poor samaina so restrictive..now toh even amrikan shaadi is allowd

Originally posted by: gugul

At that time intercaste marriages used to be a big thing. And mostly couples used to elope and get married. Very few parents used to agree to love marriage.

Originally posted by: gugul

At that time intercaste marriages used to be a big thing. And mostly couples used to elope and get married. Very few parents used to agree to love marriage.

Originally posted by: asmita21180

Very true...It was only way for lovers to elope and get married ...But at what cost...U were disowned by your family and if e anything wrong happened with you then no one would be your supporter...

They still follow such strict traditions in some parts India yaar...That's why "Honour Killing " is still here right...

Originally posted by: Lavender25

Agree. Society is changing. But we cant ignore the fact that there are also people who would never change their mindset. Some people are so adamant that for their so called izzat would even kill their own blood. I remember reading a book on honour killing by one reporter. Cant explain how bad i felt after reading it.

Originally posted by: asmita21180

See I am 40 and my mom is 62 ...We both live the show...And she is like 24*7 watching only YUDKBH ...

After Shejun my mom called and said that she is angry at arjun😡 .. he is a coward and didn't accept shefali ... So I calmed her down saying that mom what do you expect of a 19 year old boy who is so pressurised by his family... And he was always Passive person...

But she kept contradicting me... So I just asked her..Would she and papa had permitted me and my sis to marry someone we loved at 19 .😆..She said she would have killed us... Lol...

Now after yesterday episode she was like why Naina and Sameer had to be apart...They are so truly in love with each other ...And this time I was again playing role to explain her..

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So my point is ..This is how society change... May be I will be more open minded with my kids.. people change with time..

These days most of kids are educated , career councious ...They even live in different cities pursuing their studies and career ... And after that if they decide they have chosen someone parents just agree ...I would even say kids today are more observant and considerate ...

Originally posted by: mishkatfanfrevr

thank god zamaana badal gaya ab toh amrikan se bhi shaadi karr letey hain..😆

Actually mom tells me ..us zamaaney mei bhi karr letey the videsh jaakar kisi angrez se shaadi but then..they wud b disowned by the family..whether its love..jaydaad mei hissa ...meeting or everything .

Aajkal parents kitney cool ho gaye hain..yeh transition kaun laya? jab itna restrictive zamaana tha toh pehel jisney ki hogi ...they mustve faced sooo much hardships ..they should be the pioneers n b thanked to start off the trend