Munna pandit shefali three teens three levels of immaturity

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Shefali's advice to naina
Shefali is no mature woman. Wearing short clothes or playing cricket or even hanging out with boys or inviting male friends home is not maturity. She too is an average teen whose infatuation was misinterpreted by herself as love. Who.confessed things at the wrong time. I mean when the elders actually said rakesh tried committing suicide shefali could have just said she wanted help and she took help. That would have saved her from being labelled characterless. after the fiasco she tells naina to breakup with sameer because she thinks naina is weak and is successful in brainwashing.
But still people praise shefali's immaturity as some act of bravery.

Munna pandit and their idea of making naina jealous
This is what most teens do when their girl of interest tries to distance herself from them. Be it 90s, 00s,or even 2018.
They are not wrong. Their idea may seem stupid to us as we are all well above 20 and we have seen how world works but that's how teen life is. Even the trophy sash thing and erasing of su by naina is all a part of teenage carefree life😆

Bottom line : if people can accept shefali's faltu advice as some sort of mirror to naina i think they should accept munna pandit's jealousy advice too. Afterall they are all teenagers and haven't seen world yet

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Frankly speaking I don't judge shefali by her clothes n boldness but what she did on last day was extremely wrong.She clearly heard that SS made suicide attempt n she understands what SS means to arjun.She could have kept her mouth shut until arjun gets a job if she wants her relationship to be saved. She was simply forcing arjun to accept their relationship where his father attempted suicide. She could have waited for arjun hold a job n then open up in front of family but no what she did is emotional torture to arjun. I'm not defending arjun as he did very much wrong with shefali but When d question comes to choose ur father or lover whom will he choose?
The advice she gave for naina is really immature. She could have told to naina that don't become like arjun .Do ur studies well ,become independent n then express ur love for Sam in front of family n convince them but what she made naina ?I know shefali is root cause for Samina love but naina is better analysing issues when it comes to love. Shefali literally killed naina's confidence


Mundit may try to unite Samina with this plan but if Sunaina is unaware about this plan then for sure her heart will break. Mundit got a big lesson from bet phrase. I hope they don't repeat that
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Well said dear, sheffali was wrong not only she gave wrong advise to Naina but also of her immaturity. When your father was trying to suicide, knowing how hos family is, knowing how Arjun is infront of people she keep forcing him and the mistake she made was accepting relationship in that situation. Not only Arjun but mein ek ladki ho k bhi agar aisa situation ata toh mein chup hoti. And morever unlogo ne future ka kuch plan bhi nai kiya tha, they knew agarwals and society won't accept them, knowing everything she said the truth. I can very well understand her pain but she was also wrong. May be oh insult sun nai payi so usne truth bola. See her mom was also quite coz she completely understood Agarwals and Arjun so unone apni beti ki insult hone diya, she was aware of the consequences so she was quite. But hum kuch nai bolsake aab coz yeh sefjun ka end tha show se so cvs ko unka track Aisa dikhana pada but mujhe toh day one se malum tha ki agar inone show choda bhi nai toh unka lovestory happy ending bilkul nai hain. Interview mein sashi ma'am be bhi kaha tha ki kuch lovestory ki happy ending nai hoti but we cherish that feeling for forever so agar sab ka haply emding dikhaya toh unrealistic lagta show though I don't want any lovestory incomplete but they are showing the reality. Samaina ka since they are showing real lovestory of producers so they can't separate them, oh unka story incomplete nai karsakte coz they clearly mentioned everytime ki Samaina ki story unse relate hain so they won't show ekta types. Mujhe na yeh baat relief karti hai agar koi breakup track aya bhi toh coz we know ki yeh thode time k liye warna mein toh pagal hoti agar YUDKBH ekta ne banaya Hota toh
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nice post!
Three diff ppl, diff scenarios and like we always say teens hai... Aisa hi karenege
There are many times CVs have surprised us with their behavior hope that this time too the result is good
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Can I know what problem you exactly have with Shefali? Time and again you comment on her dressing and freely talking with boys. Why? Why does everything that has to be talked about Shefali needs the mention of her clothes?
And now coming to your topic, Shefali spoke up because the person who openly proclaimed in front of her mother that he would be by her side always, conveniently kept mum in front of his own family. She was explaining to the Agarwal's that whatever they are thinking is wrong . Despite listening to the filthy accusations of Agarwal, Arjun chose to kept mum and that's when Shefali spoke up because she didn't expect such a cowardly behaviour from Arjun.


Please could you explain it to me that why the hell Arjun didn't accept that he had indeed given his car to Shefali. If he would have said that I had helped Shefali because she asked for help, Shefali wouldn't have felt insecure. But no, that guy lied. Agar vo itna bol deta na ki Shefali ki Maine help kri thi, she would not have been tagged characterless.


Ab advice pr aate Hain. Shefali asked Naina a simple question that would she stand up for her love? Was that a wrong question? No, because when a person backs out, the other person is completely broken. Shefali didn't want Sameer to go through the same pain as she did. Regarding the fact that she talked about Samaina's love not being deep enough, she was not really aware of everything that has been transpiring between the two. Aur can't Naina think of her own? Shefali asked a simple question and Naina backed out overnight. Both Arjun and Naina don't have the courage to stand up for their love and that is a fact.

I have time and again supported Naina be it the bet phase or the maafi track or the manhoosiyat track because she loves Sameer genuinely. But all this won't change the fact that one question from an outsider hit her so hard that she chose to break up with Sameer. You know why? Because she knows she won't be able to speak in front of her family just like her Arjun bhaiya. Anyway why do I even expect her to speak up? She was the one who has always hidden all of Arjun's lies so why did I even expect Naina to speak up this time.

And since you have mentioned about Shefali's clothes, wearing suits and jeans and full length skirts doesn't make one mature either. And btw Naina called her male friends home too, she hid money without even thinking once about her chachaji and she always hid Arjun's lies. If this is how you define maturity, I rest my case.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sushi99

Well said dear, sheffali was wrong not only she gave wrong advise to Naina but also of her immaturity. When your father was trying to suicide, knowing how hos family is, knowing how Arjun is infront of people she keep forcing him and the mistake she made was accepting relationship in that situation. Not only Arjun but mein ek ladki ho k bhi agar aisa situation ata toh mein chup hoti. And morever unlogo ne future ka kuch plan bhi nai kiya tha, they knew agarwals and society won't accept them, knowing everything she said the truth. I can very well understand her pain but she was also wrong. May be oh insult sun nai payi so usne truth bola. See her mom was also quite coz she completely understood Agarwals and Arjun so unone apni beti ki insult hone diya, she was aware of the consequences so she was quite. But hum kuch nai bolsake aab coz yeh sefjun ka end tha show se so cvs ko unka track Aisa dikhana pada but mujhe toh day one se malum tha ki agar inone show choda bhi nai toh unka lovestory happy ending bilkul nai hain. Interview mein sashi ma'am be bhi kaha tha ki kuch lovestory ki happy ending nai hoti but we cherish that feeling for forever so agar sab ka haply emding dikhaya toh unrealistic lagta show though I don't want any lovestory incomplete but they are showing the reality. Samaina ka since they are showing real lovestory of producers so they can't separate them, oh unka story incomplete nai karsakte coz they clearly mentioned everytime ki Samaina ki story unse relate hain so they won't show ekta types. Mujhe na yeh baat relief karti hai agar koi breakup track aya bhi toh coz we know ki yeh thode time k liye warna mein toh pagal hoti agar YUDKBH ekta ne banaya Hota toh



Exactly this is d main difference between shefali n naina .If in future Sam faces same situation like arjun then naina would never force him to confess truth in that situation.

Look at naina she don't want to hurt Sam by giving any false hopes keeping her family in mind n other hand shefali was literally forcing arjun just to prove that she is right. If she wants her relationship to be saved she would have remain calm, wait until they both become independents n convince families in future but no she is busy in playing right or wrong game with agarwals n emotional torture to Arjun

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: AaishaM

Can I know what problem you exactly have with Shefali? Time and again you comment on her dressing and freely talking with boys. Why? Why does everything that has to be talked about Shefali needs the mention of her clothes?

And now coming to your topic, Shefali spoke up because the person who openly proclaimed in front of her mother that he would be by her side always, conveniently kept mum in front of his own family. She was explaining to the Agarwal's that whatever they are thinking is wrong . Despite listening to the filthy accusations of Agarwal, Arjun chose to kept mum and that's when Shefali spoke up because she didn't expect such a cowardly behaviour from Arjun.


Please could you explain it to me that why the hell Arjun didn't accept that he had indeed given his car to Shefali. If he would have said that I had helped Shefali because she asked for help, Shefali wouldn't have felt insecure. But no, that guy lied. Agar vo itna bol deta na ki Shefali ki Maine help kri thi, she would not have been tagged characterless.


Ab advice pr aate Hain. Shefali asked Naina a simple question that would she stand up for her love? Was that a wrong question? No, because when a person backs out, the other person is completely broken. Shefali didn't want Sameer to go through the same pain as she did. Regarding the fact that she talked about Samaina's love not being deep enough, she was not really aware of everything that has been transpiring between the two. Aur can't Naina think of her own? Shefali asked a simple question and Naina backed out overnight. Both Arjun and Naina don't have the courage to stand up for their love and that is a fact.

I have time and again supported Naina be it the bet phase or the maafi track or the manhoosiyat track because she loves Sameer genuinely. But all this won't change the fact that one question from an outsider hit her so hard that she chose to break up with Sameer. You know why? Because she knows she won't be able to speak in front of her family just like her Arjun bhaiya. Anyway why do I even expect her to speak up? She was the one who has always hidden all of Arjun's lies so why did I even expect Naina to speak up this time.

And since you have mentioned about Shefali's clothes, wearing suits and jeans and full length skirts doesn't make one mature either. And btw Naina called her male friends home too, she hid money without even thinking once about her chachaji and she always hid Arjun's lies. If this is how you define maturity, I rest my case.

Thanks for hating naina to this extent.n I pity u for not understanding parents love I don't understand how ppl expect to choose lover over parents when their parents already made suicide attempt.
Both samina wanted to marry with their elders blessings not to marry each other by keeping their elders dead body aside.
I don't understand why naina is hated this much when she don't want to hurt either Sam or her family
Edited by haritha45 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: AaishaM

Can I know what problem you exactly have with Shefali? Time and again you comment on her dressing and freely talking with boys. Why? Why does everything that has to be talked about Shefali needs the mention of her clothes?

And now coming to your topic, Shefali spoke up because the person who openly proclaimed in front of her mother that he would be by her side always, conveniently kept mum in front of his own family. She was explaining to the Agarwal's that whatever they are thinking is wrong . Despite listening to the filthy accusations of Agarwal, Arjun chose to kept mum and that's when Shefali spoke up because she didn't expect such a cowardly behaviour from Arjun.


Please could you explain it to me that why the hell Arjun didn't accept that he had indeed given his car to Shefali. If he would have said that I had helped Shefali because she asked for help, Shefali wouldn't have felt insecure. But no, that guy lied. Agar vo itna bol deta na ki Shefali ki Maine help kri thi, she would not have been tagged characterless.


Ab advice pr aate Hain. Shefali asked Naina a simple question that would she stand up for her love? Was that a wrong question? No, because when a person backs out, the other person is completely broken. Shefali didn't want Sameer to go through the same pain as she did. Regarding the fact that she talked about Samaina's love not being deep enough, she was not really aware of everything that has been transpiring between the two. Aur can't Naina think of her own? Shefali asked a simple question and Naina backed out overnight. Both Arjun and Naina don't have the courage to stand up for their love and that is a fact.

I have time and again supported Naina be it the bet phase or the maafi track or the manhoosiyat track because she loves Sameer genuinely. But all this won't change the fact that one question from an outsider hit her so hard that she chose to break up with Sameer. You know why? Because she knows she won't be able to speak in front of her family just like her Arjun bhaiya. Anyway why do I even expect her to speak up? She was the one who has always hidden all of Arjun's lies so why did I even expect Naina to speak up this time.

And since you have mentioned about Shefali's clothes, wearing suits and jeans and full length skirts doesn't make one mature either. And btw Naina called her male friends home too, she hid money without even thinking once about her chachaji and she always hid Arjun's lies. If this is how you define maturity, I rest my case.

my problem is with people calling her mature because she wears short clothes as that apparently makes shefali mature/ independent/ modern etcetera.
I used the same sentences used by shefali fans while defending her against her.
I don't believe in judging people based on their clothes but in this cas3 shefali is considered mature brave etcetera only because she is the way she is portrayed.I wouldn't invite even girls home when my parents are away ..i would take my parents permission unlike shefali arjun who would always play sneak sneak.i did not like what naina did either but i know this much that naina sameer would manage situations better.So yeah take your gyan elsewhere.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: haritha45

Thanks for hating naina to this extent. I don't understand how ppl expect to choose lover over parents when their parents already made suicide attempt.
Both samina wanted to marry with their elders blessings not with marry each other by keeping their elders dead body aside.
I don't understand why naina is hated this much when she don't want to hurt either Sam or her family

naina and sameer wanted to get married at the right age . Shefali's phone call where she tells arjun that they should run away is also one thing that shows the difference between shefali and naina
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samaina12

naina and sameer wanted to get married at the right age . Shefali's phone call where she tells arjun that they should run away is also one thing that shows the difference between shefali and naina



True Samina wanted to achieve something in their lives n marry .Ppl who r supporting shefali here r not shefali lovers they r just naina haters. I wonder why ppl failing to understand logic that Samina wanted to marry with elders blessings

Suprinsingly they hate naina so much about her looks n confidence levels but wanted her to be part of Samina ship

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