh happens and Naina Oggling/drooling at the house in front of all the guests... ummm is that ok?
- the games of thali that she is nervous about and doesnt pass..
- Naina sleeping with all jwellery and saree... who does that? when Vishkha and all have changed? I think removing jwelery is the first thing right? and changing out of saree?
- and the pre-cap for the week? yes some say its realistic.. but truely it is?

there were months in between : the upcoming this week
-Naina could have learnt to cook-- and could have learnt to drape a saree... she did neither? and chachi thought it was ok? and N thought it was ok?

- Hair fiasco for me is beyond comprehension... no one in any era does this.. forget about the bride.. even the beauticians would not recommed doing anything on the day off when teh bride is already wearing her bridal joda..its jarring.. and un called for...

The reason I write this..I was so looking forward to a beautiful wedding.. only to remember all the eveilness that has gone into this... I cant simply remember any beautiful moments .. either Sameer is angry or Naina is .. or someone else is taunting.. or something else...

I am so sorry-- but how can I relate this whole thing to what they had given to us in the past year...the finesse of the leads.. the capture of minute details... the expressions that were to die for... the love and the chemistry that oozed at every scene...

Again... this is Mission PINK post.. as I am trying to understand and enjoy...

and Yes I can enjoy whatever is being dished out.. but would that be fair to us who has been loyal and watching and loving them for over a year? Yes some we can let it go for the heck of creativity or lack off.. but all sequences showing something that goes not make sense.. is ok?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Thanks for putting all my frustration with this show in written...
Since Sagai track its a different show for me 😭
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: myprimechicago

Thanks for putting all my frustration with this show in written...

Since Sagai track its a different show for me 😭


I am having a hard time to understand what happened here as well...

I so want to enjoy everything.. but there are lots of un answered questions.. unresolved issues... no rhyme or reason to anything... and un realistic sequences created.. that I have no idea whey are these two facing anything and everything ... I can understand 50% of whats shown.. but all of it and that too this week preview.. it might not be harsh but these points are going to be raised to some degree.. including I read.. naina loosing her mangalsutra? she already lost the chain earlier and now mangalsutra?

I was dying to see them married.. looking at their progress and understanding from teh start of the show to before the sagai.. but what happened after? they are being shown as someone who needs more time to know each other before getting married.. to understand and respect each other and their choices and not be acting like kids ...

the Ghodi was the dream.. wasn;t the Doli a dream too? what happened to the doli? why the car suddenly...

I am sorry If I remember all the nuances.. it shows I love this show.. or used to...trying to grapple with the new reality...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Totally with you. You have written all of my frustrations too. I don't know what has happened to the writers. Since the Delhi track the show has lost its charm. So much of nonsense and I don't know what.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Same feeling...
They rushed 6 months in few episodes...and now Shaadi episodes were prolonged that too dedicated fr taunts and problems...

Any 1 or 2 problem is ok..taunts are also common...but this overdose is quite too much...

The school track was as if it is happening to a friend in my class..
That feeling s missing now...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Totally to the point.
Are they rushing through things or just dont have enough things to show?

This story used to be about growing together, learning together and being there for each other.

I understand that Sameer has changed and he doesnt get angry as much but Mami-mama have been bashing naina for days and he has nothing to say..what happened to i will protect you forever?

So much is going wrong. Everything, I repeat every single event and ritual of the marriage has gone wrong. I know weddings have some mishaps but not so many. There is no positivity scenes in the show. 😭😭

Naina was never fascinated by his money and now they show her completely mesmerized with their huge house. Why??

I understand that there is a ritual where she has to sleep in front of Ganesha for the night. But her not knowing how to wear a saree. She wore so many sarees when taiji wanted to get her married.

Are they showing this stuff because the leads dont want to shoot the intimacy shots or scenes. Is that an underlying issue?
I mean Preeti going on their honeymoon is a push. Preeti was always the smarter one and why would she request this?

I love the show and just like everyone have been watching it since the beginning but this is going down so bad. It has become a big turn off..

Again this is just my POV. I love this show and the leads. They have done wonders in the past only if they are given the right opportunity.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yudkhfan

Totally to the point.

Are they rushing through things or just dont have enough things to show?

This story used to be about growing together, learning together and being there for each other.

I understand that Sameer has changed and he doesnt get angry as much but Mami-mama have been bashing naina for days and he has nothing to say..what happened to i will protect you forever?

So much is going wrong. Everything, I repeat every single event and ritual of the marriage has gone wrong. I know weddings have some mishaps but not so many. There is no positivity scenes in the show. 😭😭

Naina was never fascinated by his money and now they show her completely mesmerized with their huge house. Why??

I understand that there is a ritual where she has to sleep in front of Ganesha for the night. But her not knowing how to wear a saree. She wore so many sarees when taiji wanted to get her married.

Are they showing this stuff because the leads dont want to shoot the intimacy shots or scenes. Is that an underlying issue?
I mean Preeti going on their honeymoon is a push. Preeti was always the smarter one and why would she request this?

I love the show and just like everyone have been watching it since the beginning but this is going down so bad. It has become a big turn off..

Again this is just my POV. I love this show and the leads. They have done wonders in the past only if they are given the right opportunity.



Sometimes I feel is the whole crew changed since Samaina Sagai?? Coz the show is going totally clueless since then
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Posted: 6 years ago
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The show indeed have some loopholes that are needed to be closed before they could have proceeded for the wedding planning
But wedding rushed thi kafi hadd tak ..
Edited by suhaaana - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Thank you for putting up all this in your post...
Although our show still far better than any other ITV show...

I have always loved this show and all the characters...but,
I feel there are few things that they need to work on...like Sameer should have made it clear to his mother when his neck burn injury was misunderstood to be something else...Naina's character was questioned which is a very big thing but they don't show Sameer speaking the simple fact...

Then for a very simple thing he gets angry...I mean we understand that he wanted him to be her priority but I think it went overboard with chilli thing and all...drinking the cola all alone...come on marriage is once in lifetime affair and you are spoiling your own memories...

Now I understand about the plates falling while the graha pravesh Rasam...maybe they were heavy or Naina was nervous...but as per the spoilers she once again has misplaced her Mangal sutra...I mean how careless she has already lost few precious gifts from Sameer (chain, birthday dress) she is a topper doesn't she learn lessons of life after making the mistakes...I feel it's always ok to make mistakes but to make same mistake again and again is not done...

Also as you rightly said...she had enough time to learn to drape a saree and learn to cook ...basic cooking and halwa is the most easiest thing although it may sound difficult...she should have learnt basic things other things will happen gradually...but here they show she doesn't know anything...I mean this is so unrealistic the Agarwal's have seen how the Maheshwari's have behaved and been so rude ...so knowing that Naina will have to hear their taunts...Bela should have taught the basic things to Naina..they are giving MM chance to degrade her...

During my school and college days I always had Agarwal friends have seen them very closely and these girls are taught so much...all my friends went to different classses be it cooking, packing, embroidery and so on...and yes all were very good in studies too...so I m unable to connect to what is shown...

I didn't mean to hurt the sentiments of anyone here, if you felt so then I m really sorry...but these are my genuine concerns ...
Edited by meeranair - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: meeranair

Thank you for putting up all this in your post...

Although our show still far better than any other ITV show...

I have always loved this show and all the characters...but,
I feel there are few things that they need to work on...like Sameer should have made it clear to his mother when his neck burn injury was misunderstood to be something else...Naina's character was questioned which is a very big thing but they don't show Sameer speaking the simple fact...

Then for a very simple thing he gets angry...I mean we understand that he wanted him to be her priority but I think it went overboard with chilli thing and all...drinking the cola all alone...come one marriage is once in lifetime affair and you are spoiling your own memories...

Now I understand about the plates falling while the graha pravesh Rasam...maybe they were heavy or Naina was nervous...but as per the spoilers she once again has misplaced her Mangal sutra...I mean how careless she has already lost few precious gifts from Sameer (chain, birthday dress) she is a topper doesn't she learn lessons of life after making the mistakes...I feel it's always ok to make mistakes but to make same mistake again and again is not done...

Also as you rightly said...she had enough time to learn to drape a saree and learn to cook ...basic cooking and halwa is the most easiest thing although it may sound difficult...she should have learnt basic things other things will happen gradually...but here they show she doesn't know anything...I mean this is so unrealistic the Agarwal's have seen how the Maheshwari's have behaved and been so rude ...so knowing that Naina will have to hear their taunts...Bela should have taught the basic things to Naina..they are giving MM chance to degrade her...

During my school and college days I always had Agarwal friends have seen them very closely and these girls are taught so much...all my friends went to different classses be it cooking, packing, embroidery and so on...and yes all were very good in studies too...so I m unable to connect to what is shown...

I didn't mean to hurt the sentiments of anyone here, if you felt so then I m really sorry...but these are my genuine concern...




In regards to her losing things, this all started recently.. they never showed her losing things in school.. she still had sameer's picture, the cassette he gave her and those things she collected during the initial phases of their love. That's the show that we fell in love with.

How does she keep losing things?
Who tries a new hair style on their wedding day? She was so hesitant to cut her hair when there was gum in her hair.. why would there be a drastic change in her now..

Lots of loose ends..

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