TOI new synopsis

Thanks for sharing

Seems wanting to make amends will come before fight.

I can't tell how I feel - parents who do this much for their kids don't deserve such treatment, but kids also deserve some respect and privacy...most importantly though need to communicate bc respect and trust is a two way street

I don't find the intentions wrong of any of them but everyone's actions - parents & kids appear crappy from the segments & these spoilers. 🤔

Tfs.

Originally posted by: -K.13-

Thanks for sharing

Seems wanting to make amends will come before fight.

I can't tell how I feel - parents who do this much for their kids don't deserve such treatment, but kids also deserve some respect and privacy...most importantly though need to communicate bc respect and trust is a two way street

I don't find the intentions wrong of any of them but everyone's actions - parents & kids appear crappy from the segments & these spoilers. 🤔

New epi synopsis added on TOI

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

@bold - That is exactly my concern Krishy. There is nothing wrong in showing an infatuation, but what they show in the name of infatuation is only crap.. I don't see the parents patiently talking about this and making the girl understand a point. From the segments so far, Raman doesn't initiate a patient talk with Ruhi and Ishita just checked if she has an attraction towards Sohail. She looks to be relaxed about the whole thing😕and that looks weird. Because in my opinion, a mother can't be relaxed, however cool and modern she is. She would definitely be more anxious, cautious and would immediately not buy in whatever the girl says. Hope we will have more clarity about Ishita's thoughts in the episodes. 🤔[/DIV]

As much as Raman's phone snooping act was wrong, Ruhi was also wrong. Ruhi has started to lie. She gave a big lecture to Raman about trusting her and she having photos of everyone in the phone, but the fact is she has an attraction towards that guy, she is lying to her parents, hiding her meetings with him, and have started taunting, shouting like a psycho, calling out her father & uncle, which is absolutely wrong.

The same happened with beating sohail up. Raman and Romi should not have beaten him to death. But what would a father do when he sees a guy, breaking open the window of his daughter? Obviously, he would beat him up. He definitely cannot be patient with him. That would be the instant obvious reaction of any father. But what we get is a OTT drama with that candle vase and beating him to death. Again , Ruhi for once did not bother about the family reputation and the feelings of her father. She asks him does he even know why he came😕🥱. Whatever may be the case, no friend would get in through a window to check if she is fine😳. If he was a true friend, he would have come through the front doors and not back doors. You know what the reason Ruhi would give :- Papa would be angry, Suhail was concerned for me, so he came through the pipe, blah blah blah.🥱🥱

Ruhi was behaving hyper in the segments, much like Alia's behavior during Mihir's accident .🥱. Again, not one from the elders bothered to calm down Ruhi and make her see this point. Raman was also wrong in trying to come and beat a grown up girl..He needs to control his temper. This is where I feel, though it was good to see a father's instinct coming true for the first time, these OTT drama, seems to nullify everything.🤔

@red - Even I feel the same. While Raman decides to make amends, this chuha would enter through the windows and spoil things.😡. How I wish making amends were thought from both Raman and the kids. After all, both Adi and Ruhi are also equally wrong. But then when it comes to a father / Raman, it is a sin to have such expectations.🥱

From what I've come to understand since April is the CVs win in projecting men/fathers are inconsequential and useless...all they do is wrong and need to be guided by their wives or condemned by their elders & kids.

And this is what 90% of the viewers seem happy with in terms of the portrayal of men

Only a few of us seem to have the POV that without understanding the complexities of men and celebrating those men who nurture their kids, elevate their woves, and are in tune to their emotions can women be most elevated bc then only are celebrating equality where BOTH men and women regardless of gender are elevated and shown as full equals in their value to a family, treatment of others, and characteristics. In reality to bring equality to women, good men must exist and have role models...but SP doesn't care - their brand of "mutant feminism" is a perfect women with the only flaw of compromising her self respect for "the greater good" (which is huge and SO wrong like so so wrong) and useless men who make matters worse, can't foster relationships or care for kids, & can't do anything right. Nayeee soch, my foot 😆

Silly to think there would be introspection by the makers/viewers/govt of a place where horrible gender inequality & mistreatment exists due to deeply intrenched gender stereotypes about showing proactive, flawed, and useful men CO-leading a home with the wife who is equally proactive, flawed, and useful. 🤔