Why did sam shower fake/true love on naina? Poor naina :(

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haritha45

@haritha45

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Today I really felt so bad for only naina.I understand that sam is really SORRY for breaking naina's heart.

Fake love

1.He made her feel so special in both attractive n affectionative ways by helping her n supporting her which she never got from his father

2.He pretended that he even cares for hair.This is not less than a miracle for a girl who didn't get a proper love from anyone

3.He made her to feel beautiful that no ever did for naina.Again this is a big thing for naina because she was only named as behenji for others.

Truelove

1.he is equally feeling pain in her pain which no did till date.

2.he ruined his respect for her self respect no uski this is papa ne nehi kiya hai.

3.He is sleeping on footpath to plz her

4.He is like always around her no matter what

5.He just want to see her at any cost

Ab itna kuch dekha hai naina ne how will she love any other guy.Now sam babu is saying he'll leave after getting SORRY.But all his sweet gestures will make her only love him even madly.Sam babu agar jana hi tha tho usse itna apnapan kyu dikhana.Some1 in d forum called #shaadiwalapyar test is stupid idea but it is right thing as naina is search for lifelong love n support

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Athira

@ATH_KTM_543

Dazzler

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Posted: 7 years ago

Iss sabka padne wala hein sameer ko...that too with interest...

With break down it will be sameer jo zyada tootega...

Naina will become normal after breaking down but sameer ... he will become restless after that...

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LovePraja

@LovePraja

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

Well said... 👏

He doesn't understand what he's putting Naina through... He is full of guilt... But has not fully understood Naina's pain... He wants a closure for himself... He wants to free himself of the guilt... But what about Naina's turmoil...

If he had understood her pain then he would not have even dared to apologize to her... Whatever he's doing for an apology will only hurt her more... Coz then she would not be just hurt coz of the bet, but bcoz Sameer never loved her...

I think this feeling is more terrible than being cheated...

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haritha45

@haritha45

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: ATH_KTM_543

Iss sabka padne wala hein sameer ko...that too with interest...

With break down it will be sameer jo zyada tootega...

Naina will become normal after breaking down but sameer ... he will become restless after that...

I still doubt naina 's breakdown is because of sam or not.But sam is not letting her to live peacefully. she needs some time to get out from all this mess n she is trying her hard to do but sam tho usske peeche pada hai SORRY keliye.Now why he send cycle to her this is a wrong idea

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Dr.DonnyJohn

@Dr.DonnyJohn

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Posted: 7 years ago

Trust, Once Broken takes years to mend or never mends at all.

However, Sameer DOES NOT seem to realize this at all.

I agree he is just 17, devoid of any genuine feelings till today. Manu readers are saying the above reasons in his excuse.

However, shouldn't those 2 reasons be enough for a guy (who realizes that he has never received any genuine love from anyone as no one has ever cared for him beyond his look and money) to REALIZE even a fraction of the depth of Naina's pain / LOVE and even a slightest bit of love for her as a lover.

Considering how he feels neglected always, he should be the one to fall in love. It is important for Naina as then only Sameer's Sorry has some meaning for her.

Otherwise, this makes Sameer look extremely selfish who assumes that whatever he does, he will get around it or ask for forgiveness just by his looks, cute gestures and his parental money.

Though he says he respects Naina, he has no respect for her feelings. In real and reel life, feeling guilty is always selfish (for your personal gratification) unless you feel it for the correct reasons.

When I say Sameer has no respect for Naina's feelings - I mean to say that he was the one who allured her to fall deeply in love with him. It's because of Sameer that a simple crush of Naina turned in to a deep binding love of a lifetime. And Sameer can't be such a fool not to understand this.

He is just going to make Naina feel more miserable by all his sorry attempts, and once he gets it (Naina will forgive him seeing his uneasiness taking the cue from her Chachaji who will forgive Bela), Sameer wants to conveniently friend zone her and go away or move on. He shows no intention of being with her through thick and thin.

It will make Naina feel that Though Sameer understands her true love, she is still not FIT/GOOD ENOUGH for his love.

So, Sameer broke her trust and now he will break her confidence also that she is not good enough to be loved by anyone. (in spite of all her goodness)

How Selfish of you Sameer!

N.B: This entire sequence of Sameer going to her house to help in marriage MUST happen after Sameer feels even 1% of love wali feeling. Otherwise, whats the point in putting the poor girl again in discomfort and pain.

Edited by Dr.Don - 7 years ago

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haritha45

@haritha45

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Dr.Don
Trust, Once Broken takes years to mend or never mends at all.

However, Sameer DOES NOT seem to realize this at all.

I agree he is just 17, devoid of any genuine feelings till today. Manu readers are saying the above reasons in his excuse.

However, shouldn't those 2 reasons be enough for a guy (who realizes that he has never received any genuine love from anyone as no one has ever cared for him beyond his look and money) to REALIZE even a fraction of the depth of Naina's pain / LOVE and even a slightest bit of love for her as a lover.

Considering how he feels neglected always, he should be the one to fall in love. It is important for Naina as then only Sameer's Sorry has some meaning for her.

Otherwise, this makes Sameer look extremely selfish who assumes that whatever he does, he will get around it or ask for forgiveness just by his looks, cute gestures and his parental money.

Though he says he respects Naina, he has no respect for her feelings. In real and reel life, feeling guilty is always selfish (for your personal gratification) unless you feel it for the correct reasons.

When I say Sameer has no respect for Naina's feelings - I mean to say that he was the one who allured her to fall deeply in love with him. It's because of Sameer that a simple crush of Naina turned in to a deep binding love of a lifetime. And Sameer can't be such a fool not to understand this.

He is just going to make Naina feel more miserable by all his sorry attempts, and once he gets it (Naina will forgive him seeing his uneasiness taking the cue from her Chachaji who will forgive Bela), Sameer wants to conveniently friend zone her and go away or move on. He shows no intention of being with her through thick and thin.

It will make Naina feel that Though Sameer understands her true love, she is still not FIT/GOOD ENOUGH for his love.

So, Sameer broke her trust and now he will break her confidence also that she is not good enough to be loved by anyone. (in spite of all her goodness)

How Selfish of you Sameer!

N.B: This entire sequence of Sameer going to her house to help in marriage MUST happen after Sameer feels even 1% of love wali feeling. Otherwise, whats the point in putting the poor girl again in discomfort and pain.

I totally agree with u sam is so selfish.First he broke her trust n made her not to believe in relationship n Now he'll break her confidence by this FRIENDSHIP tagline.He want forgiveness for his mental peace for that he is not letting her to concentrate on other things.Poor naina she can't explain his chachaji what she is going throughEven I wish sam's entry in agarwal house only after his realization because after this naina may even fall more him

Edited by haritha45 - 7 years ago

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--Royal--

@--Royal--

Trailblazer

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Dr.Don
Trust, Once Broken takes years to mend or never mends at all.

However, Sameer DOES NOT seem to realize this at all.

I agree he is just 17, devoid of any genuine feelings till today. Manu readers are saying the above reasons in his excuse.

However, shouldn't those 2 reasons be enough for a guy (who realizes that he has never received any genuine love from anyone as no one has ever cared for him beyond his look and money) to REALIZE even a fraction of the depth of Naina's pain / LOVE and even a slightest bit of love for her as a lover.

Considering how he feels neglected always, he should be the one to fall in love. It is important for Naina as then only Sameer's Sorry has some meaning for her.

Otherwise, this makes Sameer look extremely selfish who assumes that whatever he does, he will get around it or ask for forgiveness just by his looks, cute gestures and his parental money.

Though he says he respects Naina, he has no respect for her feelings. In real and reel life, feeling guilty is always selfish (for your personal gratification) unless you feel it for the correct reasons.

When I say Sameer has no respect for Naina's feelings - I mean to say that he was the one who allured her to fall deeply in love with him. It's because of Sameer that a simple crush of Naina turned in to a deep binding love of a lifetime. And Sameer can't be such a fool not to understand this.

He is just going to make Naina feel more miserable by all his sorry attempts, and once he gets it (Naina will forgive him seeing his uneasiness taking the cue from her Chachaji who will forgive Bela), Sameer wants to conveniently friend zone her and go away or move on. He shows no intention of being with her through thick and thin.

It will make Naina feel that Though Sameer understands her true love, she is still not FIT/GOOD ENOUGH for his love.

So, Sameer broke her trust and now he will break her confidence also that she is not good enough to be loved by anyone. (in spite of all her goodness)

How Selfish of you Sameer!

N.B: This entire sequence of Sameer going to her house to help in marriage MUST happen after Sameer feels even 1% of love wali feeling. Otherwise, whats the point in putting the poor girl again in discomfort and pain.

He is 16yrs old not 17 (watched epis clearfully) 😆 just chill u thinking to much...selfish and all is type s to har kyu selfish lagege na?? Naina n bhi sameer k pyaar k liye sabkuch karte thi..kyu ki wo usko psnd karte thi..she also looks selfish na??? Its not like that...what do u think jis k upper itna bada guilt h wo us k alwa kuch aur soch sakta h...guilt m pyaar nhi feel hoga 😕

@ for post and u guys just feel bad for Naina ..srslly that boy come to schl in high fever just to see Naina padal to nhi aayge schl ..what u wants now "jaan day de apane" tab bura feel karoge?? May be makers relazation track hi ready kar rahe h...sameer is planning to will go back to his boarding Nanital so may be jab dor jaane lagega tab feel hoga ki he loves Naina🤔 just a guess lets see😊

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Dr.DonnyJohn

@Dr.DonnyJohn

Navigator

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: --Royal--
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@ for post and u guys just feel bad for Naina ..srslly that boy come to schl in high fever just to see Naina padal to nhi aayge schl ..what u wants now "jaan day de apane" tab bura feel karoge?? May be makers relazation track hi ready kar rahe h...sameer is planning to will go back to his boarding Nanital so may be jab dor jaane lagega tab feel hoga ki he loves Naina🤔 just a guess lets see😊

@Royal

Well, Sameer seems to be good at forgetting people.

He did forget one of the previous girls in Nainital with whom he used to walk hand in hand (on top he admitted she was very pretty)

But he forgot her.

In that regard, he will forget Naina also.

In fact, Sameer should get out from Ahmedabad ASAP. He is better in Nainital. That will give Naina the required time and peace to heal her betrayed and broken Self Respect and emotions. She can finally focus on her well being and progress in life/career (within a complicated family)

So, that she can be ready to do well in academics and be ready for a true love when it comes in a more mature way (rather than seeing and remembering Sameer always)

Even if Sameer returns back for Naina, he MUST go through the immense pain of seeing Naina with someone else more deserving than him. Let him feel the pain of being rejected even when he feels TRUE love for Naina. Its high time he feels helpless in LOVE and realize that beyond a certain point, LOOKS, MONEY, SWAG & ATTITUDE cannot get you back TRUE love (once you kick it out intentionally)

Edited by Dr.Don - 7 years ago

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ahindrila29

@ahindrila29

Beginner

Posted: 7 years ago

May Be he still remembers the previous girl and was sad because she forgot him so easily that's why he always keeps on saying he never received true love.I think he has ever experienced the same feelings for anyone else he has for naina

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PritiSC

@PritiSC

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#10

I too feel Realisation abhi nahi hoga...he will leave her and go after mafi...phir se rone ke liye...she said few episode back...bat se batter...what she was indicating

May be leap and he meets her in college again and confess love

But really it doesn't make any sense for this love story then...it will be one of the other stories

I toh this story is going on line of movie Yeh Jawani hai Dewaani