Decoding Naina and her family

I agree. The show is as such that care and love is shown in an organic realistic way. They don't have to always be so obvious about that fact that they love naina. That is actually why i like the show, everythings not in your face; it's all subtle. Except the slaps across the face 🤢😆
Off Topic: I loved the milk and biscuits family scene last thursday. Chacha ji is trying to feed everyone biscuits including chachi ji 😆, preeti and her dialogues, naina thinking about her own problems. Phir aa tapki tayi ji, cream biscuit chor! 😆

Originally posted by: ATH_KTM_543

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Actually I thought to make a post on nainas family as I saw many posts here saying that nainas family doesn't love her..and none other than chachaji love her...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">But I am totally against that saying and I have valid points to prove that too...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Decoding each and every character...I will start with chachiji..</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Chachiji : she is one of genuine character... she is the one who took care of naina after her mother's death...I am sure if any other lady other than her would have opposed it...after all who will give the same place in their house like her daughter's...after all she doesn't have any blood relation with naina...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">I have proof to say that she genuinely loves naina and trusts her more than her daughter preethi...for example :</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">1. When in 1st episode naina said she got full marks...the way she cupped her face😳instead she asked preethi whether she failed...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">2. When she came to know that someone from her house did the haircut...she directly started scolding preethi...she didn't even doubt once that naina also might cut the hair...she was shocked to know naina cut the hair...that indicated that she trusted naina than preethi that she couldn't do that...and trust comes from true love only...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">3. In one of the episodes when naina accidently broke a glass...she started scolding for her but when naina started to take it... she was like...did it hurt you...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">4. In yesterday's episode too... she first caught hold of preethis ear regarding Saree issue...I am sure she would slap preethi too if she brought the Saree...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">For me chachiji is such a character who is not selfish or else it is not possible to look after a girl like her own child ... also naina never feels like it's not her home...she is very happy with them...</font>

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well said...
agree with u ...
I never find in any scene that chachiji is partial to preeti ..
looks wise ...yes she said but for a mother ,her kids are more beautiful than others ...
I liked the scene where naina consoled chachiji at temple after taiji taunts ...their bond is worth to praise

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Tauji and taiji and Rakesh : taiji and tauji are typical orthodox people...but I don't think they don't love naina...In fact they love her than rakesh...they care for her too... I can give one example...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">In order to hide the letter when naina acted fainting...the way they were tensed ... how taiji complained that it's becoz she is not getting enough food...how she is soo weak etc...but if it was Rakesh in their place ... he wouldn't even turn back... but taiji and tauji are better than him...there taunting is just becoz they are brought up in such that girls are not given that freedom...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Whereas Rakesh... he left her in the mud whereas he should have picked her up...he doesn't even care a bit about naina...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Also taiji and tauji taunt naina more becoz she is motherless...becoz not only then but even now...motherless girl's are given more care becoz they tend to choose wrong path more often...as mother's care for girls are most important that too during teenage...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">I don't think that tauji and taiji taunt naina like Rakesh do...they do appreciate naina not like Rakesh...Rakesh us the biggest failure ... they never compare naina nor say that she is a step below becoz she is girl... she taunt and scold both naina and preethi together...</font>

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hmmm
but taiji and tauji taunts ...
they give saza without any hearings .. like in court as said by narrator
I feel they are not bad the next day not at that moment :-(
it's a family ..

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Pooja di and preethi : I don't say that Pooja di doesn't love naina...actually naina is so lucky to have such two sisters...they never make her feel that she is not her own sister...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">They share everything... preethi is like sister cum friend... she loves her a lot...not in a single scene they have said that...it's mine ..it's yours...I don't think someone will have such feeling to share everything with cousins...even though Rakesh is taunted...naina is never taunted in his name...they both consider naina to be their own sister only...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">In fact they also tell frequently that their father loves naina more than them...naina is their fathers ladli beti...I don't think any children will handle such things...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Pooja dis chanting and scolding them is quite normal...mostly none in that house scolds Pooja becoz is of gharelu type...these two girls are considered to be little upperward type becoz of education</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Pooja scolds both preethi and naina equally... </font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">1. remember that duppatta scene... she says...either you remove these two girls from the house or get me married...these two consider you as fool...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">2. There's one scene where naina and sameer do not sleep and pooja di wokes up and asks naina why is she not sleeping...then naina says that she is sleeping lies on preethi... at that time if you observe carefully you will see how Pooja caresses nainas hair when she lies down...that minute detail touched my heart that day...they are showing their love through that minute details ..she really cares for naina but doesn't know to show much...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">3. Scolding ya keeping problems on others head ... I think it's common among siblings...she also does that only...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">The bonding between them I.e., chachiji..chachaji...naina...preethi...Pooja...is really a inspiration...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Naina is the happiest when she is with them...she never feels lonely inspite of being motherless and fatherless 😭...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">I don't think there is need for chachajis and arjuns characterisation...</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">This is my view on nainas family and their love towards her...you people can write down yours...</font>

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point 2 ...I observed and I liked her on that day very much
the group hug of naina,pooja,chachiji and preeti is a bliss to watch

chchaji ...no words
in Friday epi when he was saying in support of Preeti ,naina ...he said
'hamari betiyaan ' ..am bowled

I feel chachiji and chachaji chars are well scripted in this show

I'll rather combine it in one post only...I hope its ok...😃

I love this show from my heart, becoz each n every scene are so realistic..it shows the typical middle class family of 90's ..and all the scenes n sequences are very much true for those who lived in that era...