A line in every relationship...

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Seriously...Say it love, care or anything but right now I am not getting Munna ,his Over-protectiveness ,or let's say Provoking ...
There is a limit in every relationship ...And no one should ever try to cross it if they want their own relation to stay longer...

Even spouse can't dictate other one whom to talk or not...Otherwise they will create issue among themselves..


How many times did munna has provoked sameer to take wrong decision ...And how many times had he asked him to step down...But every time either at fault or not...Sameer did fall on his provocation and shined when he decided to act on his own hunch...

After all this is sameer's life...If he wants Naina back ..Then be it...He broke up with sunaina...And still he was not happy...( And this was not all because of Naina) ...This again was Munna and his provocation...Munna did brought up sunaina in all this by letting her make false hopes and proposing sameer...

I am not at all comfortable right now on this level.of interference in a freinds life...

What is all yours view..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Munna really cares and is protective of Sameer, but yes, every relationship has its limits. Munna seems to have violated it, but Sameer doesn't seem to have a problem with it. Munna could go to this extent only because Sameer allowed it and hasn't done anything to stop him either.
And that promise ... may be another upcoming twist / problem and separation stretch.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Agree. That promise was unnecessary. I don't find any logic in that. Its sameer's life so decision should be his. And what if she says no will sameer be able to forget her?? Never. It will make things more complicated. Naina would never say anything like that to sameer against mundit. I know munna is overprotective and I love him so much but these days i find it difficult to connect with him.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I am with you. It is told that if a mother interferes too much in her son/daughter's married life it is not a healthy sign. Then how can a friend dictate it. A friends duty is to warn his/her friend but he/she should leave it on him/her to take decision. Friend's duty is to be happy if the friend wins or be his/her support if the result is failure. But, no one can force. Munna is behaving like a possessive friend which is not a healthy sign.
The bridge is broken between Samiana. It needs some time to rebuilt it. It is not like my way or highway. It should be Samiana way to get back to each other.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lavender25

Agree. That promise was unnecessary. I don't find any logic in that. Its sameer's life so decision should be his. And what if she says no will sameer be able to forget her?? Never. It will make things more complicated. Naina would never say anything like that to sameer against mundit. I know munna is overprotective and I love him so much but these days i find it difficult to connect with him.

Exactly my view...😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Munna is a best friend to sameer amd obviously he feels bad when sameer is hurt. The promise was a bit unnecessary IMO.
But Sameer is no kid. He has his own brain and didnt have to bend or agree to all the ideas /provocation in the past. Munna does wish well for his friend so whatever he did or his ideas were to see his friend happy obviously not knowing the consequence of the same. You actually can't blame him coz Sameer has given him that place in his life.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmita21180

Seriously...Say it love, care or anything but right now I am not getting Munna ,his Over-protectiveness ,or let's say Provoking ...

There is a limit in every relationship ...And no one should ever try to cross it if they want their own relation to stay longer...

Even spouse can't dictate other one whom to talk or not...Otherwise they will create issue among themselves..


How many times did munna has provoked sameer to take wrong decision ...And how many times had he asked him to step down...But every time either at fault or not...Sameer did fall on his provocation and shined when he decided to act on his own hunch...

After all this is sameer's life...If he wants Naina back ..Then be it...He broke up with sunaina...And still he was not happy...( And this was not all because of Naina) ...This again was Munna and his provocation...Munna did brought up sunaina in all this by letting her make false hopes and proposing sameer...

I am not at all comfortable right now on this level.of interference in a freinds life...

What is all yours view..


I couldnt have agreed more.. every relationship has a line...and Munna crossed that today on some level and yes not his fault completely becuase Sameer has given them both that right.. but you remember when they both asked him to start walking with him during puja didi mahendi and he didnt ,... he could have done the same thing...now... kept quiet and said you tell me would you see me breaking up without Naina.. instead he accepted.. another Shart.. he accepted... what is with this guy and shart and Naina...uggghhh
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: viraf4u

I couldnt have agreed more.. every relationship has a line...and Munna crossed that today on some level and yes not his fault completely becuase Sameer has given them both that right.. but you remember when they both asked him to start walking with him during puja didi mahendi and he didnt ,... he could have done the same thing...now... kept quiet and said you tell me would you see me breaking up without Naina.. instead he accepted.. another Shart.. he accepted... what is with this guy and shart and Naina...uggghhh


Yes Vira ...Exactly ..Even after some point of our life our parents lose that place ...And here we are arguing about Naina to support Sameer despite her Family...

The promise Naina gave to her Chachaji was something different and the promise Munna is Asking is something different...

You can never control some other person to such extent..If he would have needed to put a brain in Sameer's head he was more then welcome to have done so...But no he will always take the longest route...

Sameer values everyone in his life...(whatever broke up relations he got ) ..His life is so much full of love and gratitude...That he wants to keep everyone close to him...

Love can never beat up friends...Similar way friends can never beat up Love ...Even of sameer had a good loving Family he would have loved his friend...

My other point is up till when all this childishness is going to go...When will they ever realize the consequences of their deeds...Some time you have to stand on your own feet ..

CV's have messed up big this time...It's only now how they clear everything up...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I fully agree with you..he crossed his line now..for the sake of stretching the track they have got this stupid promise..I am getting tired of people not talking to each other, unnecessary misunderstandings, tracks stretching to the extent that they test patience..two people in love are not taking to each other..
And most disappointing is Sameer is selectively acting mature..he acted mature infront of Sgarad's mom and now where is that maturity? What happened to patience?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with u guys! All friends even thes bestest have a limitation. They can advise & even fight with us but not decide for ya! I know all friends had advised me against certain decisions repeatedly warning me to think it over but I listened & dudng golliw! I made my own decision & faced the worst consequences! But besties r those who still supported me & pulled me out of it rather than saying "I told u so & I emerged a better stronger person! & believe me I was way younger than samaina! So age wd not define my bad actions or his overprotective nature for Sam!

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