8.7.2016 ep - Page 6

Originally posted by: Mreddy

Love this thread. @Maya,@Shivangi and @Aman and @swatica, like your reviews a lot. Raman does not have any dialogs, all of us try to interpret his expressions, and lucky for us, KP lives Raman Bhalla character and brings all these subtle nuances to his character. It is a credit to his acting, that even after the crass dialogs, we are all rooting for his redemption and realization of his mistakes and start clearing up the mess along with Ishita. Ishita has realized her mistakes and she is atoning for the same in bringing the family together and Ruhi back to where she belongs. Other than that she is not expecting anything, it is for Raman and Ruhi to claim her back, as she knows she has wronged Raman by leaving (it is the aftermath but still staying away for that many years..leaving a new born, but we know that Pihu has to be the same age as real Ruhanika).

In spite of it being both their decision to do the exchange, Ishita will feel more guilty as she was the last person to have Ruhi with her on the cliff and failed to bring her back in spite of her best efforts and indirectly responsible for the torture and lost childhood of Ruhi. She came into the Bhallas for Ruhi's happiness and being the gentle, empathetic beautiful soul that Ishita is, it is devastating that she brought so much pain to the little child and the family. It would have been a beautiful track if Cvs focused on child abuse and after effects instead of the crass dialogs to a 14 yr old. This is hard to digest, because however angry you are on your mother, disrespect and insulting is a totally different ball game. Kids insulting and elders staying mute has always been like this with Bhallas. Adi's case, Ruhi's case and now Pihu. They bend over backwards for the kids and the kids take advantag of this. This brings in TRPs🤢 because the FL lead cries. ML is shown as helpless. Ishita is finding some little bit of light in this dark situation, to boost her morale..not throw in the towel and just leave..she cannot afford to let Ruhi go to Nidhi at any cost. But what values..so in anger kids can insult elders and talk disrespectfully..Pihu asking a guest to go away in front of everyone is ok..the sisters love each other so much..Ruhi's "IS AURAT" took all my sympathy from Ruhi's suffering..She has seen Raman utter lot of nonsense at Ishita and now she is doing the same..but kids crossing a generation and saying such stuff is so not done and why the dig at Mihir just because Ishita is supporting him...

Shagun is not worth mentioning. SHe does not have confidence on her love because she knows it is selfish. Raman tends to overlook or disregard one kid over the other..he was confident of Ruhi, so he overlooked her feelings sometimes when he was obsessed with Adi. Now he is confident of Adi, so he disregards his feeling..and pushes/slaps him around and now he is focused on Ruhi. Once Adi and Ruhi are all sorted out it will be Pihu/Shagun drama. Emotional blackmail, Ishita trying to go away..etc. Ruhi does not want Ishima to go away from the Bhallas, because she knows without her the house will be broken, no happiness..so why come to the Bhallas. In nafrat also she wants to be with Ishima, cannot stay away from her..she wants Ishima to know how much she has suffered..and wants all the pampering she can get. But without Ishima in the house, she is not going to get it because Shagun does not have in her to heal Ruhi. Without Ishita, Raman will not know how to heal Ruhi also. Both need her..Ishita needs the unconditional acceptance from Raman to heal..

Ranted too much, not sure I made sense. @sunitas & @Raji - love your comments on the episode. @Viji - miss your reviews also.

Originally posted by: Mreddy

Love this thread. @Maya,@Shivangi and @Aman and @swatica, like your reviews a lot. Raman does not have any dialogs, all of us try to interpret his expressions, and lucky for us, KP lives Raman Bhalla character and brings all these subtle nuances to his character. It is a credit to his acting, that even after the crass dialogs, we are all rooting for his redemption and realization of his mistakes and start clearing up the mess along with Ishita. Ishita has realized her mistakes and she is atoning for the same in bringing the family together and Ruhi back to where she belongs. Other than that she is not expecting anything, it is for Raman and Ruhi to claim her back, as she knows she has wronged Raman by leaving (it is the aftermath but still staying away for that many years..leaving a new born, but we know that Pihu has to be the same age as real Ruhanika).

In spite of it being both their decision to do the exchange, Ishita will feel more guilty as she was the last person to have Ruhi with her on the cliff and failed to bring her back in spite of her best efforts and indirectly responsible for the torture and lost childhood of Ruhi. She came into the Bhallas for Ruhi's happiness and being the gentle, empathetic beautiful soul that Ishita is, it is devastating that she brought so much pain to the little child and the family. It would have been a beautiful track if Cvs focused on child abuse and after effects instead of the crass dialogs to a 14 yr old. This is hard to digest, because however angry you are on your mother, disrespect and insulting is a totally different ball game. Kids insulting and elders staying mute has always been like this with Bhallas. Adi's case, Ruhi's case and now Pihu. They bend over backwards for the kids and the kids take advantag of this. This brings in TRPs🤢 because the FL lead cries. ML is shown as helpless. Ishita is finding some little bit of light in this dark situation, to boost her morale..not throw in the towel and just leave..she cannot afford to let Ruhi go to Nidhi at any cost. But what values..so in anger kids can insult elders and talk disrespectfully..Pihu asking a guest to go away in front of everyone is ok..the sisters love each other so much..Ruhi's "IS AURAT" took all my sympathy from Ruhi's suffering..She has seen Raman utter lot of nonsense at Ishita and now she is doing the same..but kids crossing a generation and saying such stuff is so not done and why the dig at Mihir just because Ishita is supporting him...

Shagun is not worth mentioning. SHe does not have confidence on her love because she knows it is selfish. Raman tends to overlook or disregard one kid over the other..he was confident of Ruhi, so he overlooked her feelings sometimes when he was obsessed with Adi. Now he is confident of Adi, so he disregards his feeling..and pushes/slaps him around and now he is focused on Ruhi. Once Adi and Ruhi are all sorted out it will be Pihu/Shagun drama. Emotional blackmail, Ishita trying to go away..etc. Ruhi does not want Ishima to go away from the Bhallas, because she knows without her the house will be broken, no happiness..so why come to the Bhallas. In nafrat also she wants to be with Ishima, cannot stay away from her..she wants Ishima to know how much she has suffered..and wants all the pampering she can get. But without Ishima in the house, she is not going to get it because Shagun does not have in her to heal Ruhi. Without Ishita, Raman will not know how to heal Ruhi also. Both need her..Ishita needs the unconditional acceptance from Raman to heal..

Ranted too much, not sure I made sense. @sunitas & @Raji - love your comments on the episode. @Viji - miss your reviews also.

Originally posted by: ishrafan_us

Maya good review..👏 loved all bold points..

I did watch it..

Epi started with Raman bringing food for Ishita into the room. When she asked why brought in the food she could've come downstairs he said he thought she would be upset so brought the food upstairs. Not only that him saying he already ate..

Ok this is where I'm totally lost. Firstly he saw how hurt Ishita was with what happened with both Pihu and Ruhi and so nothing to say about it.? So let her wallow in misery alone ? I totally lost it here.. because this is not the Raman we

Were introduced pre leap who could read her hurt and be by her side to make her feel better.

Secondly her both daughters insulted her and she was all alone and he ate dinnet and brought food for her? Unbelievable..so what is she? A wife? He didn't care for her hurt and he had his normal life.. finner on time etc. A guest ? So not only Raman no one wonders whether she eats or not..

Nice after his dinner he brought her food and actually fed her. anyways this is all an act so he can have his normal life..

Then the conversation about her hurt. She clearly said when my both daughters didn't want me in their life i wanted to leave for their happiness. He did look to the side .. sure he felt bad.. but I felt when she mentioned for their happiness she meant it like if someone wants her sway from them she would do it.. then the fb of what she saw and that made her happy.. because the bond Pihu and Ruhi are developing now is almost like Ishita and Ruhi.'s.. dil ka rishta. She then went on telling how it made her feel that their daughters can take care of each other and stand for each other. When she said how Pihu doesn't know Ruhi is ger sister Raman looked away feeling uncomfortable. Then comes the crux of the hurt. She mentioned though people call her as sauteli ma and baanjh she never felt that way with Ruhi. Because for her it's again dil ka rishta. Though when she said this he looked away..

but I'm not convinced that he understood her hurt.. yes. He looked tad bit ashamed.. but it should've hit him a little harder.. yes people called her baanjh but other than him no one called her sauteli ma.

Remember the first anniversary scene at the hotel where she poured her heart out saying how people used to call her baanjh that time he expressed more pain that literally made you believe how much that word hurt him more than her.. but he added lot more to her titles and today it wasn't that heart touching for me..

He is still not getting her hurt and been immune to her pain..

Then comes the photograph. Yes Amma couldn't explain because that's not the time nor it should be her telling.. but then Pihu runs to her dadi..

Maya this is for you:

So here is my thought about Pihu asking her dadi.. it's a natural reaction.. because it happened with Amma and since she couldn't answer for her the next logical person is her dadi.. you know grand mothers know more sort of thinking.. if one doesn't know then the other one might or

take it this way too.. in the past in lots of sticky situations it must be Toshiji who made Pihu believed in all the crap they were sprouting at home. So it's natural for Pihu to run to her..

So all are shocked and uncomfortable but Adi, Ruhi both managed Pihu.. but Adi is clearly shown as not happy.

Though Raman looked uncomfortable he tried to make it light by saying he looked young and haar wali aunty looked old didn't go well with me.. atleast correct Pihu to say aunty or not to be repeated by Raman. It doesn't look comical but coming out as insensitive..

Again another point to highlight Shags upbringing.. Pihu saying how her mamma always told her to close the wardrobe doors.. felt like laughing..

Here she takes Pihu in the middle of apologizing to Ishita and there is a talks about closing wardrobes.. may be she is more worried about her designer bedsheet sarees and barely there blouses.

CVS are clearly smoking

Romi and Raman paratha scene.. the roti box clearly showed paratha s but they made it look like last paratha.. anyways still fairness continues.. but Romi genuinely giving Raman watch and as soon as tomi said Ruhi is not hear Raman demeanor changed..I didn't like it. Romi is in the house clearly for Ruhi but when she is not around can't Raman have normal conversation? I don't know how to interpret Raman anymore.

Aloo is becoming a headache. Adi explaining about mihir with alia really lost it's purpose.. it should've been in front of Ruhi so slowly Ruhi would've realized that there is always another view to any opinion.

Fuji's realization should come in small doses where it will sync in instead of giving a shock.. still irrespective of showing her crassness (btw should be toned down.. let her have outburst on her mother for the pain she went thru but not by judging every action of her mother) even Pihu.. please tone it down.. Pihu ha no connect with viewers.

Rest of characters..not interested..

Please no bashing.. if you don't like it don't read it.. this is my POV..

Madhavi, you wrote well.👏. thank you for liking my take.