Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 5

Well what's wrong if Ishita is having an affair? Anyways they have portrayed Raman as unworthy f her y shyd she put up with him all her life.

I don't watch d show so no idea f what's d context just want to know y such harsh reactions on Ishita having an affair 😛

Originally posted by: --Megha--

Well what's wrong if Ishita is having an affair? Anyways they have portrayed Raman as unworthy f her y shyd she put up with him all her life.

I don't watch d show so no idea f what's d context just want to know y such harsh reactions on Ishita having an affair 😛

the kids doubting their mom does leave a bad taste
but u can't blame she is acting suspicious and they are scared to lose her
but ishra should have included them in the plan since its becoming traumatic for them

Originally posted by: shravsss

Because it doesn't go with the character Ishita... we were introduced with, we aren't against it because we are old school or narrow minded.

I m not blaming ppl here being narrow minded or old school. N besides with certain circumstances in life ppl change n their priorities too change.
TBH it's very difficult to put up with a person like Raman (d way they have portrayed him post 7.30pm slot change). So I (who really don't watch this show but follow updates) find nothing wrong if Ishita character finds happiness skmewhere else. N that's my only point.

Originally posted by: --Megha--

Well what's wrong if Ishita is having an affair? Anyways they have portrayed Raman as unworthy f her y shyd she put up with him all her life.

I don't watch d show so no idea f what's d context just want to know y such harsh reactions on Ishita having an affair 😛

Originally posted by: --Megha--

I m not blaming ppl here being narrow minded or old school. N besides with certain circumstances in life ppl change n their priorities too change.
TBH it's very difficult to put up with a person like Raman (d way they have portrayed him post 7.30pm slot change). So I (who really don't watch this show but follow updates) find nothing wrong if Ishita character finds happiness skmewhere else. N that's my only point.

Originally posted by: --Megha--

Well what's wrong if Ishita is having an affair? Anyways they have portrayed Raman as unworthy f her y shyd she put up with him all her life.

I don't watch d show so no idea f what's d context just want to know y such harsh reactions on Ishita having an affair 😛

Here's my issue...
(1) She is married. If your marriage doesn't work serve divorce papers and move on.
(2) It's hinted to be a plan if you follow off screen segments or pictures, so from a viewer/story POV, why show hints of an extramarital affair?
(3) Why bother getting remarried bc he's been the same way post leap leading up to and after the remarriage just as she has been?

And finally what has me in a quandary, there is such difference in reactions to Raman having someone else versus Ishita having someone else...in my mind as crass and disrespectful as Raman is, Ishita is equally secretive and never shares with her partner (pre and post leap)...so neither are shown as easy to live with. Yet reactions are entirely different - I've seen ppl want Raman for Ishita and Ishita can move on...how does that make sense?

Plus this show is still to some degree about Ishita and Raman - so for those of who watch for them, it's stupid to try to throw in realism when they didn't have any in Bhoot track/Surrogacy/Shanaya track/Leap...when they actively and so purposely show one lead as more crass than the other to elicit a reaction - why fall prey? Indian TV will never change from a perfect FL dynamic nor will they try to give true depth to the ML so I watch for what little joy I can find in YHM and that joy is IshRa not Ishita with XYZ or Raman with Shagun/Nidhi 🤢

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

I don't see it as doubting their parents Krishy. It is the insecurity of losing their parents to someone else at this juncture. In case of Nidhi, they were against Raman because they felt that he was not truthful to their mother, even when she was assumed dead and they were not able to accept anyone else in their mother's place.

Now even after they are matured, they are scared of losing her from their life. Their father has left them an year back, for the sake of their sister and has not turned back since then. Now their mother is their only support system and lifeline. So it is a mix of emotions :- unable to accept anyone other than their father, not ready to lose their mother,from their lives and at the same time, prioritizing her happiness over their thoughts on this whole issue. More than doubting, it is a feeling of anxiety, fear, sadness & yet wanting to see her happy - it is a mixture of all these emotions. I don't know if I made sense, but that is what I feel.😊

I get that Priya...I was honestly just joking bc I don't find this stuff being aired right now tasteful or interesting. I have many qualms with how kids are portrayed and treated in this show but I'm tried of being constantly serious especially about YHM itself and am just waiting for Australia 😃

Originally posted by: snehaseshan

Krishy there is a slight difference between both d situations there Raman himself told he wants to move on but kids where not only interested & there kids didn't suspect & do jasoosi but here mom is lying & d kids r suspecting their mom,spying her which is looking unpleasant..

Just my POV no offence meant

I get that & was quite honestly writing that in jest bc I find nothing good in today's episode.

in both instances stupid plans put the minds mental health at stake. Both times were utterly unpleasant to me, one with a divorce and here with suspecting their mom. Both times they were crap parents and these are the results - for Raman Ruhi divorced him and for Ishita they suspect her...what else can they expect from their kids if they don't involve them or continue with such plans?

Well, first leap - Ishita was supposedly dead and Bhallas were thinking of marrying Raman again because how wound up he was. Adi took it badly too and knew his dad only loved Ishita and won't marry. I wonder, if that Adi would have agreed for Raman's remarriage. Might I add, it would have been totally cool because 7 years and Ishita is dead thing. If Ruhi thing hasn't happened, Ishita won't have returned and who knows where they would have been.