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Many a times when people take certain steps we wonder is it the same person that we have known. Isnt that how you felt about Naina today. She was totally blank , infact I don't think she herself knew what she was doing and I am sure a lot of you are angry with her , especially calling Munna Jealous.
When Sameer said , Munna is like a family just the way Chacha ji is for her. I call it even. Sameer 1 ,Naina 1 is the score card.
Remember at Red rose what she had told about importance of chacha ji in her life. How Sameer had reacted . Was he jealous of chacha ji...of course but the thing is he didn't word it out .
Now having given that dialogue to Sameer we had expected Naina to understand Munna's importance in Sameer s life...really ?? Do you think she will?? forget her ...will any woman like her husband's friend ( no matter how close they ) having much more impt in her man's life. NOPE!!
No man or woman would like to accept someone else being much more important than them. And that's how it has to be. Because they are one unit. Practically when we sit and think , we can come up with dialogues like "cant compare spouse with friends, both are diff blah blah
But reality is they hate to accept someone else is more imp than them in their partner's life.
Her action of trying to prove that she will do anything for Sameer is also because she is feeling guilty that Sameer was hurt because of her. This is her way of trying to clean that guilt...absolutely wrong way because if something happens to her then he will be broken for life and so will his friendship with Munna and Pandith. But she is desperate to get back . Only she knows what she has gone thru. Just like Sameer was desparate to propose to Naina once he came to know her engagement broke. Naina wanted to get back her life and him...and the end result was trying to get back to her world which is with him.
I am glad they kept Naina's character on the spot. Because when it comes to Sameer , she was , is and will be a lot possessive. If you remember , how she had looked at Kamya's hand and said there is NO "S written. At that time she just had a crush on him. But now it is 3 yrs. When she thought finally everything is settling back, this is what happened. She lost her mental balance to think logically.
We often come to conclusion of a situation by putting ourselves in place of them and think what they did is not rt...Thats what causes the problem because every person's tolerance level , their EQ are so different , when we put in place of them , we will think like us...not like them. Naina was on the verge of a nervous break down. I still believe , we are yet to see her breakdown...because she is not completely healed.
As I said before , I still feel , she needs time. A self-healing is required for her and she has to do it alone to get back that confidence in life.
Remember both Sameer and Naina DID NOT have a normal childhood. Their upbringing was always at the mercy of their relatives and hence the shades of gray will be more when it comes to handling emotions. Such kids will be more insecure in their relationships. It will take some time to get that confidence and trust in relationship.
So my request is don't hate her. She isn't bad, every person at one point or the other might react very different from their core character . That doesn't make them bad. At that time rather than blaming them try to understand what they might have gone thru to react that way. And such unpredictable reactions 75% of the time comes from the one you think is the most sensible one .
PS : When a person is under complete stress and is depressed with life , they can react differently but that doesn't make them bad. All they need is understanding and counseling .I am not justifying her actions. It was not right at all. All I am saying is don't hate for it because she was very depressed and stressed . Just that she played it strong. In past one month or so , she has gone thru a lot. Just close your eyes for a moment and imagine what she has gone thru ,as NAINA not as you because you might be way stronger than Naina. So please don't hate her.
When Sameer said , Munna is like a family just the way Chacha ji is for her. I call it even. Sameer 1 ,Naina 1 is the score card.
Remember at Red rose what she had told about importance of chacha ji in her life. How Sameer had reacted . Was he jealous of chacha ji...of course but the thing is he didn't word it out .
Now having given that dialogue to Sameer we had expected Naina to understand Munna's importance in Sameer s life...really ?? Do you think she will?? forget her ...will any woman like her husband's friend ( no matter how close they ) having much more impt in her man's life. NOPE!!
No man or woman would like to accept someone else being much more important than them. And that's how it has to be. Because they are one unit. Practically when we sit and think , we can come up with dialogues like "cant compare spouse with friends, both are diff blah blah
But reality is they hate to accept someone else is more imp than them in their partner's life.
Her action of trying to prove that she will do anything for Sameer is also because she is feeling guilty that Sameer was hurt because of her. This is her way of trying to clean that guilt...absolutely wrong way because if something happens to her then he will be broken for life and so will his friendship with Munna and Pandith. But she is desperate to get back . Only she knows what she has gone thru. Just like Sameer was desparate to propose to Naina once he came to know her engagement broke. Naina wanted to get back her life and him...and the end result was trying to get back to her world which is with him.
I am glad they kept Naina's character on the spot. Because when it comes to Sameer , she was , is and will be a lot possessive. If you remember , how she had looked at Kamya's hand and said there is NO "S written. At that time she just had a crush on him. But now it is 3 yrs. When she thought finally everything is settling back, this is what happened. She lost her mental balance to think logically.
We often come to conclusion of a situation by putting ourselves in place of them and think what they did is not rt...Thats what causes the problem because every person's tolerance level , their EQ are so different , when we put in place of them , we will think like us...not like them. Naina was on the verge of a nervous break down. I still believe , we are yet to see her breakdown...because she is not completely healed.
As I said before , I still feel , she needs time. A self-healing is required for her and she has to do it alone to get back that confidence in life.
Remember both Sameer and Naina DID NOT have a normal childhood. Their upbringing was always at the mercy of their relatives and hence the shades of gray will be more when it comes to handling emotions. Such kids will be more insecure in their relationships. It will take some time to get that confidence and trust in relationship.
So my request is don't hate her. She isn't bad, every person at one point or the other might react very different from their core character . That doesn't make them bad. At that time rather than blaming them try to understand what they might have gone thru to react that way. And such unpredictable reactions 75% of the time comes from the one you think is the most sensible one .
PS : When a person is under complete stress and is depressed with life , they can react differently but that doesn't make them bad. All they need is understanding and counseling .I am not justifying her actions. It was not right at all. All I am saying is don't hate for it because she was very depressed and stressed . Just that she played it strong. In past one month or so , she has gone thru a lot. Just close your eyes for a moment and imagine what she has gone thru ,as NAINA not as you because you might be way stronger than Naina. So please don't hate her.
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