Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r
@bold - I did not watch her expressions precisely Pb. Today, I feel a bit drowsy as well, because of the pain killers, I have been given for my tooth ache.😭🤔. So may be I missed out on it.
Anyways, those abusive words by him are against the very crux of the show & unless Raman feels guilty & apologizes to her, I will not be convinced that the confrontation has happened. Even if Ishita did not ask him about this, the RKB I know, who never shies away from accepting his smallest mistakes, should accept this blunder of his & feel guilty about it. So has to be Ishita for trying to kill herself & deciding to stay away not thinking atleast about the kids & her parents. So until the makers give me one such conversation between these two or the show ends, I will cling on to this one & only expectation left in the show. 😃
Baanj word from someone who is your world destroyed Ishita..she did not care for the baanj tag ever since Ruhi called her Ishima. This was Raman's fixation of giving Ishita her ansh and it did not pan out the way he wanted..His BC blunder sealed her as a baanj forever and her friend Mani played only a small part. In fact Shagun didnt even count on his support for the custody case. Raman keeps saying it was her one child who will remove the tag etc, but Adi and Ruhi had removed the tag in Ishita's mind long time back except in Raman's mind. He says they are your kids and all that but I think subconciously he considers Pihu as truly Ishita's kid..this soch brought about the surrogacy kaand. Old RKB would own up to his mistakes and rectify and fell in love with the flawed moral character, but this RKB has a very convenient amnesia and always ready to blame others than accepting his mistakes. As a father feel bad, but surprised that Pihu is not shown missing her papa and family or is that she feels entiltled like Shagun does that they should love her no matter what. She seems self absorbed and materialistic like Adi was before the change.
Raman is assuming that Ishita left him and Ishita also is not sharing anything with him..but shouldn't he ask atleast once as to what happened to her and why she left..he is thinking it was because of the guilt of losing Ruhi...how can he assume that she faked her suicide, she was never a coward before.. Maybe Ishita is not sharing because she is ashamed of the fact she gave up and realized her mistakes and wants to forget about the act and not add to Raman's guilt. He cannot be blamed for her suicide, but it was his words that put her at the cliff's edge, and no one from both the families was there to care for her..they all went behind Raman, did they think his pain is more because he is the biological parent..or did they think Raman being the volatile emotional person, they need to care for him..but did they even imagine the magnitude of Ishita's loss that night...Just the realization/talk of his/her blunders would go a long way in making this show watchable again. If he thinks Pihu is the ansh, he had no right in keeping Pihu away from the Iyers if she was the nishaani of Ishita..It keeps repeating, his pain, feeling, hurt take precedence over what is the right thing to do..Without Ishita he seems to loose his way..RKB was better off without Shagun and Ishita in his life...he was suave, sophisticated, smart, brainy...gave back to Shagun but didn't know how to express love to anyone. If he has love all the other qualities seem to disappear..loans it to Shagun
Hope Pihu somehow turns out to be Ashok/Shagun's kid but calls Raman papa. This would be a nice slap for Ashok when he made Adi call him dad...Shagun looked good with Ashok.