Is Sharad really responsible?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Everyone is bashing bechara Sharad only. But is he really responsible.😳
I mean they were always clear to get a wife like Tayeejee for Sharad. Tayeejee told that Naina is just like her and she also mentioned that when she was young she also looked like Naina.
So how will this family know that Naina is not like Tayeejee?
They are very clear. They want a girl
1. Who is not that pretty.
2. Who is not rich to pay dowry to them.
3.Who will listen to at first Sasur , sauma, Sharad, his entire family member...his boss...and whoever lives or related to him.
Don't forget he repeatedly saying this from the beginning what he wants. It is Naina and her family's fault that they kept shaking their head. They never listened to his words carefully or else they would know.When Naina is alone she should raise her voice and tell straightly to Sharad( Gadha) ..."I am not like Tayeejee". Baas they would leave on the first day .She could tell that she wants to do higher studies etc.

Now once again Tayeejee is doing her politics to ruin Naina's life.
I don't know how Tayeejee can think Naina is like her?😲😲😲
Naina is a topper...and Tayeejee!!!!
How can she compare herself with Naina???

So whatever is happening more than Sharad or his family Tayeejee is responsible. If she keeps babbling that Naina is like her...which Prince Charming will come to marry an Item like Tayeejee by god!!!!

I guess whatever that family or Sharad is doing to Naina did to Tayeejee too. I'll not be surprised if Tayeejee suffered all these when she was young and kwari. May be that is why everything is looking normal to her. I understand the problem of Rakesh too. All the time he and his son Arjun grabs collars of other. So same attitude wala damad mil gaya . Like Sasoor and Sala yeh bhi collar pakadne wala. Off course they will cherish him. He belongs to their group.

So is Sharad really responsible?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sharad is no bechara. If he was really a good guy he would not agree to marry a girl who is still ij college and has not even finished graduation.
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Originally posted by: Samaina12

Sharad is no bechara. If he was really a good guy he would not agree to marry a girl who is still ij college and has not even finished graduation.

He is not a bechara . He is actually a gadha, but the perfect damad for Rakesh , Perfect jeeju for Arjun and perfect "Prince Charming" for Tayeejee...I mean "Sapno ki Rajkumar". šŸ˜³šŸ˜³šŸ˜†
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Oh my ! ...Your post did crack me up hard 🤣🤣..
Yes the point here you said ...The grooms family was always forthcoming about their choice as Bride..And Tai ji played every bit to present Naina as the bride of their wish...( Although mistreating her position and power of an elder) ...Rakesh is also very much like Sharad...And actually the Trio ( Sharad and family /Rakesh and company) they have same mind about marriage...( Definitely Rakesh and Taiji will bring such daughter-in-law for Arjun) ...
Now coming back to Sharad...Let Naina give him once what's in her mind...He will never marry her...So somewhere I feel happy and proud that this time it was Naina to decide not to marry...Whether at fault or not...Naina seems to realize that Sharad will never be good for her...

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Originally posted by: jhalak7

He is not a bechara . He is actually a gadha, but the perfect damad for Rakesh , Perfect jeeju for Arjun and perfect "Prince Charming" for Tayeejee...I mean "Sapno ki Rajkumar". šŸ˜³šŸ˜³šŸ˜†


Kash Taiji ki beti hoti toh Shadi karva dete inki
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samaina12

Sharad is no bechara. If he was really a good guy he would not agree to marry a girl who is still ij college and has not even finished graduation.

This was what happened back then...I remember My parents being liberal and modern where subjected about our marriage by relatives on any family function...And I remember the way my father replied them all... Most of my cousin's where married at the age 15-16 ...And relatives to thought me and my sis as aliens that no boys did like us for marriage😃...

Thats the benefit of having loving parents who knew what's good and what's bad for their kids... And they stood up for us... Getting us where we wanted to be...And then getting married ...That too in a family where no one will question our integrity or values...So we were married to like-minded family...

Arrange marriages worked like that..It was not so bad if you ask me..parents selecting your future partner based on how they know you and themselves...But it differed from person to person and family to family...We should be grateful that with time all these changed and thankfully now parents happily accept whatever kids want...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sharad may be responsible but he won't respect his wife. For him he and his family want a girl who can fulfill their wishes. He won't even consider the girl's opinion or wishes. And I think he dont respect any other woman except his mother. We saw how talked about his lady colleagues and to Bela. He just want to rule the woman he marries and make his life easier. Coming to taiji I dont know whether she experienced taunts about her looks or not one thing im sure about is that woman does not love or care for the Agarwal girls ,be it naina, preeti or pooja. She too want to rule her family and want others to obey her decisions without questioning.The lady called Mrs. Beena Agarwal lacks compassion.
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Each h everyone has ideas about his or her would be. Yes itsi true that sharad wanted a gharelu ladki. But what he has done is insulting Chachaji. Is there any justification for that. Chachaji never insulted him instead he was talking politely to Sharad trying to make him understand where his mother was wrong. Chachaji isfather figure to Naina. Being would be to Naina he must understand that he must respect him.a
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7

Everyone is bashing bechara Sharad only. But is he really responsible.😳
I mean they were always clear to get a wife like Tayeejee for Sharad. Tayeejee told that Naina is just like her and she also mentioned that when she was young she also looked like Naina.
So how will this family know that Naina is not like Tayeejee?
They are very clear. They want a girl
1. Who is not that pretty.
2. Who is not rich to pay dowry to them.
3.Who will listen to at first Sasur , sauma, Sharad, his entire family member...his boss...and whoever lives or related to him.
Don't forget he repeatedly saying this from the beginning what he wants. It is Naina and her family's fault that they kept shaking their head. They never listened to his words carefully or else they would know.When Naina is alone she should raise her voice and tell straightly to Sharad( Gadha) ..."I am not like Tayeejee". Baas they would leave on the first day .She could tell that she wants to do higher studies etc.

Now once again Tayeejee is doing her politics to ruin Naina's life.
I don't know how Tayeejee can think Naina is like her?😲😲😲
Naina is a topper...and Tayeejee!!!!
How can she compare herself with Naina???

So whatever is happening more than Sharad or his family Tayeejee is responsible. If she keeps babbling that Naina is like her...which Prince Charming will come to marry an Item like Tayeejee by god!!!!

I guess whatever that family or Sharad is doing to Naina did to Tayeejee too. I'll not be surprised if Tayeejee suffered all these when she was young and kwari. May be that is why everything is looking normal to her. I understand the problem of Rakesh too. All the time he and his son Arjun grabs collars of other. So same attitude wala damad mil gaya . Like Sasoor and Sala yeh bhi collar pakadne wala. Off course they will cherish him. He belongs to their group.

So is Sharad really responsible?


Interesting way of looking at things..yes in a way Sharad and family were upfront about what they want..but Taiji wants Naina to get married to an average family where she will hardly any say..she dislikes her so much..coming to Sharad..he was shown as flawed since the start - saying yes without asking the girl, going ahead with things without asking, the whole show your walk incident..
But they were flawed by design..how will you crave for Samaina if Sharad was perfect šŸ˜‰ he ought to be flawed..is that their fault? No because they were always projected like that
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: shelly_nair

Each h everyone has ideas about his or her would be. Yes itsi true that sharad wanted a gharelu ladki. But what he has done is insulting Chachaji. Is there any justification for that. Chachaji never insulted him instead he was talking politely to Sharad trying to make him understand where his mother was wrong. Chachaji isfather figure to Naina. Being would be to Naina he must understand that he must respect him.a

The problem of Sharad is he is like the toad who lived inside a well althrow his life. The only ideal man and woman he ever saw is his Master( Boss Deelipjee) and his Mrs. That's it.
For once I want Naina to stand up and show him( even if she needs to pretend) what a woman is. I don't want Sameer to protect Naina. I want Naina to show this besahara guy "what a woman can be". Sharad badly needs to learn that all woman are not like Tayeejee, his mom, his Boss's Mrs etc. And if they are not like those women that doesn't mean they are bad...it's just mean they are better. This poor boy is living in prehistoric yug!😭😭😭

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