Taali eik haath se nahi bajti mami and vishakah ji

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Yes utterly digusting is the word for mama mami today...
They majourly wanted to tarnish nainas image, mamai being herself being a woman trying to put another girls image down like this...well sahi bahu pasand ki thi iss ne...sunaina..voh blouse ki dori pull karti hai..aur yeh kisi ki privacy ko public banati hai...
Aur yeh mama ko thi koi chdian oehna ke bitha do..kionke jo iski harkatein hain..uss se toh yehi suit karta hai iss pe...
I'm seriously confused who is moore disgusting..TT who is using hi own brothers emotions for their own profit or mama mami...who is again and again trying tarnish nainas image..abhi to aisa lag raha hai ke dono sea saw par hain..aur kanhi eik ka parla bhari hota hai toh kabhi dusre ka..har koi eik eik pasa pehnkta hai kamina panti ka

Vishakah..what to say man..pehle mujhe lagta tha ke iski akal ghas charne gayi hai...kabhi toh vapis ayegi..lekin aaj pata chala ke iss ke paas to akal hai hi nahi..toh kiya ghas charne jana aur kiya vapis ana...
What way is this to talk to your samdhan...aap ne apni bei ko sanskar diyein hain ya nahi...
And look whos talking about samajh ko samajhna..jiske paas sahi aur galt ko samajhne ke liye aur sach aur jhooth mein antar karne ke liye na toh samajh hai aur na hi buddi...
Aur vishakha...agar naina modern hoi hai toh and according to you sameer ki koi galti nahi..to usne aisa kuch hone hi kion diya...? Uss ne bhi toh karne diya tab hi hua na..taali eik haath se nahi bajti...aur jab vih keh raha tha ke chai gir gayi ghi to atleast eik baar usse side mein la ke sach jaan to leti...lekin nahi..agar voh adhi baat sunke react nahi karegi toh kaise oat chalega ke voh itne saal somani ki sangat mein thi

Bela jitni bhi anpadh ho..lekin her take was the most sensible one..she felt it was wrong of both of them to meet despite of saying no to it..but she also knows that in such situations the girls caharacter gets moore questioned and maligned rather then the guy.
Usse chaye tha vishakah ko sameer ki nighty vali baat ko leke vapis jawaab deti...atleast munnh toh bandh ho jata...but then thats the difference between the aggarwals and maheshwaris..
Voh paise vale garib aur cheap hain..jabke aggarwals apne dil aur respect se amir hain.

I feel mama mami will try to make a fuss of the fact that rakesh is not coming on the sangeet and try to humilate the aggarwals..but sameer will bring rakesh...
I hope he keeps a leash on them in the reat of the functions man..especially after what they did today...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Agree Abida

I am so disappointed in vishakha man! No more waiting for her to change.

I was saying same on LU that just like Chachi dragged Naina to a room and scolded her, why couldn't Vishakha do the same with her son?

He was with Naina too right? So he is at fault too. His sanskar are not to be questioned? Only Naina and her upbringing has to be questioned!

I also agree that to begin with when nothing happened Sameer could've shared this with his Mom. At least V Mami ko jawab de deti shayad instead of feeling humiliated.

Lastly I am also disappointed that this MU didn't get resolved. Sameer's VO should have showed regret instead of that "khaya piya kuch nahin dialogue.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Hating vishaka everyday, she have lost her mind completely, don't know what's her problem with Naina, trust me she is insecure coz Sam k liye naina ne sab kiya joh usko karna Chaiye tha, don't want to say anything to her but hope sadhi khatam hoti hi she goes back and mama Mami are the most disgusting people I have ever known, aise hi sadhi attend karne nai aye hai yeh dono, Tamasha create karne k liye aye hai and inka ka bhi sadhi k din last ho, I mean in future dikhayenge but don't want them to be with Samaina, maheswari's are the worst
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Yaar it's always the girls who is wrong whether it's true or false. Girls are to be blamed even when a boy is equally responsible for it. It has been like that and still continues like that. I hate vishaka for not acting maturely with sameer. Always she hears only half info from him. Never has patience to hear sameer completely. She is a waste body. Gobar Bhara hua hain uske brain mein
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: appukrish

Agree Abida

I am so disappointed in vishakha man! No more waiting for her to change.

I was saying same on LU that just like Chachi dragged Naina to a room and scolded her, why couldn't Vishakha do the same with her son?

He was with Naina too right? So he is at fault too. His sanskar are not to be questioned? Only Naina and her upbringing has to be questioned!

I also agree that to begin with when nothing happened Sameer could've shared this with his Mom. At least V Mami ko jawab de deti shayad instead of feeling humiliated.

Lastly I am also disappointed that this MU didn't get resolved. Sameer's VO should have showed regret instead of that "khaya piya kuch nahin dialogue.


I'm getting a feeling now that mayebe the close scene in the samgeet will also be witnessed by mama mami and they will again try to humilate naina..but mayebe then sameer will take a stand for naina and mayebe he will pin point that if naina did this..I'm also to be equally blamed as I let it happen...
I so feel there is a reason why this didn't get properly resolved or...
I badly want it to happen this way... the maheshwari elders need to face it and that too by sameer himself
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Abida_angel

Yes utterly digusting is the word for mama mami today...
They majourly wanted to tarnish nainas image, mamai being herself being a woman trying to put another girls image down like this...well sahi bahu pasand ki thi iss ne...sunaina..voh blouse ki dori pull karti hai..aur yeh kisi ki privacy ko public banati hai...
Aur yeh mama ko thi koi chdian oehna ke bitha do..kionke jo iski harkatein hain..uss se toh yehi suit karta hai iss pe...
I'm seriously confused who is moore disgusting..TT who is using hi own brothers emotions for their own profit or mama mami...who is again and again trying tarnish nainas image..abhi to aisa lag raha hai ke dono sea saw par hain..aur kanhi eik ka parla bhari hota hai toh kabhi dusre ka..har koi eik eik pasa pehnkta hai kamina panti ka

Vishakah..what to say man..pehle mujhe lagta tha ke iski akal ghas charne gayi hai...kabhi toh vapis ayegi..lekin aaj pata chala ke iss ke paas to akal hai hi nahi..toh kiya ghas charne jana aur kiya vapis ana...
What way is this to talk to your samdhan...aap ne apni bei ko sanskar diyein hain ya nahi...
And look whos talking about samajh ko samajhna..jiske paas sahi aur galt ko samajhne ke liye aur sach aur jhooth mein antar karne ke liye na toh samajh hai aur na hi buddi...
Aur vishakha...agar naina modern hoi hai toh and according to you sameer ki koi galti nahi..to usne aisa kuch hone hi kion diya...? Uss ne bhi toh karne diya tab hi hua na..taali eik haath se nahi bajti...aur jab vih keh raha tha ke chai gir gayi ghi to atleast eik baar usse side mein la ke sach jaan to leti...lekin nahi..agar voh adhi baat sunke react nahi karegi toh kaise oat chalega ke voh itne saal somani ki sangat mein thi

Bela jitni bhi anpadh ho..lekin her take was the most sensible one..she felt it was wrong of both of them to meet despite of saying no to it..but she also knows that in such situations the girls caharacter gets moore questioned and maligned rather then the guy.
Usse chaye tha vishakah ko sameer ki nighty vali baat ko leke vapis jawaab deti...atleast munnh toh bandh ho jata...but then thats the difference between the aggarwals and maheshwaris..
Voh paise vale garib aur cheap hain..jabke aggarwals apne dil aur respect se amir hain.

I feel mama mami will try to make a fuss of the fact that rakesh is not coming on the sangeet and try to humilate the aggarwals..but sameer will bring rakesh...
I hope he keeps a leash on them in the reat of the functions man..especially after what they did today...


I personally see YUDKBH as a story in entirely and will find faults with the leads also. I hope you guys don't mind. Yeah I partly agree with you but not to all of it.

In yesterday's episode I was very happy that Sameer set a good undertone by apologizing to his mother. However, I was also rooting for Sameer to casually tell his mom about his burn mark. If your conscience is clear, why is there a need to hide such a simple thing. By hiding the truth, I personally thought he provided opportunity for Mami to exploit the situation, made himself & Naina look guilty & paved path for his family to humiliate Naina.

Some people may say Sameer did not tell her because he knew his family won't believe him. I would have believed that statement only if he had at least tried to tell his mom casually what happened. If she still did not believe, I would have given Sameer the benefit of doubt. Instead he used towel to hide his burn mark. Doesn't that make him look like a culprit even if he did not do anything? That is called setting oneself up.

Then there is Vishakha's outburst. I don't understand why Sameer would not follow her when he had seen she walked away upset and try to persuade her to believe what actually happened. Instead he stood with his friends and said I knew no one will believe me. Vishakha was completely wrong to call Naina's Chachiji and yell at her. She does not have the right to humiliate her to be daughter-in-law's guardian regardless of how much she dislikes Naina. On positive note, beneath her yelling I saw a mother concerned that people would judge her son's to be wife's character.

Under given circumstances Vishakha has not found reasons to like Naina. Some of the reasons for disliking Naina is actually valid but some others reasons are not. If you see your son ready to become baba for a girl, if your son is ready to sacrifice his exam for a girl, if your son is willing to marry a girl at 20, any mother would be irked. However, not liking Naina because she is middle class, not liking her for her looks are not quite valid reasons. She may not like Naina but she surely likes Sameer. Otherwise, there was no need for her to attend this marriage at all.

I admit Mama & Mami were wrong. If Mami was really that concerned, she would have taken V to the corner and told her what the deal was. But No! She had to blow it out of proportion to humiliate Sameer and Naina directly and Vishakha indirectly in front of the entire crowd. That was one villainous move.

And about Sameer bringing Rakesh to his wedding. I personally don't want Sameer to be that great guy who would stoop to any level to please Rakesh. Sameer did not attempt to bring his mother to his wedding but she came regardless. Vishakha openly admits that she does not like Naina but she is still attending for the sakes of her son. It is exactly how it used to be in the 90s parents grudgingly relented to the kids' wishes even thought they did not like the alliance. If Vishakha can put her differences aside and attend the wedding for her son, why can't Rakesh do the same? He can hate Sameer as much as he wants but he should still attend it for the love of his daughter. However, Rakesh should take that move on his own, not with Sameer's cajoling.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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There is no hope from other vamp-y characters lol. I might get hate for this but I'm disappointed in sameer tbh but not surprised. He has been this way for as long as i remember but i thought things would be different now that they are getting married especially when its a love (forced) arranged marriage. But he reacted pretty much like a typical ITV male lead who would keep quiet when saas is taunting bahu.

People might dislike naina (especially for leaving sameer in fear of her family) but she has always been more courageous when she's sure about something.

Hoping for a follow up though, to prove me wrong. If they ever, cos judging by VO's tone, he didn't think it was serious at all.
Dunno what else the writers will come up with to prove naina is the worst thing ever for sameer lol.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Totally agree. they could have opened doors of redemption or a good bond between sameer and vishaka trying to understand what exactly happened . but no vishaka had to blame naina on call with bela and maami made a huge tez ladki hai comment , quite unnecessary .
Sameer just stood there as if nothing happened and it was a joke or something. i highly doubt this will clear in future. Alas, all chances are ruined by CVs for want of more drama!🤔
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Yesterday Naina got humiliated because of Sameer's immaturity
First of all why did he have to hide the mark if the truth was it was not a hickey

Second if he wanted to hide he would have used a bandaid/ concealer or haldi

Third when caught he so nervously told vishakha that it's a burn mark and dint try to explain her further but stood at his place staring Mami

CVs want to humiliate Naina and show her bechari image for the OTT drama where as make Sameer her savior for every small thing...

Now coming o Vishakha,
No MIL Will stoop this low to blame her DIL for something her own son denied. Without even trying to get the truth out she just questioned Naina's character and upbringing

CVs making things too dramatic and unrealistic 🤔
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: moon.river

There is no hope from other vamp-y characters lol. I might get hate for this but I'm disappointed in sameer tbh but not surprised. He has been this way for as long as i remember but i thought things would be different now that they are getting married especially when its a love (forced) arranged marriage. But he reacted pretty much like a typical ITV male lead who would keep quiet when saas is taunting bahu.


People might dislike naina (especially for leaving sameer in fear of her family) but she has always been more courageous when she's sure about something.

Hoping for a follow up though, to prove me wrong. If they ever, cos judging by VO's tone, he didn't think it was serious at all.
Dunno what else the writers will come up with to prove naina is the worst thing ever for sameer lol.


I can actually relate to the VO being lighthearted. I have done crazy things at that age and have endured heartbreaks. All was so difficult then but when I look back at it, I actually laugh at those situations. What used to be so serious at that time, is no more than a laughing matter to me now. I think for their VOs it is the same case.

In this phase I personally think Sameer has gone bananas. His religious devotion to Naina is actually disturbing to me. Great that he loves her but he loses his rationality over her, whereas Naina thinks in totality and does not let her love carry her away. I sometimes feel if her chachaji had backed out, she would have backed out too regardless of what Sameer would have done. There is a stark difference between them.

About Naina being the worst thing for Sameer or not only time will tell. This is a daily soap and Naina is the heroine - so she & Sameer will prevail . However, in real life, when one partner puts in so much effort in the relationship, the other one take them for granted and even forcibly getting married does not guarantee you life long companionship or happy marriage.

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