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abhilasha_dream

@abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 7 years ago

#61

Ishita looked helpless today and is wondering how to help Raman but what surprised me is that Ishita is unable to understand how to go about the whole thing.

This comes as a shock as Ishita has already handled Mani's paralysis. Although she shares vast difference in relations with Mani and Raman and both the mens temperament is also different so their way of expressing their sorrow will be different but that depression, the trauma of losinh ones legs , will be same of losing their legs. The feeling of helplessnes being ingrained deeply will be the same.

As she is already equipped with the wheel chair things she should have kept that toiletry down and not at its usual place. These are the things which both Aaliyah and Ishita needs to maneuver as they have already seen and lived with it for 7 long years.

Ishita's pep talk needs Mani's referral as he has already fought with it and has come out as a winner. Moreover , she could also say that in a way Raman was a saviour for all of them as 2 out of 5 boys were busy pestering or handling him making the ladies work easy to deal with only 1 man at a time and not 2.

In fact Mani can share his paralysis time stories with Raman as how he felt at that time and how he used to overcome his fears and hurdles . coz sometimes a man can connect more with the person who is or has already gone through their state. They derive inspiration to not lose hope through their stories .

Edited by abhilasha_dream - 7 years ago

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zohakhan7

@zohakhan7

Trailblazer

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Posted: 7 years ago

#62

Ishita should ask Raman that did he left her side when she was blind or when she was in wheel chair ?

He was there by her side like a rock n if he thinks himself to be a burden then she was also a burden on hi so why did he took that burden on him n why didnt he let her deal with her problems alone ?

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Pasoori

@ChanChanMan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#63

The writers are doing a great job. However, I would appreciate if Ruhi apologises to Raman for her rudeness. Also, Ishita needs to scold her for misbehaving with Raman. Glad to see that the makers are concentrating on Raman's feelings. :)

Edited by GhayalParinda - 7 years ago

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Srividya

@moonwearer

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Posted: 7 years ago

#64

Ruhi has been given a long rope and permitted to scream at others to have her way since childhood. When she thanked Raman this week he did mention how they had spoilt her. She might start snooping about the doc.

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Srividya

@moonwearer

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Posted: 7 years ago

#65

The helplessness of a very active man impaired all of a sudden is being beautifully portrayed by KP.seeing him in the shower had me tearing up. Reminded how we take small every day routines for granted till our life turns Topsy Turvey.none care for Ishra the way they do. The useless family allowed the thug to find his way to Ishra bedroom. The height of careless Ness.

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Svati12

@svati12

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Posted: 7 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: moonwearer
The helplessness of a very active man impaired all of a sudden is being beautifully portrayed by KP.seeing him in the shower had me tearing up. Reminded how we take small every day routines for granted till our life turns Topsy Turvey.none care for Ishra the way they do. The useless family allowed the thug to find his way to Ishra bedroom. The height of careless Ness.

Its d hall n only ishra at home... none else...

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gargpoo

@gargpoo

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Posted: 7 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream
The episode was good. Their acting to the core. As usual the family is behaving like a useless bunch. Such a huge family specially an active set of parents , but nobody has time enough to sit and engage Raman in conversations so that he doesn't feel depressed. Only Ishita needs to be around.

One more glaring thing was shown , it's just not shifting a room but there are many other things also which needs to be taken care of when a person becomes paralysed from waist down.

For example the wash basin , which needs to be brought down to Raman's height now. That still requires plumber but the toiletry needed to be put down so that the handicapped person can reach them on their own - these are the little things which needs to be kept in mind to ensure that the man doesn't feel handicapped.

That is the major difference between how CV's are treating with Ishita's handicapp and Raman's.

Raman had asked Ishita to walk down to him without any support , the moment she entered Bhalla house, hence boosting her morale that she can still do things on her own whereas when Raman entered , the first thing which he observed was movement of furniture in the living room and everybody asking to push his wheelchair and help him thus making him feel handicapped at every juncture.

After Ishita became blind - she solved Raman's drug case, fought the goon who came to murder her - situations which only boosted her confidence whereas now

After Raman lost his legs - ladies of his house getting molested in front of his eyes although he tried stopping them but could not succeed much, lamp falling on Adi, employee using his mindset for his advantage and tomorrow his wife will be threatened in front of him - every situation only making him loose his confidence And making him feel useless.

KP's acting is superb but this situations of making Raman feel useless is now getting repetitive and boring. They should show his Full fledged frustration or atleast give the man a break and then move ahead with the story or else it's getting boring now. As obviously one cannot have so many criminal situations thrown at you at once.

I wonder what is Dr. Rajat hiding. Why has he come in disguise to meet another doctor. Looks like he has done some major mistake in Raman's surgery and is meeting up all the doctors whom Raman is visiting to convince them to not reveal the truth of Raman's case to the Bhallas.

Thats what i ws talking abt the other day ..

During ishita's blindness it ws not depressing at all

Ek toh ishita is mentally strong person

Plus none made her feel depressed or useless in fact the first step raman took ws made her familiar with surroundings so that she can walk by her own n doesnt lose confidence

Plus all incidences happened made her more strong whether its drug case or fighting with goon she even developed a sense to recognize ppl ..

Bt with raman all unknowingly making him feel useless and all the happenings making the situation worst ..

But what i think is ..ishita's blindness ws just a seq not a whole track so they didnt go into deep otherwise a person suddenly losing eyesight struggles too mentally n physically both ..ashok's exit ws already confirmed so they ended it within days

This raman paralyze track seems long to me as they r still buiding it up so they r going deep showing in detail how a self made/independent man feels when he loses his legs ...though they go a little ott like that goons incident to show more drama that ws not needed..

I think making him useless is over in this week ..hopefully from next week they will show he getting his confidence back a little and starting to live normal

Rest drama will be there always ..though i agree they should have made changes in bathroom according to his condition plus atleast show his parents sitting with him once try to talk to him or share his pain.. after all he is their son

Whole iyer paltan is gayab none even comes to bhalla house now except bala who just stands here n there

Romi is also gayab since raman came back home

So none meets raman or sits with him or talks to him

Edited by gargpoo - 7 years ago

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@--QUEEN--

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Posted: 7 years ago

#68

The after shower deserves a special mention.

Raman comes out fully drenched, ishita wiping him, him wiping his tears, everything made me cry😭

Don't know how many times I watched that scene whole night.

What's surprising is that there is not even a single dailogue in that complete scene.

It would have been more emotional even without bg score. Silence between them brought tears in my eyes.

Lecture queen has nothing to say seeing her husband in tears and fully drenched😭

While raman didn't shoo away her this time from helping him.

Though he's asking her continuously to leave him alone, if she really leaves him alone, not bothering him with her presence and talks very often, he would have felt the difference.

Every time he shoos her away he does like I know what you are up to, now leave me alone.

If Ishita behaves slightly different from what he expects from her, he would have felt the difference. He would have felt even more terrible. He would have felt even more terrible if Ishita doesn't bother him very often.

It's a promising track. Real love comes forth only when you're in difficulties. The oh so love in couples split in just mere days if any difficulties pop in their lives.

Ishra have always proved their love for each other, but as a viewer, it would be a altogether different experience to witness my favourite couple overcoming their fate with love.

Especially raman, he always loved Ishita for her inner beauty. That glow in his eyes when she does something for him or his children, always meant that he's falling for her. With this track, Raman can't help but fall in love with his biwi once again. It would be a beautiful ishralicious track, if executed properly😳

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BombayTroll

@BombayTroll

Achiever

+ 5

Posted: 7 years ago

#69

I just saw

Sonali Jaffar had replied to a fan 3 4 days back

That yhm is not going offair in October

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MG_Inactive

@MG_Inactive

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#70

My two cents on the episode..

I can't believe that this is the same YHM that we have been seeing since the past 2 years👏 who are these new writers, I want someone to convey our heartfelt thanks to them. The same characrers, the same actors but look at the scenes now!!! I am just shocked.

Raman is being given so much importance, the emotions of both IshRa are being dealt with so beautifully and last but not the least the track has been so practical till now.

The first scene where Ishita tries to convince Raman to deal with his disability and fight back was so good in many ways. One of the best parts was when Biwi asked Raman to hug her back with so much affection and authority.It was so beautiful. Loved KP when he added the sarcastic nod on hearing Ishita say that her husband is a fighter. Such subtle nuances these two bring to any scene. Also the scene where Raman is brushing his teeth and Ishita is standing by the door peeking at him, the way Raman says Ishita I beg of you plz go. That was so painful... wonderful voice modulation by KP. DT complemented him well too. The shower scene was amazing too...Puttar didn't want anyone to see his tears so chose that place to vent it all out. Then when he comes out of the shower and Ishita understood whatever that might have taken place in side, by just seeing him in that state...that was so poignant. Both DivAn were topnotch in that scene. The way Biwi wiped away his tears with the towel, not wanting him to know that she knows he must have been crying inside was painful too. KP was terrific in potraying the posture of a dejected man. Beautiful writing and acting by the leads.

Can't wait for Monday's episode where I believe Puttar will do something that might boost him confidence a bit, let's see.