Vishaka a failure - Page 2

Originally posted by: Nikkie_1

Though I can understand Vishakha's anger no mother will want to see her son spoiling his life for a girl.

But asking him to choose between her and Naina was way too much knowing she herself was never there for him. She is a mother who chose her new life and new family leaving Sameer to grow up in hostels and then to be raised by Nanu and now Mama Mami.

She is from a rich family so her future was always assured, what was the need to marry again leaving your child behind. Moreover during Delhi track as well she was not able to take care of Sameer properly. She is never able to raise her voice when Somani unnecessarily criticises Sameer.

I did not even like Somani criticizing Mama Mami in Friday's episode.

Imagine how Sam would have felt that his own mother could not answer his question, she could not even say that she loves them equally. She has that image of a perfect son and she can love Sameer only if he becomes that perfect son.

So if it was any other mother I would have said that she has full right to question her son's love but sadly Vishakha has lost that right.

Originally posted by: Kalyani.123

Vishakha calls Naina practical bt the fact is she is the one who has always been practical n selfish right from the time when she chose to leave Sameer n start her own family...all the questions raised by Sameer 2day were on point n it left her speechless...she ws nt there when Sameer needed her the most during his childhood...Naina hs loved him n stood by him way more than Vishakha cud in 20 yrs...so obviously Sameer will choose Naina...he knows the depth of her love n what barriers she hs crossed to b with him

Originally posted by: sadhikasamaina

I agree just by sending him to ahemdabad again does not prove anything

I know she is angry on him failing his exams but making him choose

so very wrong of her

and now she even questions naina's character that she is a gold digger

ma'am I think you don't know but she fell in love with sameer when she did not know who he was

it was him who attracted her not his money

Actually Vishakha is true & sad representation of women her age at that time & earlier who sought second change in love/marriage. It was 2nd marriage for both she and her husband but only she had to make all the adjustments, she had to leave behind her child. We sometimes fail to understand that a woman who has bargained her son to get second chance in happiness generally have lot of guilt, resentment with oneself and insecurities. Still, I do believe that she loves her son and will come around just in time.

Originally posted by: rituriyaakhil

<font color="#14171a" face="Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif">Actually Vishakha is true & sad representation of women her age at that time & earlier who sought second change in love/marriage. It was 2nd marriage for both she and her husband but only she had to make all the adjustments, she had to leave behind her child. We sometimes fail to understand that a woman who has bargained her son to get second chance in happiness generally have lot of guilt, resentment with oneself and insecurities. </font>Still, I do believe that she loves her son and will come around just in time.

By the way I am a mom too and I would be livid if my offspring skipped his exam and lost a year for a girl!

The point is , she is not guilty of what she has done to Sameer. Even now she is on , one track mind..she is only thinking why Sameer is not listening to her...when he has said it loud and clear that what he wants is LOVE. Because that's his need ...sadly his mom doesn't seem to understand the fact that , this child who has been yearning for it has got it from Naina and hence he will do anything for her. Its a simple equation , give him that love...but that is very costly for Vishaka...that love is meant only for his second husband and family.

She shouldn't expect much from Sameer as she was not able to give him what he wanted.