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Here is the reply i got from Starplus regarding the feedback..
Thank you Sneha, Maya, Viji and Sumi for encouraging me to post this to Starplus. Though I wasn't expecting a reply from them i posted it and surprisingly they replied back... And guess what with an invitation to visit the sets😉
I truly appreciate their enthusiasm to reach out to the viewers and hopefully they tighten their script and give us meaningful tracks from now on.
Here it goes..
Dear Raji,
Thank you for taking the time off and sharing this feedback.
The details in your mail indicate that you follow our show very closely; we really appreciate it.
Now as you would agree, Raman as a character is very impulsive; he gets hyper soon and at times speaks/reacts in a very irrational manner- these flaws are a part of his character. His anger is something that he cannot control, rather no one can but Ishita, who understands him and always takes care of him. Ishita loves Raman for who he is. She is the balancer in this relationship.
Having said that, Ishita also puts across her points very strongly when she sees that Raman is crossing the limits, and Raman listens to her. More than that, Ishita has always proven her point by actions more than just words. Every time she has been blamed, she has bounced back like a tigress and taken things head on. This is what makes Ishita's character so strong. The reason why Ishita has to go through all this is the journey that Ishita as a character undertakes to cross all hurdles and reach her goal. We agree to the point that Raman has been very harsh on Ishita and as a solve to your concern(s), we would request you to keep watching the show as in the coming weeks. You will see a very interesting and fresh dynamic between Raman-Ishita's relationship where you will see what Ishita does when Raman blames her now.
In fact, as a token of our appreciation for your feedback, we would love for you to come and visit the set of Yeh Hai Mohabbatein to watch the filming of this show and meet the actors. Please write to us if/when you are going to be in Mumbai and would like to attend a shoot, we will coordinate and arrange for the same.
In the meantime, Keep watching us and sharing your feedback.
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i can happily state that there are people like me out there who didn't care
for the bathroom romance or the romantic dance that were an ill fit in the
current track.
What i would've loved to see some growth in Raman's character after the
brutal first and convenient second leap yet the writers disappointed me big
time.
As per me both Raman and Ishita failed as a couple and as parents. Their
hiding facts from each other and disregarding each other's opinions just
speak volumes how not to do things in a relationship.
Whatever happened in first leap the words Raman uttered against Ishita are
very hurtful and filled with so much hate. When both parents make a
decision how can one blame the turn of unfortunate events on one partner
and throw her out of his and his kid's life? And after 7 years there is no
remorse for his actions. Why? So Ishita by not able to give birth deserves
this despicable treatment from her husband and family who turned their back
at her when she needed them most. All i saw saw here is cowardice behavior
from ML. And their reconciliation is nothing but another "conditional"
reunion like their marriage. So just like their marriage first time the
conditions still exist.
So what does this mean to me at this point? The love Raman shows on Ishita
is conditional and when they are not met she will be "fired" from her
position as a mother and wife.how can I call this love?
The coming together is one condition for Ruhi ke liye then stay away from
each other for pihu ke liye.. who dictated the terms and initiated becomes
irrelevant here. All I'm seeing is more and more conditions being executed.
What about their second marriage? It's also conditional? Isn't it? For Adi
ke liye.
But in all these Raman as a person still holds the fact as he sees that
Ishita is responsible for all the miseries happening in his life.. so let's
also look at them..
. Him rejecting Nidhi .. where is Ishita in this one?
Him marrying Shagun- where is Ishita here
Shagun cheating and walking out on him and Ruhi- where is Ishita here?
Even Sohail - how is he connected to Ishita?
But the punishment for Raman Bhallas mis deeds were paid by Ishita dearly..
Suffered with Shagun to no end and shagun is still there.. lost her
pregnancy due to Ashok who was eternally in enmity with Raman and got a
death penalty for self defence at the hands of Nidhi by her
misrepresentation..so the list goes on and on..
Yet until now Raman from his side not once realized the pain he inflicted
on Ishita.. life was same in their paradise..
And after second leap i expected a more toned down and mature behavior from
both Raman and Ishita and they both disappointed me.
Marriage doesn't mean just romancing but respecting each other and protect
the sacred bond called marriage, share everything and most of all in crises
stand by each other. Yet in time times of crises Raman choose to abuse
Ishita with the most crass dialogs i ever heard and throw her out of his
and his kid's life denying her rights as a wife and mother.
Right at this point I would like to see Ishita walking out of his life..
this is not how a woman should be treated and her value and worth doesn't
increase or decrease with her ability to give birth. But unfortunately the
CVS made it not a story of "Child giving birth to a mother" any more but a
contrast by putting Shagun on the pedestal with the message that you can
cheat, and commit crimes, abandon your kids but your ability to give birth
to kids make you worthy of everyone's respect.
In this crisis with Ruhi yes Ishita did a blunder and mistakes do happen
and I don't completely support her for the decision she made. But in the
crisis instead of standing by her Raman again made it all about him and his
kid's and throw Ishita out again.
The only time he gave respect and stood by her was in the license track.
Though he didn't love her at that point he understood what her profession
means to her and respected her stood by her. That's the Raman i am
expecting to see. But it turned out another big disappointment for me.
Live and let live!!!
Peace to all...
Thank you for taking the time off and sharing this feedback.
The details in your mail indicate that you follow our show very closely; we really appreciate it.
Now as you would agree, Raman as a character is very impulsive; he gets hyper soon and at times speaks/reacts in a very irrational manner- these flaws are a part of his character. His anger is something that he cannot control, rather no one can but Ishita, who understands him and always takes care of him. Ishita loves Raman for who he is. She is the balancer in this relationship.
Having said that, Ishita also puts across her points very strongly when she sees that Raman is crossing the limits, and Raman listens to her. More than that, Ishita has always proven her point by actions more than just words. Every time she has been blamed, she has bounced back like a tigress and taken things head on. This is what makes Ishita's character so strong. The reason why Ishita has to go through all this is the journey that Ishita as a character undertakes to cross all hurdles and reach her goal. We agree to the point that Raman has been very harsh on Ishita and as a solve to your concern(s), we would request you to keep watching the show as in the coming weeks. You will see a very interesting and fresh dynamic between Raman-Ishita's relationship where you will see what Ishita does when Raman blames her now.
In fact, as a token of our appreciation for your feedback, we would love for you to come and visit the set of Yeh Hai Mohabbatein to watch the filming of this show and meet the actors. Please write to us if/when you are going to be in Mumbai and would like to attend a shoot, we will coordinate and arrange for the same.
In the meantime, Keep watching us and sharing your feedback.
Warm Regards,
Rishi Dwivedi
Consumer Response Cell.
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From: raji
To: hello@startv.com
Subject: YHM and it's current status.. viewer feedback
i can happily state that there are people like me out there who didn't care
for the bathroom romance or the romantic dance that were an ill fit in the
current track.
What i would've loved to see some growth in Raman's character after the
brutal first and convenient second leap yet the writers disappointed me big
time.
As per me both Raman and Ishita failed as a couple and as parents. Their
hiding facts from each other and disregarding each other's opinions just
speak volumes how not to do things in a relationship.
Whatever happened in first leap the words Raman uttered against Ishita are
very hurtful and filled with so much hate. When both parents make a
decision how can one blame the turn of unfortunate events on one partner
and throw her out of his and his kid's life? And after 7 years there is no
remorse for his actions. Why? So Ishita by not able to give birth deserves
this despicable treatment from her husband and family who turned their back
at her when she needed them most. All i saw saw here is cowardice behavior
from ML. And their reconciliation is nothing but another "conditional"
reunion like their marriage. So just like their marriage first time the
conditions still exist.
So what does this mean to me at this point? The love Raman shows on Ishita
is conditional and when they are not met she will be "fired" from her
position as a mother and wife.how can I call this love?
The coming together is one condition for Ruhi ke liye then stay away from
each other for pihu ke liye.. who dictated the terms and initiated becomes
irrelevant here. All I'm seeing is more and more conditions being executed.
What about their second marriage? It's also conditional? Isn't it? For Adi
ke liye.
But in all these Raman as a person still holds the fact as he sees that
Ishita is responsible for all the miseries happening in his life.. so let's
also look at them..
. Him rejecting Nidhi .. where is Ishita in this one?
Him marrying Shagun- where is Ishita here
Shagun cheating and walking out on him and Ruhi- where is Ishita here?
Even Sohail - how is he connected to Ishita?
But the punishment for Raman Bhallas mis deeds were paid by Ishita dearly..
Suffered with Shagun to no end and shagun is still there.. lost her
pregnancy due to Ashok who was eternally in enmity with Raman and got a
death penalty for self defence at the hands of Nidhi by her
misrepresentation..so the list goes on and on..
Yet until now Raman from his side not once realized the pain he inflicted
on Ishita.. life was same in their paradise..
And after second leap i expected a more toned down and mature behavior from
both Raman and Ishita and they both disappointed me.
Marriage doesn't mean just romancing but respecting each other and protect
the sacred bond called marriage, share everything and most of all in crises
stand by each other. Yet in time times of crises Raman choose to abuse
Ishita with the most crass dialogs i ever heard and throw her out of his
and his kid's life denying her rights as a wife and mother.
Right at this point I would like to see Ishita walking out of his life..
this is not how a woman should be treated and her value and worth doesn't
increase or decrease with her ability to give birth. But unfortunately the
CVS made it not a story of "Child giving birth to a mother" any more but a
contrast by putting Shagun on the pedestal with the message that you can
cheat, and commit crimes, abandon your kids but your ability to give birth
to kids make you worthy of everyone's respect.
In this crisis with Ruhi yes Ishita did a blunder and mistakes do happen
and I don't completely support her for the decision she made. But in the
crisis instead of standing by her Raman again made it all about him and his
kid's and throw Ishita out again.
The only time he gave respect and stood by her was in the license track.
Though he didn't love her at that point he understood what her profession
means to her and respected her stood by her. That's the Raman i am
expecting to see. But it turned out another big disappointment for me.
Live and let live!!!
Peace to all...
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