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Posted: 9 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

Puttar is very hurt... With the fact madrasan leave him.. Aur kch woh samjana nai chahta

And the best one
tum badal gyi ho mein nai badla .. ( ws lyk he still waits for ishita he still wants her to sooth his pain... He still loves her).. Tum apne badlav mein khush ho mein nai baadla...



Bang on he is stuck with the fact that she left him for 7 yrs she didn't come back the ishita he knows could never leave irrespective of how rude n irrational he behaves with her it waa always like that they fought with each other this blame game was always there they had faced alot but still were together he is not able to digest the fact that she just left him n their kids for 7 yrs n slowly all that pain is coming out n he is opening up to her. But ishita won't open up or exert any right on him or pihu just coz of shagun so basically she needs to turn completely black so that she becomes a threat to pihu till then ishita won't say anything her being grey will not help coz as of now ishita is convinced that she is a very good mother.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: -K.13-



I don't think Ishita will fight for herself even after Ruhi is back and her and Adi support her

Why? Bc she is now just a sacrificing, guilty woman

Shagun's insecurity over Pihu and Ishita's sense of obligation to Shagun for raising Pihu to be a half decent person for 7 years will keep her from fighting for anything

It's only when Shagun outwardly changes or Raman chases her down that she will want to stay but if it's Raman who gets her back...then she'll still live in guilt about Shagun even if Pihu knows the truth


That's the reason for Shagun turning negative.. Frankly till now i did not feel her negative postleap by the scenes that were played.. She is insecure about her place which is common.. If its not Shagun that left Raman 7 yrs back and used her children as pawns i would have felt bad for her.. But then karma is a bitch!!
Anytime ..I would like to see Ishita fighting for her husband and children , ofcourse after proper conversations btw the leads..
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Posted: 9 years ago
#53
Jst loved the scene...i m happy he is opening up n only to ishita...his resolve is breaking..
The way he said u dudnt even try to find out i m dead or alive...it must b so difficult for him his love committed suicide n that too bcs of him ..atleast ishita knew he is alive n may b happy too...
He clearly said i m the same raman n stuck at the same place u left ...i wont change..still will wait for her indirectly said...the day he realized she actually left him his past came alive he is not worthy of love...his daughter too didnt contact him..both were alive bt didnt want him.


Liked ishita too after raman left...ishita needs to speak up..she too needs to open up probe him more...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

raman is giving justification to himself..." Ki mein tumhare nazdeek nai a raha im jst helping u ... Bt uske expressions ne sabh bol diya
Woh nai jana chahta ishita ke karib coz scared of rejection heartbreak...
Bt actl dil hei ke mananta hi nai ..
Woh kheecha ja raha madrsan ki taraf ...
Ajj usne madrasan ko kitna ghoora mano maan mein sich raha ho madrasan kitni sexxy ho gyi hei..


He was checking her out when she was dressing up it was so evident he had a smile on his face as well
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Posted: 9 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: bscorp13

I think no...it was never discussed. .plus mani almost losing his legs trying yo save her..that's why she was with him for 7 yrs..
That's the big reveal for raman ..which will tell him ishita never wanted to leave him..het mind talk today..I never wanted to n leave you too... you don't know how much psin i was in too..

That's the big dhamaaka😆


Post leap the only complain I have with the CVs are the below the belt dialogs they gave Raman [I still remember the RKB who apologizes to appa in the initial episodes. Sigh]. Otherwise, every character you analyze has kind of taken an easy way out to compromise with the 'manhoos raath' as Toshiji puts it. Every character can see his/her pain/loss but not really what others might be going through!

Take Romi, the night becomes the last straw. He refuses to see that his bhai and family are in pain, he can only see that he was beaten up and ends up pairing with Ashok. Mihika also thinks jiju is wrong and so sides with Romi. Ruhi comes back and you see Romi is now slowly beginning to see what a mess the whole situation is. He still won't forgive his bhai but Ruhi is special, he can come back to the family for her.

The Bhallas - big hit since they loose their beloved Ruhi and Ishita but then they have a small infant to raise. Can they do it alone? Sure they can but Shagun moves in for whatever reason and they let it happen since it is a more convenient arrangement. Do they think of the consequences that might arise later for Pihu? Not really. So now they are faced two granddaughters one who thinks that they traded her and one who does not know of her sister or mother. Now what?

Ishita - she is the deep one - will internalize all her feelings and hope she gives the least discomfort to anyone. She is broken and believes that she is the cause of bad luck to her loved ones. Can she rise over that and see the pain her departure caused to Raman, her parents and in-laws? She did not do so until she returned and saw the reality. But she cannot become JKR overnight since there is no Pihu to consider.

Raman - always the one to fly off the handle (and Ashok uses that as a trigger very effectively!). Can he see that other folks are in pain? Of course not. He has convinced himself that he is the only victim. As for his 'redemption' it will come and going by yhm standards, they will have him guilt ridden for days (and mostly in inactive state although fans will hope he is the guy that will save the day)

The point in all these though that none of the adults can see what they are putting the kids through.. Adi has shaped up to be a beautiful person inspite of the chaos around him. Ruhi, like her dad, has reasons to believe that she is only victim. Pihu who the CVs will most likely use as at the person to solve the whole mess, has so much love and yet lives a life without knowing her true identity.

CVs have lots of matter to drag this track for eons, given the high TRPs:) As of now, we have to wait for that trigger when Mani or Aaliyaa blurts out what happened to Ishita. I think Ashok and Nidhi will be the cause for that to happen!



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Posted: 9 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

raman is giving justification to himself..." Ki mein tumhare nazdeek nai a raha im jst helping u ... Bt uske expressions ne sabh bol diya
Woh nai jana chahta ishita ke karib coz scared of rejection heartbreak...
Bt actl dil hei ke mananta hi nai ..
Woh kheecha ja raha madrsan ki taraf ...
Ajj usne madrasan ko kitna ghoora mano maan mein sich raha ho madrasan kitni sexxy ho gyi hei..

he ws not able to take his eyes off...n then mai taad nahi raha... 😆 ..i ws like yeah v know tum kaha taad rahe ho ..ishita taad rahi hai tumhe.. 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

raman is giving justification to himself..." Ki mein tumhare nazdeek nai a raha im jst helping u ... Bt uske expressions ne sabh bol diya
Woh nai jana chahta ishita ke karib coz scared of rejection heartbreak...
Bt actl dil hei ke mananta hi nai ..
Woh kheecha ja raha madrsan ki taraf ...
Ajj usne madrasan ko kitna ghoora mano maan mein sich raha ho madrasan kitni sexxy ho gyi hei..

frm his expression even i felt that he is thinking ki madrasan kitni sexy lag rahi hai😆
bt still the point is he doesn't knows where he stands in ishita's life and ishita doesn't know where she stands in bhalla family
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Posted: 9 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: sky-if



Post leap the only complain I have with the CVs are the below the belt dialogs they gave Raman [I still remember the RKB who apologizes to appa in the initial episodes. Sigh]. Otherwise, every character you analyze has kind of taken an easy way out to compromise with the 'manhoos raath' as Toshiji puts it. Every character can see his/her pain/loss but not really what others might be going through!

Take Romi, the night becomes the last straw. He refuses to see that his bhai and family are in pain, he can only see that he was beaten up and ends up pairing with Ashok. Mihika also thinks jiju is wrong and so sides with Romi. Ruhi comes back and you see Romi is now slowly beginning to see what a mess the whole situation is. He still won't forgive his bhai but Ruhi is special, he can come back to the family for her.

The Bhallas - big hit since they loose their beloved Ruhi and Ishita but then they have a small infant to raise. Can they do it alone? Sure they can but Shagun moves in for whatever reason and they let it happen since it is a more convenient arrangement. Do they think of the consequences that might arise later for Pihu? Not really. So now they are faced two granddaughters one who thinks that they traded her and one who does not know of her sister or mother. Now what?

Ishita - she is the deep one - will internalize all her feelings and hope she gives the least discomfort to anyone. She is broken and believes that she is the cause of bad luck to her loved ones. Can she rise over that and see the pain her departure caused to Raman, her parents and in-laws? She did not do so until she returned and saw the reality. But she cannot become JKR overnight since there is no Pihu to consider.

Raman - always the one to fly off the handle (and Ashok uses that as a trigger very effectively!). Can he see that other folks are in pain? Of course not. He has convinced himself that he is the only victim. As for his 'redemption' it will come and going by yhm standards, they will have him guilt ridden for days (and mostly in inactive state although fans will hope he is the guy that will save the day)

The point in all these though that none of the adults can see what they are putting the kids through.. Adi has shaped up to be a beautiful person inspite of the chaos around him. Ruhi, like her dad, has reasons to believe that she is only victim. Pihu who the CVs will most likely use as at the person to solve the whole mess, has so much love and yet lives a life without knowing her true identity.

CVs have lots of matter to drag this track for eons, given the high TRPs:) As of now, we have to wait for that trigger when Mani or Aaliyaa blurts out what happened to Ishita. I think Ashok and Nidhi will be the cause for that to happen!





Bingo

Everyone has made this about themselves - Raman and Ruhi can't get out of their own hurt, Ishita takes everything and adds it to her own hurt at the fact she "caused" this, and so on so forth

These kids have suffered the most, and Ruhi should feel her hurt is the biggest bc the reality is - Ishita & Raman lived sad but comfortable lives for 7 years with people who loved them. What and who did Ruhi have? A beating stick?

That is all Ruhi had for 7 years - being abused...her only constant companion. So I don't blame her for her believe that her hurt is the most bc even now Raman can't fully get out of his woe is me & Ishita can't get out of her wow is me to fully commit to helping Ruhi with this half baked scheme of playing fake house. That is why I'm excited for the bday sequence bc IshRa are getting better at being selfless for Ruhi - it's slow but they are becoming the parents we know they can be.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: kaa1202


Bhoot track is enough Priya..

They butchered her such that she failed both as a daughter & mother...

For the original standard that was such a drag down...


Karthik, naan othukaren, she even failed miserably as a wife in bhooth track. When Raman was royally butchered in the Surrogacy track the whole forum bashed Raman left, right and center. Even we were in the list of people who condemned Raman for his senseless act and how it was a huge blunder. But then when Ishita did all that nonsense in the bhooth track, the whole perspective changed here in the forum. Was it considered as a butchering or failure of Ishita ??? 🤔... Well, as far as I observed, it was a big no. It was being portrayed as Ishita could go to any extent to save Raman and her family. That is where the difference lies.

Anyways, I love both Raman and Ishita and cannot hate either of them. I actually want to write a lot but am not able to with my left hand. So will rest my point here. 😃

Cheers
Priya
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Posted: 9 years ago
#60
Glad to see one positive post, thank you so very much for making one 🤗

Indeed, finally we are getting his perspective and a view of what he underwent in the last 7 years, which has been masked by his anger all along. But his walls have been breaking ever since Ishita has come back, he's facing the truth he had been denying so far.

Since every time he expresses his feelings, people keep blaming him for what he did.. I'd just like to add. I am sure he's been guilty all along, but his pain over his family leaving him, or the fact that he lost them AGAIN has not just clouded his sense but also made him go into denial. It's easier to endure a separation thinking you're the victim, than accepting that you're also responsible.

I am sure, slowly and gradually he will be redeemed. Maybe never as effectively as it should be shown ( because this is a damn Indian soap) but he will be.

Edited by -Anku- - 9 years ago

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