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Posted: 8 years ago
#61

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When Ruhi was shhouting n insulting Raman n Romi during chuhail track even then Ishita didn't reprimind her off n today again Ruhi Adi blamed Raman n talked rubbish but no one is there to stop them .

Agar kisi bache ne Ishita se aise baat ki hoti to by god poori family asmaan sar pe utha leti.
Just few days back Pihu talked to Ishita in a harsh manner then immediately Raman explained her how much Ishimaa is hurted with her behavior n asked her to say sorry n Pihu said sorry .Ishita was feeling bad with the way Pihu talked to her so now everyone is treating Raman like a thrash so can't Ishita realize for once how much unworthy they have made Raman n how worthless he is feeling and children interfering in adults matters is rubbish 🤢
Its all due to Ruhi whatever is happening yet this girl is 'lecturing n blaming' Raman wow 👏


Ruhi was taunting Raman for days in chuhail track - but Ishita ddint once correct her or reprimand her...
Yes Raman immediately asked pihu to apologize and not talk to her mother in that tone..

Adi has used this tone with raman too many times now - in the acid attack track ..then when he was going crazy for Aliya and Raman didnt approve cos of mani...and because of how immature both lovebirds behaved...Adi actually got drunk and insulted Raman and Ishita in front of the whole family - yet ishita didnt talk to him when he was sober and ask him to apologize...

Its funny adi was calling Raman irresponsible after all his crazy actions- drinking , brawling etc in the Aliya track for which Ishra had to pay the price and lost Pihu to Shagmani🤢..Then Raman had tried to talk to him to stop drinking and Adi back answered , yet Raman stood by him like a rock when he was accused of something he didnt do.

As a parent - these are the basics of parenting na? Teach them to respect elders and your parents? What kind of moral is SP promoting🥱
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Krishy are you still expecting the adults to.show respect to this man and the children learning by example of being 'shown ' the right path ...the man will grovel even more as this track reaches culmination and due to some sick twist everyone might start trusting him.again because he saved ishimas or pihus life - or ishimaa trusts paapa again so he must have done something good .period🤢

This track is apparently for ramans realization that he has himself 'lost' the trust of his family and must work hard to gain it back - be it his wife or kids all are justified apparentlt in thinking low of him and having no trust since its his own doing ...thats what this whole track is all about...all his past actions of standing with his kids..all his sacrifices and tears for them.were nullified because this is a Raman has crossed his limits lets all change him track🥱

so we are clearly miles away from.cvs and the channels soch if we think the children will realize anything or the adults will show them the way...



And this mission was successful - see Raman is controlling his anger so all the repeated emotional turmoil because first leap, Aussie track, Ruhi-Suhail track wasn't enough emotional torture without resolution for Raman that the only way left to change him was this

Forget starting the process to change with say...a conversation...or take fair legal action and allowing the kids to choose to make a stance. Sadly these CVs feel emotional torture, when applied to a man...is a just way to cause change.

Talliyan for these genuius, progressive, inclusive, and empathetic soch...may all we women implement these tactics in real life from this track and so many of past...we have so many great tools in our arsenal now 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: bscorp13


Ruhi was taunting Raman for days in chuhail track - but Ishita ddint once correct her or reprimand her...
Yes Raman immediately asked pihu to apologize and not talk to her mother in that tone..

Adi has used this tone with raman too many times now - in the acid attack track ..then when he was going crazy for Aliya and Raman didnt approve cos of mani...and because of how immature both lovebirds behaved...Adi actually got drunk and insulted Raman and Ishita in front of the whole family - yet ishita didnt talk to him when he was sober and ask him to apologize...

Its funny adi was calling Raman irresponsible after all his crazy actions- drinking , brawling etc in the Aliya track for which Ishra had to pay the price and lost Pihu to Shagmani🤢..Then Raman had tried to talk to him to stop drinking and Adi back answered , yet Raman stood by him like a rock when he was accused of something he didnt do.

As a parent - these are the basics of parenting na? Teach them to respect elders and your parents? What kind of moral is SP promoting🥱


Yup Pb Adi was behaving so immature n was going crazy due to Aliya n misbehaved with his parents yet Raman stood with him like a rock
It was due to him n his behavior Ishra lost Pihu to Shagmani
SP is promoting only feminism ..Only a mother has feelings while fathers don't have feelings n don't have a basic right to express how much hurt they are with 'family' behaviour 🥱
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Posted: 8 years ago
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adiru no words

both doesn't deserve father like raman

one way or another way ishra are also responsible for kids behavior

if wife doesn't respect her husband how would kids respect him ?

if she doesn't trust him how would kids trust him ?

i am happy that she is started trusting raman as per precap

then means what extent is question ?

i am not sure ishu will trust raman when he said about mani ? with out proof she doesn't trust raman too
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: maduragymhasium

adiru no words

both doesn't deserve father like raman

one way or another way ishra are also responsible for kids behavior

if wife doesn't respect her husband how would kids respect him ?

if she doesn't trust him how would kids trust him ?

i am happy that she is started trusting raman as per precap

then means what extent is question ?

i am not sure ishu will trust raman when he said about mani ? with out proof she doesn't trust raman too

nope

she wont trust raman on something related to mani
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-



And this mission was successful - see Raman is controlling his anger so all the repeated emotional turmoil because first leap, Aussie track, Ruhi-Suhail track wasn't enough emotional torture without resolution for Raman that the only way left to change him was this

Forget starting the process to change with say...a conversation...or take fair legal action and allowing the kids to choose to make a stance. Sadly these CVs feel emotional torture, when applied to a man...is a just way to cause change.

Talliyan for these genuius, progressive, inclusive, and empathetic soch...may all we women implement these tactics in real life from this track and so many of past...we have so many great tools in our arsenal now 👏


Yes it will be funny though at the end of this cleanse Raman of all his dirt track...
Raman might become a silent, calm , 'practical ' , selfless person who will take every insult in his stride without questioning ...like he did today...mission accomplished😆

and Ishita actually looks more and more like Raman - impulsive,emotional, quick to jump to conclusions, liberal with disgusting labels for the spouse etc..

And the kids- adi and ruhi- look like unidimensional caricatures - very self centred - obsessed with their own lives while their parents are in a mess and living apart because of them (in a way), only appearing to taunt one parent blindly because of their own reasons and with basically no love or trust or respect for their father ...else busy romancing the fiance or trying to outdo the other at work...
Even in the australia track - the children missed their father - at least Ruhi did - here it seems like they dont need him if ishita doesnt want him around ...its hilarious to see such a dysfunctional realtionship of the kids with Raman lately. He seems to cry for them and give and give - they seem to remember him only to taunt when he doesnt agree to them or insult him for his actions when he hurts ishita...
Do cvs even read what they have turned thier next generation into😲

Wonder if it all paid off for the channel promoting nayee soch and parents being contributors to childrens success - especially fathers being their daughters hero - and success never looks at gender type high moral stuff😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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So ruhi-raman car scene is for sp new nayisoch campaign
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: bscorp13

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Yes it will be funny though at the end of this cleanse Raman of all his dirt track...
Raman might become a silent, calm , 'practical ' , selfless person who will take every insult in his stride without questioning ...like he did today...mission accomplished😆

and Ishita actually looks more and more like Raman - impulsive,emotional, quick to jump to conclusions, liberal with disgusting labels for the spouse etc..

And the kids- adi and ruhi- look like unidimensional caricatures - very self centred - obsessed with their own lives while their parents are in a mess and living apart because of them (in a way), only appearing to taunt one parent blindly because of their own reasons and with basically no love or trust or respect for their father ...else busy romancing the fiance or trying to outdo the other at work...
Even in the australia track - the children missed their father - at least Ruhi did - here it seems like they dont need him if ishita doesnt want him around ...its hilarious to see such a dysfunctional realtionship of the kids with Raman lately. He seems to cry for them and give and give - they seem to remember him only to taunt when he doesnt agree to them or insult him for his actions when he hurts ishita...
Do cvs even read what they have turned thier next generation into😲

Wonder if it all paid off for the channel promoting nayee soch and parents being contributors to childrens success - especially fathers being their daughters hero - and success never looks at gender type high moral stuff😆



I had the same view that they are trying to show Ishita as Raman and Raman as Ishita but are failing because on screen Raman is still wrong. And a key difference than say post leap one is Ishita is given a Perspective and voice to her actions but Raman never had that. Similarly, Ishita solves 95% of the issues but as of yet I don't know if Raman with Ishita's traits will be given that.

Also if they did actively change FL and ML traits and call this a self respect track - thorn they are advocating what...your attitude and impulsiveness and anger are okay so long as the intention is "pure"?

Idk all of this is highly flawed from a storytelling and maturity POV

So even if the characteristics swapped - the story telling method and treatment of the characters has not been altered
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-



I had the same view that they are trying to show Ishita as Raman and Raman as Ishita but are failing because on screen Raman is still wrong. And a key difference than say post leap one is Ishita is given a Perspective and voice to her actions but Raman never had that. Similarly, Ishita solves 95% of the issues but as of yet I don't know if Raman with Ishita's traits will be given that.

Also if they did actively change FL and ML traits and call this a self respect track - thorn they are advocating what...your attitude and impulsiveness and anger are okay so long as the intention is "pure"?

Idk all of this is highly flawed from a storytelling and maturity POV

So even if the characteristics swapped - the story telling method and treatment of the characters has not been altered


No Krishy - they claim to be saying that as a man if you exhibit these traits - a woman and a wife is right to stand up for her rights and use every torture tool to 'change' you - and that deserves an entire track 🥱 after an year almost of the man groveling track after track to win back the love and trust of his spouse inclusing one whole year of a nasty seperation from the family and kids when the whole family hated him for a crime he didnt do...🤢

But If a woman starts exhibiting the same traits - as on yesterday i saw all the same galtis Ishita was blaming on Raman , she did the same ones with zero guilt or introspection - its just the impusive reaction of a mother and a woman who has 'lost' trust in her husband and can be ignored and thought of as a one off occurrence.Cvs are super quick to do a u turn and will hurriedly bury it under the 'but now ishita has miraculously started trusting Raman ' blanket...

I am sorry but I had to quote this - so for SP success doesnt look at gender - but potrayal of emotions apparently does🤢👏😆

I was just pointing out how the characters actually look in this track finally after one month of the improvement game - as against what cvs and the channel set out to show😆
Edited by bscorp13 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-


Wow reading @bold is so heart-breaking

But then can you blame the kids - if the adults have such little value and respect for Raman, why would they do otherwise? We do as we see, na?


Yes, I get what you say Krishy. This reaction of Adi & Ruhi does not look impulsive at all and seems to be the actual impression that has formed in their hearts and it is true that Ishita, the entire family all have a role to play in this, not to forget the impulsive reactions of Raman himself in front of the kids as well. Adi's dialogue today "Ishima is right in her thinking that you are not a responsible father for us", sums up everything krishy. At that moment, a thought came to me that it is all the effect of Ishita's unfair open blame on Raman being an irresponsible father, something which he is not. This is the precise reason I was disappointed with Ishita, for bringing in this irresponsible and unsafe angle for kids, in front of the kids themselves, in this whole stand of self-respect😔. If Raman did not know how to behave in front of kids, neither does Ishita know. But we know the respect and trust these kids have for Ishita in any circumstances and we time and again get to see the respect & trust they have on Raman every single time🥱. Tell me one instance Ruhi or Adi stood as rock solid support to Raman and believed in him of late🥱. Nope...

Ruhi blamed him as irresponsible, careless, while Adi reconfirmed that Ishima was right the other day and he was lecturing Raman on how important Pihu is to all of them. Irony ain't it?😆. Like Poo said, we saw the extent of "importance of Pihu" to Adi and Ruhi during their luuubbb storry track🤪😳😆.
Leave it re, no use even expecting respect, trust and love for a father, from any show in this channel, specifically YHM, specifically for Raman🥱. I have resigned to this fact these days. I have no expectations from Adi and Ruhi as children to Raman. So I only felt for Raman as a father. That is it. 🤔

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