Apr 3rd: Possessive Loverboy Sameer ❤️ - Page 2

Sameer was vocal with his GF, which was to some extent good. Some guys say they love, but they don't come to the front. Girl doesn't know that behind some fellow is liking her. The so called Guy who loves her says he is possessive & says she is flirting and others are flirting when none of the events actually took place. Naina is such a Good Girl that she never flirted with anybody. This simple example is enough to show how foolish guys are. Claim karne ka bhi hadh hona yaar. Love hona hai tho they have to come to the front and they should say/claim. If girl likes, she will go ahead otherwise she will reject & they cannot force her right?

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Hi Nivi

Hi Nivi.. thanks for unfailingly providing a space to air our views on the episode.

I mentioned in the Written update thread...
Desi sabuns are not expected to handle the "possessiveness" theme with any finesse.
Before commenting on the broader aspects this touched upon... I would like to strictly comment on what struck me while watching the scene...irrespective of what the writer intended to convey thru the scene.
I remembered a confident Naina in the past when her pride and her sense of self was put to the ultimate test... after the bet saga... she then gave a befitting reply to Sameer but today steeped in love, she found it difficult to question Sameer for his irrational response to a very innocent gesture...it's a reminder of what love can do..as someone wrote in a post here sometime back... as much as love liberates it can be controlling too...

It would make little sense to evaluate a young Sam's action when the conditioned response of most is that a woman's freedom must be curtailed so as to "protect" them from lumpen elements...Frankly, if one
reflects deeply on the matter, it would strike many that such a response only tends to increase the sense of gender discrimination we witness around us. One can't limit movement to ensure safe spaces but perhaps it's a debate for another time. Suffice to say that Sameer acted in a manner that showed his immaturity. Let's see where this goes from here...If it was a result of misplaced anger... which it well maybe.. let's see how he realises it..

Originally posted by: MadhuriKanak

In today's episode, Sameer should have explained why he was angry instead of walking away throwing Naina's pic on floor. Naina gave that gift to Sameer very lovingly & Naina called photographer person as Bhaiyya. Sameer knows about Naina very well & her Family's upbringing. Naina was so confused and I felt really pity for her. He should have told as to what made him angry in the first place and he should have told he didn't like it in a nice way because back then, there weren't any latest iphones/cellphones etc, so they had to go to a studio and take pics.

Also, Sameer flirted with many girls. Did Naina act the same way as Sameer did? She could have done the same way as Sameer did. Possessiveness is same for Boys and Girls & it is mutual understanding overall. I feel it is lacking between them. What use is Love when there are misunderstandings, suspicions, fights, and arguments all the time? What is the Purpose of getting married?

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Originally posted by: canapoem

Making another post :

How much juice does Rohan drink? 😕

Also looks like Naina still is in Sameer land and her failure in the exams has not yet given her the much needed reality check.

Did the Paper Chor pass 12th grade?

If Shanti teacher tells Naina to be alert and careful, it won't really help her because Naina didn't commit any mistakes,still she was blamed unnecessarily by Sameer. Maybe, this has confused her even more. Maybe, she is getting hurt thinking as to why he has unnecessarily broken the photo frame and is argumentative with her all the time. Just because somebody else talked nonsense, Sameer cannot encourage / nor behave like that. Poor thing Naina has already been disturbed. Topper failing is a very serious issue because she was always a studious girl and her father being strict, it is even more hard for her to endure. If she wants to get married to Sameer also, she could be doubtful if her family or her dad will agree to Sameer or not. It's a Huge Maze that Naina is held in... Taiji and all are suspecting Naina & she has to maintain decorum in the family and she needs to protect Sameer's name without getting his name spoiled etc... Because Rakeshji doesn't havea good impression on Sameer & it is a testing phase for Naina. Sameer has to support her if he really loves her instead of taunting her and nagging her all the time...

That's why Elders will say always to sit and talk instead of arguing etc

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Originally posted by: anjalii123

I mentioned the same..She is still in Sameer land..N im pretty sure she wont come out of it til Shanti Mam knocks some sense in her..Al she is worried is why he left angry ,the report is no way in her mind aft wat happened in the classroom wit him

I jus hope aft Shanti Mam talkin the importance of education,hopefully she concentrates back on studies