Chachaji and Vishwas

Totally agree Aarti!! He kept on saying parents should become friends of their children. When did he say that openly to them? When did he say that you can share all your problems with me? Asking to commit not to break trust is putting too much pressure!! When you are open minded on girls studying and working after marriage then why do you have thought process on caste system? Having said all this, he is a wise character but he is also flawed. The wisest one was nanaji and he is being missed terribly!!

I think you guys are really only focusing on the fact that Naina hid her love for Sameer. Chachaji is hurt because Naina said she was standing up for him. She kept on saying that I did this for chachaji and then he comes to know that it was for Sameer. When Naina stood up he took her as his daughter and then he comes to know that this new relation they have is all fake.

Hey Aarti lovely post...And very thoughtful ...

Originally posted by: aardhan

<font size="2" color="#0033cc">Vishwas mein Shwas bhara hai!</font>

<font color="#0033cc" size="2">That's the principle Chachaji lives by. That's the one thing where this show is stuck at the moment.</font>

<font color="#0033cc" size="2">Till now in the show we have seen Chachaji talk about and emphasize on 'Vishwas' so many times. We saw it once when he got mad at Bela for not keeping the promise about money and he was angry and inconsiderate to her for many days.It is alright when Chachaji ranted at Bela for breaking his trust, both are adults, both are equals in a relationship and he was rightfully mad that what should have stayed between them as a couple the whole family now knew.</font>

<font color="#0033cc" size="2">We saw it again when Arjun's affair was exposed. He took a promise from the girls to not break his trust.</font>

<font color="#0033cc" size="2">And now, we are againseeing that. Yesterday he was telling Naina how it took years to build trust and only minutes to lose it. Now Naina is even more terrified of breaking that and she even suspects that she may have broken it already! Ironically he was saying this for himself but actually Naina was doing the same with Sameer... Breaking his trust on her that he had built up over the last 3-4 years.</font>

<font color="#0033cc" size="2">So my questions...</font>

<font color="#0033cc" size="2">Is it fair to expect the same level of commitment to trust from a child? Does that mean that every time a child commits a mistake or even utters a lie, the child breaks the trust?</font>

<font color="#0033cc" size="2">Chacha is so particular with Naina. on this issue...</font>

<font color="#0033cc" size="2">Does he not think she is also a child?</font>

<font color="#0033cc" size="2">Does he not accept that at her age she will commit many mistakes?</font>

<font size="2" color="#0033cc">If her mistakes don't match with his thought process, does that mean she broke his trust?</font>

<font size="2" color="#0033cc">When he made the girls promise after the Arjun affair, what is his definition of trust in that context? Did he mean that the girls cannot fall in love or they should come to him immediately and blurt it out... irrespective of whether the boy in question accepts that love!</font>

<font color="#0033cc" size="2">I think that is too much pressure from a parent, especially one like Chacha who also prides on being more liberal and a forward thinker.</font>

<font color="#0033cc" size="2">Your thoughts...😃</font>

Very interesting perspective and analysis..I don't know how this Chachaji angle will play out..as a matured individual and one who has seen Naina go through all kinds of pain and go through the verbal and physical abuse from both her father and Taiji I was expecting a conversation from Chachaji..an open emotional conversation but we did not get that..he needs to understand why things are the way they are..