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Hello, I've mostly been a silent reader of the forum but I have to say this now.
I feel Naina is totally justified in her actions, because:
a) she has common sense. Okay so if a guy breaks you're heart, and then tells you sorry after a couple of days, would any sane girl believe that guy? Imagine someone doing that to you? Would you forgive that person easily? Let's not forget the fact that Naina felt totally humiliated by the whole bet revelation.
b) She doesn't know that Sameer truly loves her and is ashamed of the bet thing. As viewers we get to see Sameers pov, but Naina isn't seeing or hearing what we are. She's probably thinking that he's doing all this for the sake of a new bet / his guilt. Because when you care for a person even as a friend you wouldn't want to hurt them, but Sameer did hurt Naina unintentionally, and she now believes that he didn't even care a little bit. Ofcourse all these misunderstandings could have been avoided if Sameer revealed the entire thing to her before her confession, but unfortunately that didn't happen. Naina is a strong girl who has her morals, she once compromised it for Sameer, she won't repeat that mistake twice.
c) She has stopped listening to her heart and is now only listening to her head. The only time Naina listened to her heart was when she fell for Sameer, but that backfired badly for the poor kiddo. Now she'll make sure to never listen to her heart. During the last few epis Naina seemed genuinely confused about the change in Sameers behaviour. Even if she knows it's for real, she wouldn't acknowledge it to herself that easily. She's now got iron walls around her heart, it will be interesting to see Sameer break through that.
d)The whole Megha fiasco has led Naina to believe that true love is a thing that exists only in stories. All the marriages in her family are arranged marriages. So probably she feels guilty for loving Sameer and almost compromising her family's izzat.
e) Her emotions are always repressed. Naina can't display her emotions, live through them and be done with it. It's very clear that Naina has to stay subdued in her family. There isn't anyone who she trusts enough to open up with. Also her pariwar wala demands perfection from her even though it's through indirect ways. I've always noticed that Preeti behaves playfully and casually with her parents but Naina always has this sort of line which she doesn't cross even if it's family.
So let's just give her time to process her emotions okay? She's a 16 year old for gods sake.
That being said, when Naina first fell for Sameer it was for his looks, when she falls in love with him again, it would be for his personality.
