What if Nanu had rejected Naina and attempted suicide? Sam Kya Karta?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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As I was writing on Ross's post..

This thought struck me..

How would have Sam reacted if Nanu had rejected Naina and threatened/attempted a suicide?

They are at tough juncture.. and its difficult to chose betn pyaar and parivaarr..

tho I think things would have sorted out more easily had thy talked their heart out to each other.. and tried to understand each other in a better way.. instead of jumping directly to romance.. and taking the consequences of their scandals lightly..


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Lo.. ab koi ans bhi nahi kar raha mere itne thoughtful question ka

Log aage badho aur ans karo.. ye ulta scenario hota.. Phir Sameer kya karta?

Zindagi ke iss crossroads pe vo kya faisla leta? 😆


Things can only b solved if we put ourselves in other persons' shoe.. instant judgement dena is always so easy.. but to face tuff situation and making a choice out of it is really difficult..

I would say Naina has been very brave in rejecting Sameer.. knowing very well. ke vo ek saath do do zindgiya barbaad kar rahi hai.. ek khud ki aur ek Sam ki...

I m not saying that Sam was wrong. Per me.. both were wrong in some aspects.

Their major culprit is their lack of understanding of each other..

pyaar kar liya lekin samzdaari nahi aayi..

thy still have to learn to act and think like a couple.. one unit..

sirf kehne se ke hum ek hai kuch nahi hota.. waise act bhi karna padta hai..


Edited by violette - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Fully agree.. Its situational pressure and they are not talking to find a way out.. Rather taking individual decisions.. No one is selfish but they are bogged down by the pressure & obligation.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: bmk28

Fully agree.. Its situational pressure and they are not talking to find a way out.. Rather taking individual decisions.. No one is selfish but they are bogged down by the pressure & obligation.



I think Sam bhi wahi karta jo Naina ne kiya.. just because he is way more sensitive than Naina and Nanu uski jaan hai..

uske liye Nanu vs Naina mein se choose karna aur bhi difficult hota..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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They never sat down and chatted abt how they coped up with separation of one year or seriously chatted about consequences of foiled get together at home or foiled movie date and so many other things
Also, they kept doing 'scandals'
Also, I think at some points they are sensible even if they are in teens but at some points they need guidance or help
At some point, preeti doest that
Nanu wud have been excellent guide
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Loved this question. Sam wahi karta jo Naina ne abhi kiya hai. It is the situation that is the problem and their teenage hormones incapacity in dealing with the pressures thats built this tension. Talking through is the only way out.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Wishes-

They never sat down and chatted abt how they coped up with separation of one year or seriously chatted about consequences of foiled get together at home or foiled movie date and so many other things

Also, they kept doing 'scandals'
Also, I think at some points they are sensible even if they are in teens but at some points they need guidance or help
At some point, preeti doest that
Nanu wud have been excellent guide



ye to main kab se bol rahi hu.. CVs ke liye no-touch clause jaisa no-talk clause hai.. 😆

jo sari musibat ki jaad hai.. 😆


Thank God Nanu ki soch Mama jaise nahi thi.. pyaar kisi aur se Shaadi kisi aur se.. 😆

Per Sam aur Naina needs to learn a lot to become a couple.. 😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Of course Sameer would do what Naina is doing.And if Sameers Nanu was anything like Rakesh or any of the Agarwals and Sameer is well aware of this then I would also say he was wrong to string a girl along with him like this to only dump her.
I for one have no issue with Naina choosing family over love... What I'm not happy is with the way Naina going about this break up... I've explained it in other posts so wont get into that again.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I made a post on this 2 days back. They are actually not on the same platform. Where Nanu was Sam's support, Naina's family is the huge hurdle.
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=5011606
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: chandu80

Loved this question. Sam wahi karta jo Naina ne abhi kiya hai. It is the situation that is the problem and their teenage hormones incapacity in dealing with the pressures thats built this tension. Talking through is the only way out.


also inexperience.. thy r in dire need of right guide.. and I think Anand can b that guide... 😳

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