Is it only me who got that feeling? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Kavila

Exactly yaar Sam has matured so much in naina's love but naina sorry ...she will not a life partner thing so sorry ...but that's a harsh truth

I am really worried for Sam co he will start destroying himself dekhlena

Originally posted by: mehraan

I hve not watched the epsde yet...but definately its not obsession...Sameer is a very passionate person by heart ..His nature is tat ..wen it comes to his frends n closedones..he hasproved how protective he is about them...The extent if he can go for his frends is to watch out for ...then we can imagine wat it can b for Naina...Hes ready to tke insults ,assaults for her..so tis much willingness to even get thrashings n hurt has not diverted him from his path...Secondly the guy hasnt xperienced love from his FamiLy n neither in any romantic way...So rite now for the first time he has felt those emotions n that too hes immersed in deeply...so it is xplosive...!The intensity of these feelings n in love is high ...So for him, Naina is like his heartbeat...without her he wont survive ..His existence revolves n is dependent on her...Tat far he has come in love...n true to it any lover will hve tat posessive streak in him ...!.N come to think.of it ...at such an age ...little madness,imaturity ..poseesiveness is common n natural...

Im jus waiting if smeone mkes a commnt on her in the skool or the bully boys misbehave with her...wat is he goin to.do??...He couldnt tke the Kiss thing in MTABU ...what will happen if smething more worst is spilled out

Originally posted by: prem_diwani

Sameer I always felt would be the more passionate one in the relationship. Once he realizes love, he will shower his partner with all the love he missed in his life. That's why when Naina loved him so much, I was happy that he finally had someone love him for who he is.

Lately since her heartbreak she has not taken the time to think over everything and just build walls behind which she has been nursing her broken heart. She understtod him so weel, felt for him, knew where his demons were and yet because of the bet all that tumbled down and held no value beyond the fact that he cheated her.

Now Sameer realized her value in his life and started with loving her to wanting to make her happy. He is like that for friends - yaaron ke yaar - he will stand like a pillar for them and loves them for who they are. Same with Naina.
His action made her this way and that drives him everyday to pursue her and bring joy in her life.

This past month she has slowly seen the wall crumble, but till the last shred of doubt on his true nature is not cleared she cant move on. Once she is clear he loves her, there will be no stopping her love for him this time.

Originally posted by: DevPK

No obsession! It's pure and true love! Obsession is derogatory word that can be used for Sameer! He is living for Naina's happiness! Several VOs state this. And the possessiveness! showed is beautiful! If this kind of possessive is not there then the love is not true. We should try to differentiate between possessiveness showed by some psychos in Crime Petrol to sweet gestures of lover boy' s possessiveness. He is protective, cares for Naina's image if she goes out amongst public with a torn cloth. When you love, you have concern, you care. Please don't use the word obsession for Sameer!

Originally posted by: nancyrio90

Yes that it is pure love ...

Definitely that's what we gather from the vos too...

He is Going To Be passionate Love Not ObsseiveBut a teen age Love Goes Thru a Phase of maturity and that what's I meant Obsession to passion..

there is a journey to being matured... and that's want I meant by this post not that he will turn srk of darr..just a phase from bein a lover boy to a matured lover boy

Originally posted by: nancyrio90

Is it only me or any of u felt a certain obsession in Sameers voice and eyes in the scene where he said to Munna..Naina kahegi tho chand taare bhi tod layega tera ye bhai...by obbsesion I mean she being be all a nd end all kind of obsession... did any one feel that?his eyes expression seemed a lil different...

he has pursued her with love and now his expectations r rising...which is pretty normal..and that's why..he now seem to be turning passionate I felt that in that entire scene when he declared only Naina will b Sameer ki dulhaniya... and the fb video also hints at he getting possessive protective..so...

Will they tackle possessiveness expectations attention craving ,space in a relationship...related issues in the coming track... I hope so...

I can so see Sameer going on that path...

Thoughts??

Originally posted by: -allizwell-

Obsession sounds a bit negative and at this juncture V r at Sameer's side for him to win back Naina. So v obviously rule out the word ' obsession' as it reminds us of SRK in Darr.

Let me go back and quote a few instances to answer the bold part. Sameer has never got care and attention from his parents. He hates his step dad and yearns for motherly affection. But he got it all only from Nana whom he addresses as ' Mummy' sometimes. This is one kind of obsession he is got. Obsessed for mother's love.

This comes forth time and again everytime his dad humiliates him in front of his mother and she takes her husband's side. The otherwise caring and protective Sameer gets furious and helpless everytime this happens.

2nd instance is the VO stated from now on Sameer was desperately looking at the door waiting for Naina's arrival ...when he accepted the bet. He became obsessed to WIN.

3rd instance ...he called her to temple before debate to wish her without knowing y he did so and when she did not turn up, U could c how angry he was while saying he refused Nanu to meet Naina and he should have gone with him. He was not able to take refusal from her at that time and was obsessed to meet her. He even refused to listen to her and said she should not even utter Nanu as she is not worth it.

4th instance...he realised later that he was in love. But he wanted forgiveness from Naina. He said maafi toh mai leke rahoonga. He is doing many positive things for her to forgive and win her back now. Isnt all this obsession towards her?

Imagine Naina refusing him later on some pretext of some kasam by her dad or something...will he able to live without her? The guy has seen care..attention and love for the first time .he even refers to them as hum...as one entity...will he b able to separate himself from her? I guess never.

So yes...he is obsessed for their bond. He is a passionate...protective lover but he has been devoid of love and attention throughout his life unlike other guys. He is experiencing the most blissful moments of his life now...without which he cant survive. But this obsession is positive trait in Sameer as he can NEVER hurt her. He CAN go to any length in his obsession to keep her happy.😊

I hope i made sense.🤔