Why should Vishaka like Naina???

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't understand why its important for Vishaka to like Naina. She has always dumped her son in others hands when it came to upbringing of her own son. If she was a mother who showed equal affection to both her son s I would think her opinion matters
And parents are as human as kids they can also make mistakes. I really want to know what Sameers thought will be if Vishaka disagrees to this relationship
Would he break up with Naina or tell his mom that he will always stand by Naina irrespective of what others think.
Remember Sameer doesn't like his step dad still he keeps quiet for his mom. Would he ask his mom to accept Naina just like the way he accept his stepfather??

This is testing time for Sameer. Will have to see if he will rise to take the role of Naina's Man or would he succumb to family pressure??


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Our perception of Vishakha had indeed been one of a cruel mother who didn't give equal affection to Sameer and left him ostracized. However, to some extent I feel the Delhi track changed our perception of her...slightly.
Even still this is a crucial stage for Sameer. Both his mother and Naina matter a lot to him but its all about choosing one and convincing the other. Tho I don't find any reason why Vishakha would dislike Naina unless its about her correcting Sameer (remember Thursday's episode). Her thinking can't be that orthodox...after all she married twice in a community and time where second marriages weren't that common. I hope she doesn't want a daughter-in-law who will always obey her husband and never voices her opinion...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I know vishaka didn't share her amount of love to Sam n she is fault in that aspect bt as a mother she always wanted Sam's happiness .No doubt she left him in his childhood but if she has taken him along with her to delhi at his childhood then just imagine d torture he would have been faced like how he faced in delhi track.It will be worse.Like a typical MIL she didn't been bossy with naina .She made naina comfortable n tried to know her POV about Sam n her life .Vishaka was also having some flashes of Sam.In deed she is doing a compatibility test btw Samaina n trying to take decision
Whether she accepts naina or not but her reasoning would be sensible.Hope makers will give logical explanation from vishaka else this track will be meaningless n lame
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: AMereWanderer

Our perception of Vishakha had indeed been one of a cruel mother who didn't give equal affection to Sameer and left him ostracized. However, to some extent I feel the Delhi track changed our perception of her...slightly.

Even still this is a crucial stage for Sameer. Both his mother and Naina matter a lot to him but its all about choosing one and convincing the other. Tho I don't find any reason why Vishakha would dislike Naina unless its about her correcting Sameer (remember Thursday's episode). Her thinking can't be that orthodox...after all she married twice in a community and time where second marriages weren't that common. I hope she doesn't want a daughter-in-law who will always obey her husband and never voices her opinion...

Agreed every one would their respective families to accept their chosen life partner.
From my POV this test is not for Naina. It's for Sameer. We have seen that Naina needed chacha ji s approval for her to accept Sameer
Would Sameer need his mom s approval to accept Naina ? This is the major point in a love story. Would you accept your lover as ur life partner if ur family is against your choice?

This where you get to judge Sameer as a lover.
Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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N i really want to c whtr Sam will stand up ya nahi...Naina was faced wit tis situation n we all knew wat she chose..
Similarly if Sam is stuck in...who is he goin to opt for??...
But thn i think we wouldnt get our answers... 😆.According to spoilers V has accepted it...

But thn like in the real rishta talks...anything can happen...i hope v get to c a conflict there cos the others wud let it go easily is a far fetched dream ...n really wnt to witness Sams descion then!!


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Originally posted by: haritha45

I know vishaka didn't share her amount of love to Sam n she is fault in that aspect bt as a mother she always wanted Sam's happiness .No doubt she left him in his childhood but if she has taken him along with her to delhi at his childhood then just imagine d torture he would have been faced like how he faced in delhi track.It will be worse.Like a typical MIL she didn't been bossy with naina .She made naina comfortable n tried to know her POV about Sam n her life .Vishaka was also having some flashes of Sam.In deed she is doing a compatibility test btw Samaina n trying to take decision

Whether she accepts naina or not but her reasoning would be sensible.Hope makers will give logical explanation from vishaka else this track will be meaningless n lame

In my opinion there is no point in doing a compatibility test because Vishaka doesn't know her son to a large extant ..Nanu knew him..Vishaka has not seen the growth changes in her boy. This is why I like Naina's chacha ji..after listening to their story he understood how less he knew his kids and how much they have grown .
Most of the time we often sideline our kids thinking capabilities nd also the refuse to accept that there is a part of their character which we are not aware about nd tht part will only be known to the person who he or she chooses as life partners.
No matter how close we are to our children they divulge all their fears or likes or dislikes to us..there will be some part of them which they share with one person who they are very close to. Vishaka should understand that person for her son is Naina.

For me this whole drama relates to just one question..will Sameer be strong enough to stand by his decision of choosing Naina as his life partner or will he back track. I am waiting for Sameers decision nd not Vishakas thoughts on Naina.
Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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As a mother she always has this right on Sameer and I don't find anything wrong in it. Afterall she redeemed herself after Nanu's death and now behaving like doting mother.
Everyone deserves a second chance, same applies to Vishakha.

Reg your second part, I also want to see what Sam does in that scenario, walks the talk or behaves like N. Though I feel he will always choose N.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I had the same thought... For sameer Vishakha was always important. Thats why he use to be hurt when he felt he was of no importance to her and felt that she didn't love him. But when he was in Delhi, he got to know that she loves him and he is important to her but not her priority number 1.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

In my opinion there is no point in doing a compatibility test because Vishaka doesn't know her son to a large extant ..Nanu knew him..Vishaka has not seen the growth changes in her boy. This is why I like Naina's chacha ji..after listening to their story he understood how less he knew his kids and how much they have grown .

Most of the time we often sideline our kids thinking capabilities nd also the refuse to accept that there is a part of their character which we are not aware about nd tht part will only be known to the person who he or she chooses as life partners.
No matter how close we are to our children they divulge all their fears or likes or dislikes to us..there will be some part of them which they share with one person who they are very close to. Vishaka should understand that person for her son is Naina.

For me this whole drama relates to just one question..will Sameer be strong enough to stand by his decision of choosing Naina as his life partner or will he back track. I am waiting for Sameers decision nd not Vishakas thoughts on Naina.


I completely agree chachaji is perfect parent who tries to know his kids POV,always acknowledges n encourages his kids abilities which every parent should do.As a viewer we know purity of Samaina love story but not every parent accepts her daughter's love even though ladka is rajkumar

Seriously when vishaka has a flash about Sam backing off to go to mumbai made me think that she didn't understood what changes Sam had now


muje episode dekhe vahi laga she is doing something compatibility test but aaj ke episode ke baad clear hoga

Even if she doesn't accept naina I will be still OK as she didn't embarrassed naina n treated her with respect

Edited by haritha45 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Agreed every one would their respective families to accept their chosen life partner.

From my POV this test is not for Naina. It's for Sameer. We have seen that Naina needed chacha ji s approval for her to accept Sameer
Would Sameer need his mom s approval to accept Naina ? This is the major point in a love story. Would you accept your lover as ur life partner if ur family is against your choice?

This where you get to judge Sameer as a lover.


Very true! This test is indeed for Sameer and not for Naina. She had been tested by destiny when she had to own up to her love for Sameer in front of her family. And even if it was a rocky path, her love helped her overcome her weaknesses and confess her love for Sameer in front of Chachaji.

Sameer must also do the same in front of Vishakha. Pyar toh ho jaata hai but it takes courage and responsibility to own up to it...in front of family members. And that's when we'll see the maturity in them...when they not only fall in love but confess it to the world and most importantly their respective family members.

Aakhir jab pyar kiya toh darna kya...

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